MGTOWShould a single father date single mothers – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 15:40:07 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/page/197/#post-100758 <![CDATA[Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/page/197/#post-100758 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:06:51 +0000 Jack Harper So my divorce was finalized a little over two years ago.  I haven’t really jumped back into dating, and not sure I ever will now.  At first I wanted to, but the interest waned.  Now when I first considered dating I figured, as a single father, it would be hypocritical to exclude single mothers.  Also I had found from contacting some women through dating sites and in person that even if a woman seemed interested in me once she found out I had kids she was NOT interested, which I thought was interesting.  So I figured I’d have to be willing to date a single mother.  But then I started reading horror stories online about dating single mothers and advice to avoid them like the plague.  So my question is, would you guys say that advice extends even to those of us who are single fathers?  Should single fathers avoid single mothers?  I thought this would be an interesting discussion and my current opinion on the matter is ‘yes’. Single fathers should avoid single mothers whenever possible just as single guys without kids do.  This limits our dating pool but single fathers can not be classified the same as single mothers since we have no reproductive rights and 80% of the time women divorce us, usually with no valid reason.  Please discuss I’d love to hear opinions and experiences.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100769 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100769 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:24:43 +0000 Robert Hallam My recommendation is, as always, avoid dating single mothers as though they were the plague.  They are absolutely toxic and I have no doubt that you have read or heard about all the reasons why.

As a single father you are either a) looking to date women as though you were a single man.  You are not looking for a mother for your kids, or b) looking to date women as though you were a single father without any expectations (as a divorcee), or c) looking to date women as though you were a single father with expectations of possible LTR.  The real difference among the three options is the disclosure; single, single with no expectations, single with expectations.

Not being in your shoes, I would get back into dating as a single man.  Women do no disclose their intentions.  They may just want anything from a hook up to marriage; and they a’int tellin’ you.  They always have an ulterior motive.  By the same token, it’s not necessary for you to disclose anything either.  Let them know you have kids at the appropriate time.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100771 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100771 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:30:48 +0000 Robert Hallam I just want to add to the previous post.  It also depends on how you are doing the dating.  If it’s on-line, you pretty well have to include it in your profile.  If you are hitting the night life there is no obligation to tell anybody anything.  But if one woman finds out, you can bet the farm that the others will soon know.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100773 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100773 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:31:32 +0000 Oldscoundrell I am soon to be done with my divorce and have contemplated the same thing. I just can’t get past this…

bunch

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100776 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100776 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:40:46 +0000 Jack Harper @colbshank  LOL. Like a nightmare.  Funnily enough my whore ex-wife loved that show growing up and has now made it a reality.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100784 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100784 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:52:20 +0000 Fermat Oh boy. Yes avoid single mothers. They are a problem and a half.  Go for the single post wall childless women if you absolutely must date and have sex and companionship. If you value your wallet, health, and sanity stay the hell away from single mothers.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100788 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100788 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 00:59:30 +0000 Rebalanced Being a single father myself and having had enough experience of dating single mothers (NEVER AGAIN). I totally agree that you should avoid single mothers like the plague even if you are a single father.

As for making the analogy that you as a single father would be hypocritical not to date a single mother, then an analogy can only be made between 2 things that are the same. Single fathers and single mothers aren’t the same, so that analogy is not valid and needs to get thrown out from jump st.

 

 

 

 

I don't need pussy

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100791 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100791 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 01:11:19 +0000 I’m not qualified on one angle of this as I have no children. I have dated single mothers and will never do it again.

I do have several points to offer though from my experiences.

1) Freshly divorced women are highly toxic. I recommend making a one year out rule.
2) Any woman who needs to use online dating should be considered more suspect than a non online woman. They’re all crazy, but ones met online tend to have more issues.
3) Watch out for divorced women using you as a lure to get back with their exs. I just got popped in that department. She was 10 months out from her divorce and post Wall with no kids. Being Red Pill made it 500 times easier on me.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100827 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100827 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 02:47:31 +0000 ILiveAgain DON’T DO IT. IT’S A TRAP ?

I can’t beging to tell you how many ways it’s s~~~ … but will punt this one in your direction.

You child or children will become target no1 for removal.

They are toxic.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100839 <![CDATA[Reply To: Should a single father date single mothers]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/should-a-single-father-date-single-mothers/#post-100839 Sat, 15 Aug 2015 03:00:45 +0000 bigboy83 No male human being should ever date such a c~~~. I give you a little more advice, scroll up to CPIG post, about Divorced women too.

Divorce women are just as bad as single mothers, they have dirty little tricks, too.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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