MGTOWWhat now…where do I find purpose?! – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 15:17:59 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/page/485/#post-10383 <![CDATA[What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/page/485/#post-10383 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 18:33:12 +0000 TYE My 18th birthday is approaching (January 13th), and I have very little personal experience with womens predatory behavior, I have completely avoided the sting of the Wasp. I know I will die at peace a proud MGTOW man, but with me being so young what in the hell do I do until then !!! Most of a mans life is spent chasing ass, and kissing it, but for someone that knows the truth where do we find purpose?! Even brain dead matriarchy males (the feminist zombie) are given the illusion they’re living for something, but I want to truly have a purpose in life, and a reason to wake up everyday. Should I just work to fund my personal ambitions (which will be easy to do without a woman, or children)?! My fellow MGTOW brothers…i’m truly lost I know only temporary happiness can be obtained with a woman, and that true happiness is out there, but where how do I find it?!

It’s like a master, and slave you’ve been a slave for so long guided by your master (the system) that now when you’re free you have no idea what to do !

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10388 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10388 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 19:03:12 +0000 Ishmael We make our own purpose in life brother. You’ve already adopted the idea that you’re going to live free of chains so all that remains is for you to find your passion in life and run towards it. Set a goal and day by day carve out a path towards it. It’s the most primitive and yet most fulfilling way for a human being, or shoud I say a human male to live.

What are your hobbies/interests? These are a good place to start in figuring out what you want to do and setting yourself that challenge to overcome.

As Tennyson said ‘ To seek, to strive, to find and not to yield.’

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10397 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10397 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 20:47:07 +0000 TYE Thanks Ishmael ! I do have a few things i’m interested in such as trains,model air planes, and don’t judge me on this last one…but I enjoy building Lego structures it makes for good brain training xD !

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10403 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10403 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 21:07:25 +0000 Nice to meet you, OldAtHeart – Lego is awesome! I’d advise to try and better yourself, accumulate wealth & knowledge because both will allow you the resources to do whatever you want. The more money you have, the more you can do with it and the more knowledge you have, the less you need to rely on anybody else.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10409 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10409 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 21:36:25 +0000 TheNinjaUWannaH8 Brother Old at Heart:

Here’s a Checklist to discover your Life’s Purpose….Outside of Getting Caught Up in the Hypergamic, Hypermaterialistic Pussy Market Place:

(1) Embark on your Own Journey to Self-Discovery.  Say NO to Chasing Bitches and YES to Chasing your Own Tail.  Leave them Bitches to their own Devices. Go ahead and scratch Yourself!  Smell your own Ass.  Lick your Own b~~~~.  Woof-Woof!

In All seriousness…Learn what makes you Bark.

(2) What are your unique talents and abilities?  The stuff you can do that most Muthaf~~~as can’t possibly do or do as well as you?  You like playing Guitar in Middle Eastern quarter-tones?   Painting?  Welding S~~~?   Lego??? Cool Shiet!

(3) Do that Shiet!    Making Lego Furniture and Art for middle-income homes?  Making model airplanes you can actually fly?

Do that Shiet!

(4) Try ‘Bat Crazy’ Shiet to see if you like it.   Does it make your Inner Dick hard (i.e. your Pineal Gland)?   Go find your passion in something unfamiliar and unusual.

(5) Get involve in Causes you think you believe in.   Want to save Street Dogs from being murdered in Brazil?  Do that Shiet!

Hopes that Helps.  Journey My Brother!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10414 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10414 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 21:44:33 +0000 Loose Nuts Don’t worry about laying out your entire future at this point. Perspectives change and you will find your right path as long as you do what you want to do. That’s the key here – being almost 18 and knowing what you know, you’re free to do whatever you want! You have wisdom beyond your years and should consider yourself very fortunate.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10421 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10421 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 22:07:14 +0000 coolsideofthepillow This is not so much a MGTOW problem and more of just a being 18 problem. Hardly anyone knows what they truly want out of life at 18. It will take a few years out in the world to figure out what your calling in life is and what will make you happy. Being a MGTOW will actually help you out a lot in doing this! You might be able to figure out what you want from life a lot quicker than most people your age because you will be completely focused on what makes you happy instead of bending yourself to fit what society wants. I wouldnt stress out over this too much, its just a normal part of life. Just enjoy being young and eventually you will figure out what path you should take.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10422 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10422 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 22:34:07 +0000 Stargazer “Who am I and why am I here?” is not just a question of age, it’s THE question of the ages. Most people “answer” that question by joining churches, buying useless crap, jumping from relationship to relationship, basking in drama or chasing some form of Holy Grail or another… never figuring out who they truly are and what they really care about.

The bottom line is you don’t FIND purpose… you MAKE it.

Creating purpose and meaning in your life is, well, a life-long pursuit. The difference with MGTOW is that we don’t allow ourselves to be bound by what OTHER people say we should do to make our lives meaningful but rather by what we decide will make them meaningful. Figuring that out is what makes life enjoyable for us… the challenge of climbing Mazlow’s Hierarchy of Needs from basic sustenance to security, accepting ourselves and being accepted by others, finding our inner power and, ultimately, activating our full potential… once you brush the bulls~~~ aside, it actually becomes possible… but it’s up to you to make it happen.

Research and try new things, see what you like and what you’re good at, put some hours into developing your skill and experience and have fun… and don’t worry about where you’re going too much… just keep your bills paid and the dirt off your shoulders and you’ll be fine.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10423 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10423 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 22:36:13 +0000 TYE Thanks everyone you all have been a huge help, and Ninja energetic as usual lightens up the mood xD now i’m visualizing Lego Sofa’s, and planes with dogs flying them 😛 !

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10449 <![CDATA[Reply To: What now…where do I find purpose?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/what-now-where-do-i-find-purpose/#post-10449 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 06:22:35 +0000 Dakota I’ll just start by saying that I wished I knew what you already do when I was 18.  All I did was chase ass…and there was a lot more chasing going on than catching!  What a waste.  Just by you asking what to do with your life outside of women takes you a million mile ahead.  There are a lot of good answers to that difficult question on this page.  Here is how I see it…

Firstly, I want to take issue with your own question…”Should I just work to fund my personal ambitions…?”  I would recommend that you redefine the word work.  If you work a job here and a job there, you won’t know s~~~ in 20 or 30 years and you’ll watch the clock all day long.  Being a “jack-of-all and master-of-none is a hard life.  So specialize and choose something hard.  Imagine if you leaned how to work on space shuttle rockets.  In 20 or 30 years, YOU would be THE GUY.  If you choose a profession wisely you may find out that you don’t simply “go to work” but instead, you’ll leave the house because it’s important to you to know that the mission is right.  ‘Important to you’ is where the purpose is to be found.

Also, if you want to go deeper down the rabbit hole, read Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand.  The book is ALL about purpose and what happens to people in life who have a purpose and what happens to people in life that don’t.

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