We moved in together which marked legit adulthood for us because we finally left the coop.  He was an ambitious dude who took on the world and brought me up with him.  I was lazy but trying.  He had that burning desire to further his life and it was infectious for sure, and it was what I needed to get where I am today.  He phucked a few girls here and then but never kept them around.  I wasn’t getting any back then.

Post-relationship:
Fast forward to present-day.  He has been in a relationship with a single mom with an annoying two year old for almost a f~~~ing year.  She is (obviously) crazy.  She broke up with him and I told him how he wasn’t the same anymore and how he got complacent and he is letting this toxic relationship ruin his life.   I invested so much energy and advice into hoping that he would toss her to the side for BOTH of our well-being.  He was honestly kind of a friend AND father figure to me and the better HE did in life, the better I did.  He took her back like an idiot and I was crushed.
They make loud noise in the apartment complex all the time whether it be sex or arguing.  She brings too much drama into our house.  He seemingly spends every goddamn waking second with her and she is ALWAYS here…so much that he realized that our relationship was slipping because he was pussy whipped and only wanted to hang out with her and I just started doing my own thing and stopped investing so much useless energy into helping him out.

We made a deal to always have a saturdays bros night out to keep a healthy house.  It went well for a little bit until he started breaking the rules and letting her hang out with us on a couple occassions on saturday and even arguing on the phone with her the whole time we were out one time.  She eventually manipulated him and told him that she doesn’t like when me and him go out alone on the weekends because I’m single (bitch).
He spends time with her and her two year old son and complains about it all the time and i eventually told him that I am drawing my own boundaries and am staying out of his drama because it had a mental effect on me and I don’t want to get pulled in (because this bitch is a wrecking ball).  Now, he hardly talks about her drama and I’m glad for it (but he doesn’t have to because I hear it in the next room over anyway)….but when he does, all i say is “oh….yeah….uh huh” etc.

I am now the one who is extremely motivated and am f~~~ing different women on rotation.  I’ve tried talking to him about red pill stuff but he is too far gone.  I am honestly just waiting for this bitch to wreck his life (hopefully not too much) so he can learn his lesson.  He is 26 and playing daddy with a crazy single mom with an annoying 2 year old and she still just might be f~~~ing the baby daddy….who knows.  I’ve cleansed my hands of the situation for my sanity and am only worried about me at this point.  It’s frustrating to see ya boy who brought you up turn into a pile of beta mush, but what can you do.

I hope i never fall in love bros.

This has happened to men I know too. One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat. Oh well, they chose their paths in life, and I chose mine. That’s just about all we can do: Go our own ways and let others do the same, no matter what theirs may be.

It seriously infuriates me to see him being controlled by her strings.  It’s like seeing a feared lion roaring at the world turn into a freaking yippy chihuahua.  How the phuck does she have so much power over him?  (rhetorical question)

One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat.

One blowjob away from the blue pill.

RoyDal wrote:

One day they are confirmed bachelors, the next they are landed like a bass in the bottom of a fishing boat.

One blowjob away from the blue pill.

That’s a scary truth.

I typically do not have this driving determination in any other area of life, but this area almost destroyed me and I barely made out with my life.

It sucks to see it happening to other guys that you want to help and they seem set(up) for destruction.

4 yrs ago, I was beyond a lost cause (part time mangina & part time white knight)…

I can’t even tell you the cluster f~~~ of emotions and thoughts that used to fly through my head.

That damn divide & conquer strategy they use is like their ace of spades.

Of course, the getting pregnant is their wild card to me…

While the marriage/(victim)/divorce card is their Joker card

BlackPill wrote:

I am honestly just waiting for this bitch to wreck his life (hopefully not too much) so he can learn his lesson.

I hope so too, and the longer he is in her web, the more of a train wreck it will most likely be.

Make no mistake, he’s in a web, and the more he struggles, the more it ensnares him.

Sucks to hear that, but agree on your mental health man.

“A man has got to know his limitations” Clint Eastwood

Some of my posts I have made have been extremely long winded, when I go to the relations~~~s, and marriage/divorce threads… I typically do not have this driving determination in any other area of life, but this area almost destroyed me and I barely made out with my life. It sucks to see it happening to other guys that you want to help and they seem set(up) for destruction. 4 yrs ago, I was beyond a lost cause (part time mangina & part time white knight)… I can’t even tell you the cluster f~~~ of emotions and thoughts that used to fly through my head. [b]That damn divide & conquer strategy they use is like their ace of spades.[/b] Of course, the getting pregnant is their wild card to me… While the marriage/(victim)/divorce card is their Joker card

BlackPill wrote:

I am honestly just waiting for this bitch to wreck his life (hopefully not too much) so he can learn his lesson.

I hope so too, and the longer he is in her web, the more of a train wreck it will most likely be. Make no mistake, he’s in a web, and the more he struggles, the more it ensnares him. Sucks to hear that, but agree on your mental health man. “A man has got to know his limitations” Clint  Eastwood

that p~~~ed me off the most.  My relationship with my best friend has been nothing but positive and for her to attempt to ruin that with her manipulative insecure bullsh it and for or to ACTUALLY WORK ON HIM makes me almost rage.   If ANY woman tried that with me, I’d either put that bitch in her place REALLY quick or drop her altogether.  I feel like I’m such a loser for having that much loyalty when others don’t.

Why on earth would anyone waste their 20s on single mothers? Seriously?

because pussy.