The first type of deflection you can expect is one implying you have some kind of moral issue.
But it’s not moral issue. It’s a LEGAL issue.

So every argument that doesn’t address the legal issue fails:

• “Not all women are like that”
• “You’re so cynical.”
• “You just need to find the right woman.”
• “Quit being so negative.”
• “Man up, you coward and get over it.”
• “You’re just intimidated by a strong woman.”
• “You’re looking for women in all the wrong places.”
• “You’re just bitter.”

Every such attempted deflection hurled at men sounds exactly like that. As far as they are concerned, you’re “just whining and complaining”…. until they figure out you’re smarter than they think. If you don’t think the world thinks men are stupid, guess again. Google “men are stupid” and marvel at 132 million results. If that’s not enough for you, then type “men are” into a search box and see what comes up.

When you’re not stupid like everyone thinks, they get really, really p~~~ed off. You don’t even need to be a genius. You can just not be a complete moron, and it infuriates them beyond recognition. That’s where the “shaming tactics” come from. But that’s not your problem. And because it’s not your problem, nobody gets to make it your problem. Today, 70% of men under 35 have not signed a marriage contract, because they aren’t as stupid as society thinks.

You’re not in prison right now, so who’s problem is it?

It’s every aspiring bride’s problem. It’s the wedding industry’s problem, and it’s the divorce industry’s problem. They will all have a problem with you – because you’re not stupid. Somewhere out there, 70% of women under 35 won’t get their wedding, the ring, the cake, the dress, the emotional masturbation ritual in front of all 1500 facebook friends and family…. and they will never get to collect a monthly check for being a s~~~ty wife. Now you know what to tell her:

“Not all men are like that. Some are still stupid enough to marry you.”

Don’t worry about her reaction. She’s just bitter.

“Gerty, we’re not programmed. We’re people. Understand?”

“I do not know what I may appear to the world, but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the seashore, and diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary, whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.”

The critical failure in Sandman’s analysis is exactly the same as everyone else’s in the societal matrix – blindly assuming MGTOW exist because “they must have been hurt by women” whilst perpetuating that “you’re just bitter” nonsense, and “you need to get over it”. The crafty use of the word “coward” is commonly hurled at men to imply bravery is somehow required to sign a marriage contract – or even to interact with women at all.

The word “coward” is also very predictable and used to shame men who others will say are “afraid of a strong woman”, or they are “afraid of rejection” and “afraid of approaching women”. PUA’s (pick up artists) base their entire industry on that. They operate and generate an income by playing on male fear and insecurity. By trying to making a man feel inadequate, they hope he will pay them to learn to step up his “game”.

And what is a strong woman, exactly? Is that anything like a strong cheese?
Do you think she would have any problem holding her own in the presence of an even stronger MAN?
Or do you think she would be “afraid”.

MGTOW know better than to listen to that coward-shaming horses~~~ and refuse to subscribe to it. No courage is required to approach a woman. She’s just a woman, not a dentist’s chair. Her rejection is as meaningless as her approval. You don’t know her yet. Therefore she doesn’t MEAN anything to you. And since she doesn’t MEAN anything to you…. her “rejection” can’t possibly mean anything to you either.

Congratulations, you are now instantly cured of all female rejection anxiety.
There is zero skill or “fear” to get over. Only a true MGHOW can teach you that.

And only a complete idiot calls men “cowards” for not approaching, living with or marrying women.
Sandman hasn’t thought this through long and hard enough.

If you see a piece of doggy-doo-doo on the street and you have no interest in talking to it, picking it up, or playing with it… are you a “coward”? Not even close. You are simply not interested. You have merely determined that it fails a cost/benefit analysis, and this is sensible.

These are exactly the same transparent shaming tactics which instantly fall dead at a MGHOW’s feet and they are too easily deconstructed. Nobody will get away with it, and slapping a “MGTOW” label on your s~~~ doesn’t make you bullet proof, either.

It’s not a requirement to be devastated by women, or hurt financially and emotionally in a divorce to be MGTOW.
Just like you don’t need to personally murder someone to know that it’s WRONG.

MGTOW.com does not exist because we were flattened by a c~~~, cuckholded, divorced or p~~~ed off because some woman took something from us that she wasn’t willingly given. Smart people learn from their mistakes…. but smarter people learn from other people’s mistakes. MGTOW let their presence be known to educate other men, and to compare notes and experiences. Sandman is in no position to be shaming MGTOW for being “cowards”. With all the bulls~~~ non-MGTOW lectures he produces on “women’s shoes”, he failed to make a video on this very core fundamental.

There is a very clear difference between “bravery” and stupidity.

It doesn’t take “courage” to be in a cohabitation/relationship (or marriage).
It requires stupidity.

MGTOW is just common sense for Men.
Even someone not too bright can understand this.

MGTOW is not a bunch of men who wear the t-shirt because they have been financially raped, lost their homes & children, had their freedom destroyed, or brought to the point of suicide like Robin Williams. We are proof of that. We are still here. And on behalf of those who have been there, you will not use the word “coward” when speaking about them and get away with it.

MGTOW is a community of men – and the only community in the western world – where a MGTOW will have complete trust that he will be fully understood and never accused of being cowardly for making the sensible choice of opting out. He has too much respect for himself. Call him an asshole. Call him a jerk. He will love you for it. But imply that he’s a coward, and you must be high on your own supply. The military will also do it. The media will do it. Women will do it. Your friends and family will do it too. But when you turn on youtube and see another man claiming to be “MGTOW” lecturing you on how “cowardly” you are, you may as well just get a wife, commit financial suicide on the spot, and it forbids Sandman from wearing a MGTOW badge.

For two weeks, we worked hard to create a Sandman themed “Fighter Jet” homepage video – to welcome visitors to our website – complete with a synthethesized radio voice of Sandman making a greeting in his usual style. It’s no surprise we received no word back from him about it, although, he should have been extremely flattered. We didn’t even collect donations to create it, and produced it entirely at our own expense and time – just like our website. Sandman has also made no effort to reach out to us or to reply to any our comments and requests for contact. Odd behavior from a MGTOW when the dot com reaches out to say hello. Even AVFM welcomed us. But Sandman doesn’t give a damn about the best interests of men or anyone but himself.

So we have just stricken and pulled the Sandman video intro after seeing the above. Turns out he never left the plantation at all. Looks like he’s gone full Aaron Clarey and rolled over on MGTOW, or perhaps he met a NAWALT unicorn and was always just one blowjob away from the Blue Pill all along? Who can say, really. But in synch with the entire MGTOW philosophy, you can just answer that question with a “who cares” about his motivations. Actions – and inaction – are what matter.

He can now remove the artificial MGTOW label that reeks of fake Fendi from his videos – changing it to SMM (send me money) – and take his perpetual marketing somewhere else. Better to learn your MGTOW fundamentals from long established veterans like Barbarossa, Stardusk, Spetsnaz, Canadian MGTOW, JohnTheOther, MGTOW in forums, and other veterans who are just too many to list. Contrary to popular opinion, the MGTOW worldview is much bigger and more important than ourselves.

Helping other men out, and saving their lives.

*video by MGTOW vlogger Barbarossa.
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Merely not embracing something is very different than setting out against it.
This can be understood by anyone with an iota of common sense.

However, the Church and feminists operate in a similar way. The reaction to simply NOT subscribing to the belief systems they project unto you, NOT quietly swallowing their pill, or NOT giving them money they want …. will earn you a front row seat in hell where you will burn for all eternity. They will decide you must be a “woman hater”. You are an “anti-feminist”. You are conspiring in “the war on women“. You are a sexist MISOGYNIST!

What a vivid imagination.

Imagine if there really were a “war on women”… and men actually showed up.
Now try and imagine Men not giving a s~~~, and you will be one step closer to reality.

It gets hilarious when MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) are frequently confused with MRAs (Men’s Rights Activists). If you simply don’t tolerate any feminist bulls~~~ in your personal life, you are now an “MRA”. It’s remarkable. They are completely unaware of the difference. In fact, we have received numerous emails asking if we have any affiliation with Paul Elam or “The Men’s Rights Movement”. Some have even asked us if we ARE Paul Elam. And ho boy, are they off the mark.

But MGTOW is not a “movement”. It’s an individual lifestyle choice. The terms are set by the individual – and no one else. These terms may vary. Nobody but a MGHOW gets to have an opinion on it. Nobody else will outline it. Nobody is permitted to define it. Nobody who is not a MGHOW will dictate what is (or is not) acceptable within the MGHOW sphere as a personal lifestyle choice. One might have a girlfriend. One might shag women like a beast, but refuse to give any of them a key to his life. Another might already have been married for 10 years before he awoke and embraced the philosophy…

But one thing always remains consistent. We stay in our own lane.
“Own” is the operative keyword in Men Going Their Own Way.

The success of MGTOW is not dependent on an army who wield swords in unison and charge into battle with guns blazing. That is for feminists and MRAs. MGTOW do the opposite. They drop their swords and shields, turn their backs and opt not to engage as a winning strategy – by doing nothing. If you’re rusty on this, read a little Sun Tzu. “The Art of War”.

Less effort that battling. More effective results.

A woman may shamelessly enter the men’s room and believe she has a “right” to be there simply because the line up for the ladies room is too long. For this, she should expect to be told to get the f~~~ out, or she will be p~~~ed on. That’s not “misogyny” or “anti-female” or a “war on women”. She just needs to be educated with a basic lesson in boundaries – which she should have learned when she was 5.

E-Harmony will shamelessly publish an article attempting to ram advice for you down the public throat… which lectures Men in the most condescending way on “15 reasons to date a single mother“. For this, they should expect Men to show up and give them 150 reasons NOT to date a single mother.

An MRA might get it into his head to lecture MGTOW on what is (and is not) an acceptable lifestyle choice. For this, he should expect to be p~~~ed on too. For he has not learned a lesson in boundaries either, and would be best rewarded by staying in his own lane – lest he gets a fender dented.

In all of these situations the solution is apparent and very simple.
Get the f~~~ out. And shut the f~~~ up. Then you won’t have any friction.

Stop selling your s~~~ sammich to people who aren’t buying.
Because if you kick a MGHOW’s leg…. you should expect him to break yours.

( only in spirit, of course. )

*video entitled “MGTOW Fascists? LOL!” by MGTOW vlogger Barbarossa. Subscribe to him on youtube.

Watch unofficial Part II here »

If this is you, we are happy to welcome you.

Tremendous to see men arriving at their own stream of consciousness well before a nasty divorce – even in some cases while still quite content. It may be to learn how to adjust their stance, reclaim some agency, outline their own needs and wants as part of the deal… but whatever the reason, we welcome all Men from all facets who somehow found their way here on their journey.

Barbarossa offers his take on this.
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Bravo to these masterful mavericks of the Manosphere.

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*Video by MGHOW vlogger “Barbarossa”. His series is outstanding and required. Subscribe to him on youtube.

How is it possible that hundreds (or even thousands) of men would spend years building a “mother”-ship, and on the final day just before it’s “maiden” voyage, a woman is invited to crack a champagne bottle across it’s bow? Are we really to believe that years of back breaking male labour, engine construction, understanding and applying the physics of buoyancy are not enough to let a ship sail successfully…. and “she” will sink unless “she” makes the most minimal of contributions by smashing glass against it?

*Video by MGHOW vlogger “Barbarossa”. His series is outstanding and required. Subscribe to him on youtube.