Im going to try and keep this short and to the point because its a long story.

Marriage is over we have a 3 year old girl

pushed wife to far with home truths so we are mutual splitting

It scares the crap out of me to leave wife(x) bringing child up without me

Im fighting with what I feel is right

Do I leave my baby or pussy worship the wife to stay in the home to see my baby every morning and night before sleep

Will it mess her up leaving her with the wife and her cathedral,

Plans are in motion to leave but my baby is the only thing doubting my MGTOW

Im starting a video dairy for her to watch when shes older showing my feelings and why im leaving and its not that im dumping her

wife is pretty stupid and just follows media and cathedral pushed ways of living, blindly

why did i have a child with her now I doubt her so much with my offspring

Daughter will just end up in the doctrine 24/7 without my input

How the hell do I deal with these emotions guys, has anyone gone through this and can offer some advice please, its killing me to think of her ending up with just female input, The doctrine is so bad its hard to think about the future of my daughter stuck in it with out me keeping it in check to some degree but this at the very same time is a constant fight, what steps can i take to try and help her now and in the future I really dont want to lose her or just walk away to be made to look the bad one.

So I’m telling you to not put your future in the hands of another only because you have a baby together, especially if there’re fights between the two of you.. You both already decided to end it.
I’d only hope you’ll be able to have custody of her but we don’t live in Wonderland, do we?

Just know you have a large support group here on MGTOW, Men who have gone through what you’re going through right now, and understand you.
Read up the articles on this site and check out the videos. You’ll start realising that you’re not a “loser” or a “dead beat” just because you refuse to take in what the wemin wants to shove down your troat.

Difficult times ahead for your girl, sure. Especially if she doesn’t have daddy near or cannot communicate often. But since it’s a mutual agreement I take it you’ll have a role in your girl’s life?

Stay strong.

Kids always suffer in divorce. But right now, you’re daughter really is too young to understand what’s going on. It’s better you do it now than when she’s say…10. By the time she’s old enough to remember anything, mom and dad being apart will just be normal.

Good luck.

2. Fight as best you can to get as much access time. You my have to swallow buckets of s~~~ ….. but you are doing it for your child.

3. Pretend to understand mums hardship. How it won’t be easy bringing up your daughter. That’s why you’ll be around helping.

4. Every year your girl gets older, she will start seeing the truth.

5. Surround yourself with support from family and friends. You’re going to need them.

6. Think crafty …. out smart the system.

I went on dating sights looking for social workers, doctors, child care workers. I dated them so they became friends.

They gave evidence of what a great dad i was.

Yes it was a s~~~ thing ….. but my kid comes first.

Those woman are still my friends and I’ve paid the debt ten fold.

All this is going to come in waves. So don’t fight all the time. You must take time out and hold close council with family and friends.

This is long term …. but as time passes …. your daughter grows.

We are here ok …. just shout.

Be strong for your girl. She will thank you for it ……. then she’ll get a s~~~ boyfriend that’ll p~~~ you off no end ?

1. Do you both consider each other to be good parents? If both of you do, then the odds are much better for having equal responsibility/rights to raising the child. If not then it will be a bumpy ride.

(She is not):She is more likely to leverage your daughter’s visitation rights against you for spite of the split-up. Putting her ego above your child’s need to have a father in the child’s life.

(You are not): Then she will use legitimate reasoning against your visitation rights.

2. How do you treat the mother?

This is one of the overlooked factors in my opinion. It plays an important role in negotiating and co parenting. If point 1 is a yes, then learn to respect her for it. Treat her as a responsible mother and it will help her live up to being a responsible mother(they are simple minded emotional creatures that feed off of emotion, and they are what they eat so to speak). Pay attention to your tone, as this usually deteriorates during disagreements and plays a big role in how weemin percieve what is said. This is something you can do without being run over by her. It has nothing to do with whehter you agree.

3. Do you have s~~~ tons of money?

Due to me having a bad back from working hard instead of sitting on a fat wallet and causing a crooked spine, this one is solely observation. But it SEEMS that when a guy is loaded. They are likely to make you pay for the right to continue to be a father.

As for the “doctrine”. I was raised up in religion on my mother’s side and not on my fathers. I seen it for what it was and came to my own conclusion. I am taking this same approach with my kids as the mother is religious and takes them regularly. As far as I am concerned it is her right to culture them in a way she sees fit as long as it is not harmful to their health. And I will do the same.

Hope this helps ease the tension you are experiencing at the moment, when it is all said and done, it usually turns out alot better than previously expected.

Dont fight ANYMORE with wifey,will be used against you in court

Silence is your best friend

Your daughter is young so the transition wont be too damaging

First sentence would stop her from trying to rape you in unnecessary child support

Talk with a lawyer and follow HIS rules to the tee(notice I highlighted HIS),a female lawyer cant be trusted, she will turn god on jesus to push female agenda.

As long as you are apart of your childs life she will not suffer,they only suffer when left with single mothers.(inmate population, teenage pregnancies)

Sebastian