It started off with how my oldest  son was going to be in a bad mood today. This was followed by a crap load of text while  she knew I took him to the movies, followed by more texts message when I took one of my daughters out to get sometime from the store. Followed by more texts about money when she knew  I took my younger sons out while eating dinner and then even more texts, emails and calls when she found out I changed the locks on the house  that we have up for sale.  Last week she came into the house and started taking pictures of the house –after she moved most of her and the kids stuff out!!!

I hung up on her when she starts to scream and curse at me on the phone.  She curses and I always hang up ( its the best thing to do to not get baited into  a stupid argument )  That’s usually followed by more calls and eventual the emails threatening  court actions because she says fears for her children’s safety due to my lack of concern and deceitfulness  ( P.S. — I think I will hand her a mirror when she says this)

So when does this crap finally end and she realizes I no longer jump and run to put out the fires (arguments) she most always starts? This is the question of the day!!!!

Because they can.

$20k cash that I’ll never see again, in the hopes of not having to deal with her again.  And this is my reward?

Of course, BG, she’s trying to rile you up and maybe set you up.  She’s miserable and wants you to be miserable also.  May I suggest that you only respond to absolutely necessary topics (children).

And yes, the argument baiting is just that.  Baiting.  She’s upset and wants you to be too.  It’s that simple.

Good luck, brother.  And maintain your cool.

That’s usually followed by more calls and eventual the emails threatening  court actions because she says fears for her children’s safety due to my lack of concern and deceitfulness

Interesting. Is she admitting an inability to parent? What’s she doing with custody?

Threaten court actions to take the kids away from her if she’s unfit to parent.

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I swear, stories like this (including the once from YAZ ^^^ ) sure looks a lot like they are waiting to be PAID more money TO F~~~ OFF. Thats’ why Exes won’t leave you alone. They want to be be PAID to GET LOST. Every woman’s wet dream.

Good luck

 She curses and I always hang up ( its the best thing to do to not get baited into  a stupid argument )  That’s usually followed by more calls and eventual the emails threatening  court actions

I have always preferred to do the same thing.  Back in my younger, reckless, bluepillish days I learned that women simply NEED you to fight them to feel like you care.

Before I learned this I had many a girl stop seeing me simply because I preferred to avoid conflict with them.  Of course it was stated in terms such as: “you just don’t seem to care”, or “your emotionally unavailable”.  Once I learned to pretend to argue and enjoy the ensuing makeup sex I never had the problem again.

I am, of course, not advocating that you argue and sleep with your ex.  That would be counterproductive.  Just offering a parallel example of the same neurotic behavior that exists in the overwhelming majority of women.  Just tell her “really honey…. it’s not me, it’s you”.  lol I kid.  Good luck with the sale of the home and the rest.  I have never been married but I DO have some small experience with the PITA that is the sale and division of assets so I feel for you brother.  It’s gotta be 100 times more difficult with the little ones involved.

It’s truly amazing!! I got 48 freakn text message today from the ex wife today. Can someone please tell this woman we are no longer married?

I love the text message, anything is better than hearing your ex’s voice on the phone for an hour, I’d rather go to the dentist.

With the lovely text message, you have everything down in words, you can’t yell over each other, and they have to think before they write out “bastard” “dick” “asshole” and if they do, all the text messages can be saved for later.

Most importantly, you don’t have to pretend you’re listening. I hate having to pretend I care about the moronic opinions of most women, that are largely uninformed and emotionally based.

God bless the text message, another wonderful invention of nerdy men….that the normal woman who remains busy having wrecks while texting “lol” will never research or learn.

It can be a little expensive to keep one on retainer for this stuff, but it’ll save you money and hassle in the long run.

The moral of the story is – divorce them while they still have SMV and can secure the next host with no problems

I am so glad that my ex found a super mangina (it took her less than a week after I kicked her out), she’s remarried and doesn’t bother me anymore. I really hope it lasts for another 11 years (which I seriously doubt given the 7-3-3-1 statistic on marriages). But she’s pretty, so I have my hopes up she will eventually become a trophy for some rich mangina The moral of the story is – divorce them while they still have SMV and can secure the next host with no problems

Sorry forgive my ignorance, what’s the 7-3-3-1 statistic on marriage?  (tried google + MGTOW search function, didn’t find anything but it sounds interesting)  I’m a stats guy, what can I say.  I’m all about economic incentives.