https://youtu.be/-tCxRO67gyk

This film, “A Single Man” is about a gay man in the 60s. It treats the male body as an erotic, beautiful instrument, attractive simply for existing, not because it is functional. And as a straight male, it blew my mind, because I realized that this idea is completely ignored by any heterosexual-oriented storytelling.

Watch this movie. I found it incredibly eye-opening. And this morning as I walked among everyday people I was blown away at how non-beautiful the modern, heterosexual male is expected to be. Completely de-eroticized. Hair clipped short and functional; facial hair completely shaved; modular, functional clothing emphasizing functional muscles and concealing and de-emphasizing the sex organs.

“All women are beautiful.”

Consider the source.

Men are visually oriented.  Women may be also but who f~~~ing cares?  We’re talking about man stuff here.  Anyway, we have to ask ourselves, who would want to see visual representations of male form that emphasized its beauty.  Women and homosexual men.

Okay why are heterosexual men not at least able to look at the male form and say, “that’s a good looking guy”?  I think for a couple of reasons

Despite today’s modern attitudes about male sexuality, for the most part we are still brought up and instilled with the fear of being homosexual.  “Are you gay or something?”  “That’s gay.” “That dude is so gay.”  So you can see that even with humor among males, there is passing ridicule that questions your sexual orientation.  I have a fifteen year old son.  I can honestly say that he is a good looking kid.  Not because he is mine but that’s just a fact.  He’s going to be sixteen soon.  He is tall, muscular, ruggedly good looking face, dark brown eyes, thick brown hair and has an infectious smile.  He doesn’t have a girlfriend or date at all.  Not because he is gay, but because he finds the bulls~~~ from girls his age to be annoying.

It’s perfectly okay to say this about my son.  But if I were to say the same thing about a juvenile male that is not family, then I am a pedophile.  If I say the same thing about another adult male, then I am gay.  If you discount this then the next time you are in a coffee shop then make a passing comment to another dude about how a man in line for coffee is good looking.

Another reason I believe is accurate is that appreciation for the male form in heterosexual men is not inherently male in appearance.  By this I mean, if you were at an art exhibit with with a woman or several women, in which there was sculptures of naked men, it would be legitimate to comment about style, technique, who the artist was, and how well the form was captured.  But if you say that it is beautiful in front of bunch of women then may (or may not) be doubts about your masculinity by the other women.  More fear, but it stems from the concern from having access (intimacy) with one or more of them.  Despite today’s attitudes, we (men in general) are still concerned with how we are perceived by women.  If you doubt this, then see all previous discussions about women f~~~ing the alphas and cuckolding the betas.

In answer to your question, the best answer overall is fear.

But personally, I’m starting to not give a s~~~.  I have all of you to thank for that.

Really, that’s the bottom line – I’m afraid that if I point out male beauty, I will somehow lose the chance to f~~~ women.  Female sexuality, and the limitation of the supply therof, chokes males into abandoning their own beauty and putting women on a pedestal, in exchange for access to sex.

chokes males into abandoning their own beauty and putting women on a pedestal, in exchange for access to sex

Women have choked men in to abandoning everything they have, including our own dignity, in exchange for JUST the idea of sex.

There was a line and a song from Bambi “If you can’t say something nice, shush, say nothing.” Seems complimenting or saying something nice or positive these days brings ridicule, threats of harassment, shaming.

I can’t recall the actors name right now but I find him handsome. He has a deep voice, handle bar moustache, does the voice in Dodge truck commercials. I’ve seen him in a few westerns. He was in the movie “Roadhouse”. Do I want to pack his fudge or blow him? Not a f~~~ing chance. I probably wouldn’t cross the street to see him in person.

I think a new born calf or colt is cute, so is a puppy or kitten. I’ve slept with my parents two poodles. Does that make me into bestiality? I think not.

I just remembered his name. Sam Elliot. Total partial recall. : )

More fittingly than the fair sex, women could be called the unaesthetic sex.