Figured Id get a second opinion from more older experienced peeps from on here, right since I have finished college and got some good amount of down time before I head to university a male friend of mine recommended that I could perhaps go on some dates or group dates with some girls with a small group of people he knows and says are good people nut I personally am not that experienced when it comes to the whole dating scene since I spent most of my time so far on education, gym and part time work to pay bills so left little time for stuff like that really.

Part of me things that perhaps I should go along with the whole idea mainly for some experience and see if I meet any new interesting people are worth meeting, but that being said another part of me is thinking that it will be a waste of time  going along with this in total and that  some of these women might just be looking for a free meal ticket.

Any thoughts or opinions on the situation would be great .

– Casual Guy
<p class=”__web-inspector-hide-shortcut__”>Part of me thinks would be nice to play along just to get some experience out of the situation and</p>

I hope that helps you by giving you a look at how another MGTOW is handling the dating situation.

If you want to date do it once you finish school and have a good job. However never spend a dime on the whores, it’s either dutch or f~~~ off. Otherwise women will slowly use you. Don’t be an emotional punching for her either.

By all means, anytime she wants to take me out on a date she can ask!

No need to worry about dating on campus  the dating situation that my friend suggested wont have anything to so with university since I am on summer holidays right now and soon as I go university it shall be all I focus on and my studies so I overall wont have to worry about dating on campus.

About the dutch comment I will ensure to follow that one to the letter since she can pay for herself.  Not too sure what you are meaning about the emotional punching for her, could you perhaps give me an example just to understand it a lil better that would be awesome thanks.

– Casual Guy

Btw you are not her therapist and shouldn’t be. You shouldn’t feel the need to save her if you do you need to bail ASAP.

http://blogs.psychcentral.com/unplugged/2012/04/borderline-personality-disorder-emotional-punching-bags/ Btw you are not her therapist and shouldn’t be. You shouldn’t feel the need to save her if you do you need to bail ASAP.

Thanks will give it a read and don’t worry I don’t plan to save any one haha if I do go the main objective of the thing will be for me to have fun not turn any one into a saving project.

– Casual Guy

The risk you have of not dating whilst younger is that later in life, your lack of experience may be you downfall and you might end up in worse traps.  As you are young now, I will assume you aren’t financially rolling in it etc, so any “woman damage” at this stage won’t be much.  But once you are qualified and a future CEO, or whatever, then you will have MUCH MORE to lose.

Not only this, but I truly believe that dating and “finding yourself” will help you in the rest of life, not just romantically.  In my early and mid 20’s I was a serial dater – even women I didn’t fancy, as I thought that LOGICALLY, I could still learn something.  Interacting with others helped me to learn more of myself and now, at 31, I feel like an absolute power house with well defined personality boundaries.  I know what I like and don’t like, I have established principles and belief system and it has an impact on EVERY part of my life.

It also gave me the Inner Courage to stand up for my MGTOW belief system as you *will* get more hassle as you get older – why aren’t you married, etc.  Build your “character” now, in your 20’s, as I believe 30+ is where the awesomeness of being a Man *really* picks up and I feel I am at my prime.

But of course, feel free to disagree 🙂

I would personally say Yes to having a go at dating – if you don’t look for anything too serious before university, you can treat the whole thing as experience. It would be better to make “life mistakes” sooner rather than later and with minimal damage so that you can maximise the experience gained. The risk you have of not dating whilst younger is that later in life, your lack of experience may be you downfall and you might end up in worse traps. As you are young now, I will assume you aren’t financially rolling in it etc, so any “woman damage” at this stage won’t be much. But once you are qualified and a future CEO, or whatever, then you will have MUCH MORE to lose. Not only this, but I truly believe that dating and “finding yourself” will help you in the rest of life, not just romantically. In my early and mid 20’s I was a serial dater – even women I didn’t fancy, as I thought that LOGICALLY, I could still learn something. Interacting with others helped me to learn more of myself and now, at 31, I feel like an absolute power house with well defined personality boundaries. I know what I like and don’t like, I have established principles and belief system and it has an impact on EVERY part of my life. It also gave me the Inner Courage to stand up for my MGTOW belief system as you *will* get more hassle as you get older – why aren’t you married, etc. Build your “character” now, in your 20’s, as I believe 30+ is where the awesomeness of being a Man *really* picks up and I feel I am at my prime. But of course, feel free to disagree

No I think that very good logical sense in quite a good way and will happily admit I never thought about it like that in a bigger picture to be rather honest about it. I will happily admit I do have a lot of stuff left to experience in life but I figured it would be good to get another person view on the matter and will take it under good consideration.

– Casual Guy