The problem for me is that I actually respect women. I refuse to use them for sex. I let everyone know that I am not looking for anything serious and of course when she hears I won’t be spending my life with her, she disappears.

Have women always been this stupid? So against living in the moment and enjoying life? Or, is it just our culture that has given them all this princess fairy tail way of thinking?

If there is anywhere in the world where women don’t act like this, or can enjoy and non serious relationship, let me know! 🙂

I mean, you could be out with a chick, cruising around with the top down and NOTHING IS WRONG.
The birds are shining. The sun is singing. The whether is perfect….
and you just KNOW your woman will still manage to RUIN a day like that.

Never mind expecting her to make it “wonderful” or “even better”….
No. She will take a perfectly fine & normal day when you are perfectly content – and f~~~ing RUIN it.

When they are so good at causing drama and create fights from nothing , whocould ever expect her to ADD any value? You’re not alone, man. Married men will tell you exactly the same s~~~. But even more importantly, only women look for relationships that are “SERIOUS”. I actually tell women this whenever they mention the word “serious”.

WHO THE F~~~ WANTS A “SERIOUS” RELATIONSHIP??

The only kind of relationship worth having is a FUN relationship.
And I had better be having fun ALL THE TIME or there is no point in having it.
Let women have (and chase) their goddam “serious” relationships. You got better s~~~ to do.

Best part is, you can say this right to her face.

“Honey, get the f~~~ out of my face with that s~~~.
You want a “serious relationship”? There’s the door.
Now go get yourself “serious relationship”, and when you find it…
I will be the first to offer my condolences. You take care now. And good luck.”.

YES women have always been like this. That’s why writings of Schopenhauer and scripts from films like “My Fair Lady” (written 100 years after Schopenhauer and 420 years after Shakespeare’s “Taming of the Shrew”) all coincide, and ARE exactly the same story. It’s fascinating really. It even transcends centuries no matter how “advanced” we become. F~~~ taming a shrew. Get out of my life if you’re going to be a drag to be around and are not adding any value.

Its’ time for men to say that s~~~. LOUDLY.

If anything our culture has given women this sense of entitlement that “since women were treated bad in the past you are owed everything now and if a man doesn’t approve he hates women” By our culture giving them this sense that they can do no wrong and or if they do it is mans fault they feel as if they can be picky, bitchy, annoying, or have unrealistic expectations and it is ok. I have learned to no longer be surprised by womens stupidity and just laugh at it. What else can you say about a gender who will complain about not having a nice guy, find a nice guy but not date him, date some loser who treats her bad, and still stays with him because she thinks she can fix him. I think women have realized now with right more or less the same as a man and so many men being pathetic and doing anything for pussy that they as women can be controlling and do what they want. Why commit to any guy or loyal when as a woman they can be using many guys to get stuff. If they are tied down to someone what happens when that guy with more money and a nicer car comes around around? Nothing wrong with having that fairytale standard of life because all it will take is a rich guy and letting him have her pussy to get that fancy life style. As for women in your case wanting some serious perhaps they don’t have much confidence in themselves or perhaps they had a bad family life growing up and want that family of their own to feel important. I have no problem setting down and staying with one women, but my second girlfriend was the type of girl I just described, but I had to leave since she didn’t care she was tying to force the relationship to make it work. As for any part of the world where women don’t act like that I can say European women aren’t a pain in the ass like American ones, but I think no matter where you go in the world women are going to act like that to some degree.

I mean, you could be out with a chick, cruising around with the top down and NOTHING IS WRONG.
The birds are shining. The sun is singing. The whether is perfect….
and you just KNOW your woman will still manage to RUIN a day like that.

Haha that is so true. On my second girlfriend birthday we had a great day playing games during her party and than going out to sushi with her friend and her boyfriend. Then my mom text me asking if I knew what time I might be home and she flipped her shirt and started yelling at me because it was her birthday and I got a text lol.

Understanding it though doesn’t make the situation better! I suppose we are doing the best thing though, standing up for ourselves and living life the way we want. I know that I am definitely never letting a female bring me down again.

Besides, just because she WANTS a “serious” relationship…. doesn’t mean she takes it seriously. After all, a “relationship” is just a situation she imagined in her head, where she expects some unmarried guy to NOT bang other chicks and pay for everything. What idiot would sign up for that? So when I hear a chick use the word “serious” to describe it, I just can’t take her seriously.

Gratz on your declaration about not letting a chick bring you down again.
They are really good at that.