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I am a physician in Ohio. I got dumped by ex wife 6 years ago when my daughter was 6 months old. I share custody of her. I met my current wife online. She told me she was on the pill but she still got pregnant after a 3 month relationship. My current wife had just completed a three year divorce process from a psychopath wife/child abuser. Oh, and she had four kids with the creep. Knowing all this, I married her (I did love her, plus coming off a bad divorce of my own). She moved across town into a new house I bought. Her kids are now 13,13, 17, and 19. All of them live under my roof. My wife and I have a son together; he’s now 3. When my daughter is with me, we have six kids in the home

My wife doesn’t work. We decided together that the house would run smoother if she was around at all times

1) 4 teenagers (SK’s) in the house. The 14 yo boy is a behavioral issue. 25 holes in the walls. Swears like a sailor. Very demanding of his accommodating mother

2) My wife insists that she doesn’t want me disciplining the children. She wants to take care of all that. The kids have no chores or responsibilities. None. I work 80 hrs a week and do the lawn, take out the garbage, clean up the family room, etc etc. Nor do the older ones have jobs.

3) Money. I make a decent living as a doc. Buy my monthly expenses exceed what I bring in. My wife doesn’t work. There is no financial support for the sk’s. I pay food, gas, cars, insurance, bills, sports fees, etc etc. I gave my wife a credit card for household expenses. Every month I pay $6-8000 bill. And when our son is 5 and off to school my wife plans to go back to work but only to earn money for her kids to have college paid for. I have a 3 and 6 year of my own. There will be no reserve for them

4) My wife sees my daughter as a threat. Anytime I do anything with her one on one she sulks and gets p~~~y. I now have to conceal our daddy/daughter time from her

Im a mental wreck. I can’t go on much longer

Ive considered therapy. Not sure how it would improve things. Wife pretty inflexible when it comes to her kids. This life demands a Christ-level degree of humility/self sacrifice. I dont know if I have it in me. Worn out. 

S~~~ man I feel pretty dumb right about now. This woman is a relentless shrew. Somehow- despite paying mortgage, bills, SK’s food/braces/medical bills/sports equipment, two new cars, etc etc—she spins the situation as me being an asshole for demanding her kids do something around the house other than satisfy every immediate desire that floats through their brains. The funny thing is, her parents are ultra wealthy but don’t help out other than to lavish the 4 SK’s with ridiculous xmas and birthday gifts (for instance last xmas, every kid got a roll of 300 one dollar bills all taped together)

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Read how good she has manipulated this otherwise intelligent/successful man into believing the ex to be psycho/evil man and also trying to paint him an asshole for calling out on the unfair treatment

Don’t be this guy

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she spins the situation as me being an asshole for

Anonymous wrote:

also trying to paint him an asshole fo

Your reward for all of your hard work is that you will be the next asshole.

It is like you have an abscess that is growing and growing, causing more pain, you need to lance it and drain it, this you must do yourself, Mgtow will support you and help with any infection afterwards.

She’s ungrateful, she has massive baggage with no child support! Why no child support, does she even know who the real dads are?

Second marriage failure rate is about 70%, she has baggage 4 kids, she lets her kids destroy your house! She trapped you by not taking the pill.

You have been in a sea of red flags for a long time brother, start your exit strategy, develop a fake gambling or alcoholic addiction, caused by the stress of your failing relationship,  and store your cash at a friend’s place, then exit. After the divorce, go to a few AA or Gambling Addiction meetings to get over your problem to make it seem legit, all worth it.

Anonymous wrote:

My current wife had just completed a three year divorce process from a psychopath wife/child abuser.

Of course she was the victim in her previous relationship, and she will be the victim after she’s done destroying him in divorce court. He will become the second psychopath wife/child abuser in her life.

Thanks for the heavy dose of red pills!

Its some poor chap on a forum

I guess my screen wasn’t scrolled all the way up, and I missed the bottom, my bad, happy that it is not you iLearn!

This man needs help! I hope he never legally adopted these bastard children.

Its some poor chap on a forum I occasionally visit who I hope will find out about MGTOW.com and grow a pair.

Send him a private message on the forum and tell him about this site. He’s drowning and reaching out for some support, and he’ll get it here.

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This man needs help! I hope he never legally adopted these bastard children.

Depending on where he lives, he may end up paying child support for those four step kids even if he didn’t legally adopt them.

His situation is VERY bad!

The 14 yo boy is a behavioral issue. 25 holes in the walls

Hmmmm 25 holes? I’d make it 26 holes and one broken 2X4 stud! Hand that little bastard a razor knife, some sheet-rock (gypsum board) and some compound, Have “HIM” fix the walls! If not, use him as a wrecking ball to remove the rest of the wall! That little f~~~er, I’d have him looking like a ghost covered in dust! Spitting out chunks of wall board!

Thanks for the share, and for reinforcing my conviction of never getting married… EVER.