I was at the restaurant two nights ago, and I was sitting at the bar counter alone.  I don’t drink alcohol, but I love sitting at this bar because I can get my order in a lot faster.  I was surfing the internet on my phone while I was waiting for my food to arrive, and I saw a beautiful woman walk in a set next to some guys a few seats down from me.  A couple of minutes later she turned to me, pointed at the chair directly to my left, and asked, “Is there anyone sitting there?”  I told her no.  She then moved from where she was sitting and sat right next to me.  She kept trying to start a conversation with me, but I kept my eyes glued to my phone and I didn’t say a word to her.  After five minutes of her trying, I finally gave in and responded.  She turned out to be a very intelligent person and our conversation was definitely interesting and entertaining.  I red pill started wearing off and I started to think that I had finally come across a true American NAWALT!

Everything was going smoothly until she spoke a sentence which included a phrase which always causes my internal alarms to ring like a Catholic church bell at noon.  She quoted the phrase “MY SON”!  Like most of the MGTOW here, I always make it one of my top priorities to avoid single mothers.  I’m 32 years old, and I was thinking that this woman was in her early twenties.  Again, I was wrong.  She mentioned that her son was muscular.  I thought to myself, “how in the world could a kid be muscular?”  I asked her how old her son is and she told me that he’s 20 YEARS OLD!  :O  She then showed me a picture of him on her phone.  Her son is bigger than I am and looks older than I do.  I look like a kid compared to her son.  She asked me for my age, and I told her that I’m 32.  I asked her for her age, and she told me that she’s 42!!!  She’s a black woman, and that happens a lot with these black women.  They tend to look a lot younger than what they are.  My mother is 69 years old, but strangers think she’s 45 years old.  I made sure to tell her that I have no children and that I have my own place and everything.  Ionly did that to indirectly let her know that I’m more valuable than most of the guys she’s been dealing with.

It got worse.  The woman then told me that she has an ex-husband.  That’s another strike against her in my eyes.  I always avoid women who have ex-husbands.  Then she started complaining to me about one of her recent ex-boyfriends because he had apparently borrowed thousands of dollars from her and never paid it back.  She then complained about another boyfriend she had for 4 years, only to find out that he was already married to another woman for the entire 4 years.  Throughout the conversation, she mentioned her son about 50 times, I guess to try to get a reaction out of me.

Later in the conversation, she started comllaining about how lonely she was and that she wanted to have a companion because she doesn’t like going places alone.  I quickly responded with, “I enjoy going everywhere alone because it gives me the complete freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want it.”  She then told me that I’m selfish.  She also said, “I’m independent and I make a lot of money.  I can afford to go to 5-star restaurants and high class places.  If a man wants to be with me, then he should be able to pay for both of us to go to these places.  Since I can afford it, then I refuse to take anything less.”  I couldn’t believe what I was hearing!  I wish I could have recorded what she said so that I could play it for yall.  And she was the one calling ME selfish!

After about 2 hours of talking with her, I think she was expecting me to take her home with me.  I just got up, gave her a “Christian side-hug”, then walked out.  The look of disappointment on her face was priceless.  It’s as if she had invested all of her money into a single lottery ticket and lost.  She looked like she was about to cry.  She had tried so hard to make me want her.  It was like she had got rejected without even being rejected.  I was probably the first guy who didn’t ask to take her home.  I’m not sure, but I loved every second of it.  If she would have been childless and without an ex-husband, I still wouldn’t have invited her to my house, but I would have exchanged contact information so that would could have gotten to know each other better.

Women just can’t control the moaning t~~~ gland in their brains.

Oh well …. never mind. Maybe you made her go home and have a think.

They just can’t have a normal talk in a bar ….. another guy would never bitch like that.

But yeah…  The woman is actually very attractive, wealthy, well-educated, and intelligent.  She must have thought that those qualities would supersede the fact that she has a kid and an ex-husband.  Her son is already out of the house and going to college out of town, but that still doesn’t matter to me.  If her son has a kid, guess who’d be babysitting that kid.  The woman!  I’m not going to be competing against that kid for the woman’s time and attention.

After about 2 hours of talking with her, I think she was expecting me to take her home with me. I just got up, gave her a “Christian side-hug”, then walked out. The look of disappointment on her face was priceless. It’s as if she had invested all of her money into a single lottery ticket and lost. She looked like she was about to cry. She had tried so hard to make me want her. It was like she had got rejected without even being rejected. I was probably the first guy who didn’t ask to take her home. I’m not sure, but I loved every second of it.

It sure is satisfying watching women hit The Wall.

But it’s even better when you get to BE The Wall, isn’t it?

Be The Wall, gentlemen. Be The Wall.

After about 2 hours of talking with her

I would have left after she mentioned she was a single mom.

It’s like you need to detox to cleanse yourself after being around that.

You’re right.  I was very satisfied to see that woman like that.  I actually called my sister earlier today just to let her know what happened and how satisfied I was.  My sister was like, “Now I feel bad for that woman.  I can’t believe you treated her like that”.  I told my sister that I did that woman a favor by not wasting her time in a relationship that I never wanted to occur in the first place.

She even offer to buy ME a drink!  I meant to mention that in my original post.  That’s why in the original post I said I don’t drink alcohol.  I actually rejected that woman’s offer to buy me a drink 😀