It’s my assumption that, outside of the apology and promise phase, the nostaligia, traditional values and anger/blame-you phases bring out similar if not identical rebuttals.

here are a few that I’ve heard as I navigate my divorce (paraphrased). And the logical solution to her emotional appeal.

Nostalgia Phase

“But I had so much fun at that party with you last weekend.”

– This one was just laughable. In this particular situation she essentially asked me before we went out if I would stay glued to her side because she couldn’t handle being alone with people she didn’t know very well. I obliged and acted as her escort for the entire night. She had a great time… I didn’t.

Traditional Values Phase

“I don’t see myself growing old alone and I’m not going to. I will find someone who wants the same things I do and we will live happily ever after.”

-This one was hard for me, at 29, I haven’t give much thought to growing old. And at first glance, I was like “hell no, I don’t want to grow old alone either.” But as the conversation progressed, I realized, growing old alone sounds a hell of a lot better than growing old with you.

Blame-You Phase

“I only act this way because I know you don’t like it and its all I can think about… so I end up acting like that all the time.”

-In hindsight, this is rediculous, but somehow through a beautiful woman’s tear-filled eyes it is effective… for one second. “Stay calm and analyze that claim” I said to myself. WTF!!! You only act like this because you know I don’t like it!? Do you have no control over your actions and words!? nuff said.

Please reply with any additional phases you have identified in the female rebuttal. Feel free to share some of your favorite lines from past breakups.

“I don’t see myself growing old alone and I’m not going to. I will find someone who wants the same things I do and we will live happily ever after.”

No she won’t. She will live miserably ever after. You want someone who wants the same things you do? Get a girlfriend and live happily ever after. Growing old alone is infinitely better than growing up with a controlling c~~~ who wants your DESIRES to be the same as hers. IF men wanted the same thing as women, we would never have created air travel – or the internet. Remember when internet users were all “losers” and “geeks”? Remember when women hated guys who were on their computers all the time? Remember when guys played video games all day.

And now ALLL that s~~~ is perfectly OK, fashionable and cool…… just because WOMEN want it too.

In order to want what she does, a man would have to change his mind as often as he changes socks.

Now, if I hear the words “we have to talk”… it’s time for her to go.

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Prepare for the worst.  Prepare for the Bloodletting. It’s inevitable.

As the Original Gansta Bitch (OGB) Lady MacBeth once remarked:

“Out, Damn’d Spot! Out, I say!

Hell is Murky.  So are Wifey-Bitches.

Especially: “Traditional Mirage”.

Doubled over laughing…..
Someone knows his Shakespeare.

At any moment a woman asks you and insists on you “opening up” to her…drop her immediately, shes not a f~~~ing therapist or a psychologist that she thinks she is cause she watches them white knights dr phil and dr drew and reads their women firster books…

Its an agenda to use against you for as long as she with you or even after….

Watch out for the overly sweet ones, that just go above and beyond just to call you her Man. they do all this super nice, overtly sweet s~~~ in the beginning so that later on, physiologically you’ll have guilt to leave her.

And females excel at giving you guilt. they’ll even make you feel bad for running over an already dead bird on the damn road!.

Couple years back I knew a girl who had some interest in me, and she always did little s~~~ here and there for me, she even took care of me when I was sick. I thought, hell, lets give her a chance see what happens. Good GOD!, worst mistake ever, constantly called, got jealous of every family member, friend, girl.

If i didn’t reply a text within 10 mins, i would get a s~~~ load of phone calls. just the fangs, would go so goddamn deep into me, it was hard. I kept remembering the good times, until one day i said “dude, those goods times weren’t even real, it was all an act, wake the f~~~ up and dump this bitch”.

At any moment a woman asks you and insists on you “opening up” to her…drop her immediately, shes not a f~~~ing therapist

It’s like the way they say “be yourself”. The reason women say “open up to me” or “be yourself” is just so she can get her claws into your vulnerabilities. This is not bulls~~~. Never fall for that one, gentlemen.

@DeusExMachina your comments are very insightful.

In my own personal life I’ve noticed that the nicer and sweeter they are during the beginning of the relationship, the worst they turn out to be.

I would only disagree far enough to say: except the really quiet and agreeable ones. They are the most dangerous. When she is just going with the flow and is all calm and easy going, you will see that beast emerge when you give her a key to your place. Prepare for a genuine Medusa.

(1)  The “Quiet and Agreeable Girls” are often the biggest Closet Freaks and Passive-Aggressive Assholes.  They use that Sweet, Nice Girl antic as an Anti-Slut Mechanism and Dangling Carrot to appear like the perfect little Girlfriend/Wifey to snag our Asses.  P~~~ them off and you will meet their dormant Inner Devil Bitch.

(2) I say be Yourself…But ONLY FOR Yourself.  NEVA expose your deepest dark secrets, Vulnerabilities or Idiosyncrasies with ANYONE…except what you are comfortable being in the Public Domain.

If you absolutely have to share your Crazy Shiet with somebody, learn to talk to Yourself.

Go Ahead. It’s Ok.  You’re Not Crazy….BUT…Just don’t do it in Public.  Tell yourself how f~~~in’ awesome you are, the crazy shiet you did with S’crooms at that Chilean Brothel last Summer, how you always wondered how Sheep Vagina with Strawberries taste like, that your boneheaded college roommate once pulled one of your pubic hairs while you were sleep and ran around the house as you chased him.

Share that Crazy Shiet with Yourself BUT……NEVA with a Hoe Bitch ass Girlfriend/Wifey.  In fact, Don’t ever have a Girlfriend/Wifey ever again.   They will use that Shiet against you.  Ask Tim Duncan. Ask Michael Strayhan.  Ask David Carradine.  Oh Snap….He’s Dead….But in his divorce papers…One of his many Ex-wives exposed his crazy ass deadly sex acts and alleged incestuous interests.

I will say this… It was not all a loss for I have gained a glimpse into the deviant mind of the master manipulator that is the modern female. And I have managed to put on somewhat of a charade myself. I’ll report back after the weekend, which remains the last major obstacle in-between me and her departure.

Godspeed.