The way I see it is, f~~~ dating. Laborious waste of time with no end result; or, there could be the end result I want but I’d have to wade through piles of bulls~~~ to get there, and then some. It’s not a clean affair and that’s my style. I *really* don’t like wasting my time for the slim chance of getting a f~~~, yet alone the fact that I haven’t been able to secure a single date in the past 3 years. My dating success has been like a rocket that didn’t even make it off the ground; it just blew the f~~~ up on the launchpad.

Emotionally and financially it makes complete sense. There *is* no emotion or s~~~ from her end and if I dated for a month, despite my best MGTOW effort, I’d probably end up paying more than the cost of a whore for the same period of time (assuming I did this regularly, for my well-being, once a month, which is pretty much the plan). I haven’t been laid in a while and I miss it; I don’t want to abstain forever. I just don’t want to be trapped.

All advice welcome: what to look for, what to watch out for, how not to get stung. Cheers in advance.

More like an hourly LEASE!

Youve got to be careful with this. Their tricks, and some of them will try and take your money and walk away without doing anything.

Best case scenario, if you have the time and are looking to make this a REGULAR encounter: Id go to a strip club. Find a girl you like, who really puts out slutty dances, and inquire if she does house calls. If shes comfy with you, youll get a discounted rate than market value, and get extra time and the GFE (GIRL FRIEND EXPERIENCE…I.E. kissing, etc).

I think that’s the safest route to go. Least safe is some CL ho, black book is a notch up but is PRICEY as f~~~. I called girls off their once and EVERY girl asked in a bitchy tone “where did you get my number?” So suspicious I was a cop, yet THEY themselves posted their phone numbers on the WORLD WIDE WEB, on a hooker site lol f~~~ing women.

Extra advice?

1. Wear a condom.  S~~~ double wrap it.

2.  Use a throw away phone.  Don’t let them get your actual phone number.  Keep the throw away phone for other encounters.

3.  Don’t take them home.  They can case your apartment/home and decide if you are worth stealing from.  Use a hotel/motel.

4.  Don’t ever, ever, ever, ever, give them your real name.

EDIT.

Oh wait!  This is what I do when looking to hook up.

Stupid story-

I was at a hotel. Got pretty loaded. Ordered a girl off craigs list. She finally shows up, looks not NEARLY as nice as her photo. She has a purse, and says she forgot the rubbers in her car. Leaves the purse in the room, making me think all is cool. Quite a few minutes go by. I grab her purse to look in it: its completely empty. Probably some $3 purse she got in Tijuana as a decoy. She never came back, and YES I already gave her the cash as that is THE first thing they want.

I was drunk, but theyll try that s~~~ even when your sober of they think they can get away with it. As a dude its more dangerous for you, because they can claim rape, and say they were there just to dance. Thats why Id go the strip club route to get a feel for the chick. Most of them arent going to claim rape, Im just saying they know this if they try and rip you off. They are holding the cards.

But I did laugh at ‘buying a whore’ ….  god no …. that’s called marriage 😆

I thought ‘buying a whore’ was more classy had a better ring to it than ‘hiring a prostitute’, sounds more like I’m owning my bitch instead of her owning me

The Politically Correct term for a hooker is “Sex Worker” which to me sounds worse than every other word for it. In actual fact neither one of you will buy or own the other, see it as a rental agreement, she is leasing you her body specifically pussy for the agreed amount of time and then you give it back to her when you are finished using it.

Just like when you lease a car or anything else. 😉

I can’t give you advice because I think America market is very different. In Italy there are some forums that review whores, some clients write about them, what they offer, if they look like the photos and if they are girlfriendly. Using those forums you can avoid every fraud and choose the best ones.

Follow also the good advices of Soldier-Medic.