The issues from her against me were as follows; I left NYC for HER, so I left my job as well and couldn’t find work in another state for almost the whole year so she had to carry my weight when I sacrificed much more to move to Indiana in the first place. Even when I finally did find employment, it didn’t matter, the resentment was enormous. So I did what I could and even got food stamps, the irony here was this, my food stamps were $200/mnth. Say I spent it all and went slightly over to $250, the $50 came from her pocket and she would keep a book of what I owed her. So in that transaction I owed her $25. (meanwhile she ate for free for a year!) This was with everything else as well. So I was in total debt to her, her ammunition was like an anvil looming over my head that would clip my f~~~ing b~~~~ every time she would use that against me.

Then that last years Valentine’s Day I did something I myself didn’t even expect, I didn’t buy her anything, all I did do was say “I can’t pretend anymore, I don’t love you anymore.” Breaking up shortly after we both got our own apartments and she EXPECTED me to pay her “what I owed her” I didn’t pay s~~~! I wasn’t a f~~~ing idiot, I knew this wasn’t right.

That Valentine’s Day will always be a reminder to me on how fake it really is. Why do men need to spend money to prove their love? The bigger the diamond or the more you buy the more you love her? I scream “BULLS~~~!” Materialism shouldn’t even be included in this equation but it is! The factors and proof of my love were this, I left NYC and moved to another state FOR HER so she could be closer to HER family, leaving my friends and family behind being completely isolated. This wasn’t enough. I took care of the home chores, dishes, cleaning up after HER, still wasn’t enough. I even cooked meals, nope, still not enough. All that ever will prove your love to today’s modern American woman is.. yup, you guessed it. The Benjamin’s.

So I ask this to you my fellow brethren,

Are YOU in a verbally and or mentally abusive relationship? Do you even realize it?

The sad thing is, MEN are to blame for letting women get to this point, we put that pussy so high on that f~~~ing pedestal we f~~~ed ourselves! I want this to be a serious thought here, STOP liking all those cleavage and selfies shots, stop giving all those talentless women on YouTube who use their beauty or sex for the amounts of subscribers and views and comments on EVERY social media! Instagram, Twitter, ALL OF THEM! Stop buying into the “LOOK HOW SEXY I AM AND HOW I CAN MANIPULATE ALL MEN” They are making us look like sex addicted dogs and mindless FOOLS!

Yes pussy is great! Sex is wonderful! But not when it’s used for them to gain advantages on EVERYTHING they do! It’s time for MEN to grab their manhood back! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Put YOUR f~~~ing foot down and stop being TEASED & MANIPULATED! Because that’s what they are doing every god damned moment they can and men just drool and say.. okay.. ::panting like a  sex crazed dog::

I don’t know about you, but I’m sick of being compared to a f~~~ing dog!! I have a mind, I use f~~~ing logic and I am a F~~~ING HUMAN BEING!

Because this is one man who is.. GOING HIS OWN F~~~ING WAY!   MGTOW!!!!

As in response to ListenUp, Yes I have noticed the V-Day thing and I am all for it!

BrainPilot, sorry if this was a repost as I did not notice, I was just itching to get that out, I will be more attentive to similar posts in the future and such, as for your statement..

I’m sure both sex’s would go quite a while without sex as there are other means for release. Where there is a will, there is a way. As for the food aspect and women needing to “man up” and fend completely for themselves like men do, that is a very interesting question, would they be able to? I’m sure some could and some would struggle as most are very dependent on others and the system. Who would win this “sex”off? I believe men would. Why would men win? Simple, our biological clock doesn’t tick the way theirs does. Each passing day would be of worry and stress of being no longer fertile and age being a serious factor for them as well (beauty and birth complications), as men would just keep on keeping on. I’m curious if it would eventually come to this kind of stand off.. I guess we will soon find out, because I have a gut feeling, this isn’t going away any time soon till there is an obvious change. Thank you again for your posts and welcoming, stay strong brothers.

Withhold your time, energy and money and let’s see how long before they come crawling to us, horny and starving, begging us to save them. And when that happens, we can decide to let them back in or look down on them like Rorschach and whisper “No.”

In the first year, I’d let her buy me things “because she loved me”, and granted she DID help me out with some tough situations I was going through (joblessness and mental instabilities that I still suffer from now).  I didn’t realize she was using me for her own personal gain until later on in the relationship.  To many, she would be considered possibly pretty low on the “1-10 scale” because she was possibly about 150 pounds overweight (I can’t say much, as I was working out and trying to lose weight myself, but I could at least say I was trying and didn’t feel, and I quote, “too lazy”).  I stayed with her out of letting my stupid empathy getting in the way.  When she saw I was simply communicating with a woman online that was possibly around an 8 to 10 on the attractiveness scale, she would throw a fit and talk to her closest friends and even my family members about it, my sister especially.  One lovely day, we were out and about and she noticed that one girl left on my Facebook what my girlfriend felt was a “flirty comment”, and was going to comment back with a nasty message to her.  To retaliate, I deactivated my Facebook page.  As a result, she started beating on me as she was driving, swerving and nearly hitting people around her.  I told her to stop behaving so stupidly, and she threatened to beat my face in if I said “one more word.”  (Let’s also note that in the first 4 months, she cheated on me with men online 3 times.)

Why I stayed with her after that, I’m not sure.  I’ve been in controlling relationships as well as fair ones before, but this one was the worst when it came to control.  Since I was living with my mother during my joblessness at the time, my girlfriend knew that me doing anything she didn’t want could easily turn into my girlfriend reporting everything to my very (obviously) gynocentric mother, who would in turn possibly kick me out and leave me homeless.  I was in a situation where “if you’re not with her, you can’t live here because you’ve made me emotionally upset because you’re so obviously anti-woman.”  I wish I could say I was exaggerating, but my family is so gynocentric that it hurts.

It got to a point that I was helping out and being a friend to my previous ex-girlfriend who was struggling, and when my girlfriend found out, she showed up at my mother’s door and started beating on me, ripping my shirt, and having my sister hand her phone to my girlfriend, saying that if I retaliated, “she could call the police” and my sister “would serve as a witness for her.”  My mother arrived home, and naturally sided with my girlfriend as well, telling her “I wasn’t worth it” and “she could find a better man than me, I’m obviously just some stupid guy.”

Some stupid guy.  Granted, I have a history of my mother being verbally and emotionally abusive before (calling me just about everything in the book) and cheating on my father, who finally left her 20 years later after opening his eyes to what his overt forgiveness was doing to him.  Calling me “stupid” was the least bad thing she’s probably done.

It was after one more chance (yes, I was stupid) and moving out on my own that I finally realized I can’t deal with it.  I couldn’t even see my best friend who just returned from the military after 6 years because she would call him “my boyfriend” and I “should just start dating him because I see him so much.”  I saw my girlfriend literally every day for about 5 months last year.  She couldn’t take no, and she knew how to push my buttons.  I have mental issues that don’t allow me to say “no” without having anxiety attacks (possibly from my upbringing.  It’s called Avoidant Personality Disorder, or AvPD).  I finally just played a “how to lose a girl in 10 days” game, and got her bored of me enough to leave for New York, and hasn’t been back since.

After she left, I finally got to do some self-analysis and realized that I’m far too logical for women.  I was constantly unhappy giving to them emotionally, and didn’t know why.  It’s because it’s not logically what I wanted to do, and it was making me crazy not being able to make my own choices.  I’m still new to the whole MGTOW thing, but I’m seeing how sensible it really is.  It’s been quite literally speaking my language through the videos I’ve been watching the past couple of months, as well as the articles on here.  I only just now got the bravery to create an account on here to tell you all that you’re pretty much speaking exactly my mind, and it’s awesome.  I’m not feeling so alone anymore in this form of thinking, and I think I can only get better from here.

(Sorry for the long post, I just have many tales that have caused me to get to this point, and I speak my mind quite a lot.)

Ever wonder why two women will hold a grudge against each other and won’t talk to or even acknowledge each other for years on end?

We men can’t even imagine what they said/did to each other to cause such hostility.

If women can abuse their own gender like that, they have no problem abusing men even worse.