And of course, now I know she knows everything I’ve written here.

So have you guys ever been called ID’d publicly by someone you know?

I live in a very small country, it’s quite likely that someone i know is reading this forum and my posts. I don’t need the rumor mill. I’m going my own way so i want to be at peace.

That would only be a problem if there was any shame in it. There isn’t.

You’re actually extremely eloquent and very well put together. We live in a world where fresh air is “misogyny”. Women are going to have a problem with any man who says even the TAMEST stuff like: “Pay for her?? I refuse to treat women like prostitutes”. Say that out loud to a female IRL who expects a man to buy her dinner, and she will react like you just said something *controversial*. But she can’t nail you on it. That will even bother her more.

I have never been tagged with the 5 letters, per se, but one of my license plates has “MGTOW” on it in subtle combination with other characters. So If I ever come out of a restaurant or coffee shop and the car is all keyed up and dented, then I will know. I will post here with an update.

You didn’t mention the gist of the conversation or the outcome. Curious about that.

Did she say something like “I shall not be speaking to you anymore?”. A ex girlfriend of mine did that, when I totally MGTOW-ed her in an email. She wanted to get together for an afternoon while her husband was at work, and I told her my name is not “Justin Case”. I wouldn’t entertain her because she was unhappy as a wife and mother. “Bed. Made. Lie”. I thought she was going to kill me the next time we saw each other. But the next time I DID bump into her in a social setting, she ran and hid as far from me as possible.

A MGTOW mindset has only brought about good things.
I often wonder how wonderful things would be if I were MORE open about it.

Really. Did she give you any grief? Were others around? Was it ugly? Did she smile like she’s going to hold you hostage now? You’re actually extremely eloquent and very well put together. You didn’t mention the gist of the conversation or the outcome. Curious about that.

Thank you, whatever anger and resentment I may have felt about having to let go of my illusions, I’ve tried to keep my statements clean and positive and only put down what I feel I can stand behind.

We had been discussing another man we both know who was making some tragic white knighting moves and she said “he needs to have a good conversation with a MGTOW” and I said “I could do that.” I knew already that she’s a world traveler and a prepper who is open minded and self reliant so it was no surprise that she has a positive opinion of MGTOW. I just didn’t know she had been following my writing here.

Now I have to go back and see what exactly it was I said about smelling my own farts!

she has a positive opinion of MGTOW.

She has good taste, then.

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I just didn’t know she had been following my writing here.

Oh? Well she’s not the only one. Your thread “I don’t care about your baby” is like the number one visited thread in the forums. Easily in the top 3 (with non-registered visitors) It’s like someone on Facebook shared it or something. We don’t know where it was shared or distributed but it gets read quite a lot.

Oh? Well she’s not the only one. Your thread “I don’t care about your baby” is like the number one visited thread in the forums. Easily in the top 3 (with non-registered visitors) It’s like someone on Facebook shared it or something. We don’t know where it was shared or distributed but it gets read quite a lot.

Thank you, I got a huge laugh out of that! I’m glad to see my words are making an impression on someone. I may have to make myself a t-shirt!

BTW, I’ve had women stick their baby in my arms like they were passing around a toy or something — and I was practically a stranger. Don’t they have any sense at all?

I’ve never got the stealthing and don’t give a f~~~ about what other people think. We make our own opinions, so does everyone else, it’s a right everyone has. They have an issue they can call it out (though I disagree with the terming because ‘called out’ invokes a sense of shaming), bring it up, whatever. It’s not going to make a difference to the way I live my life, or make me censor my views in *any* company.

I love kids so much… that’s why I DON’T have any.

I agree with Nicolas Cage in “The Rock”. Sometimes I seriously think bringing kids into the world the way some people do is coldly considering an act of cruelty. Some parents feed a child deep fried French Toast and Orange Fanta for breakfast. That’s just about the next worst thing. They throw a Wii remote into a child’s hand instead of a violin. They send them off to watch TV instead of making them sit at the table with everyone. Justin Bieber birthday parties for 5 year olds?? Beauty pageants for fat little Suzies instead of ballet lessons or gymnastics. And the way the legal system systematically separates them from their fathers? Forget that s~~~.