What do you do in order to not get wrapped up in the situation with someone? How do you stay cold and reasonable?
I am afraid of dating women because I fall in love too easily, and I don’t want this to happen with a wrong person.

How do you guys stay cold-hearted no matter what? This is something I need to work on to make any progress.

I am very paranoid to fall for someone and not have enough b~~~~ to dump her.

And don’t get me wrong – I am a MGTOW and I have b~~~~, I guess I am too sensitive or something. F~~~ing A

What do you do in order to not get wrapped up in the situation with someone? How do you stay cold and reasonable?

In my case, you don’t. I just get emotionally involved because that’s how my lizard brain works. But do understand that women want sex as well, it is always a mutual exchange and a shared responsibility. It’s not a gift from her to you! Under no circumstance can it be used as leverage against you!

Russky wrote:

The more I have sex with someone – the more I feel emotional connection which seriously clouds my reasoning. All the PUA guru seminars I listened to make perfect sense, except that they do not address this problem at all.

Duh. PUA is about picking up women, not about comitting to them. It’s about what works, not about what feels right.

Russky wrote:

I am very paranoid to fall for someone and not have enough b~~~~ to dump her.

At least you understand your own nature. The nature of women is known to you too as well. You will use this knowledge in your pro/con lists with future women, so don’t worry too much about it. Before I dump a girl there is one station I don’t want to skip: blurt out the absolute truth. Her response to that will either surprise you or fill you with enough disdain to break up on the spot.

Defeating your conscience is only necessary because you’ve been socialized to struggle with this, so let another brother help you out.

You have a need and desire for sex like you need to take a P~~~.

• When you use a urinal… do you feel a “deep, emotional connection” to it?
• You get involved with your toilet when you take a really satisfying squirt?
• Are you unable to use a urinal UNLESS you buy it brunch the next day?
• No matter how f~~~ing amazing it is .. do you feel compelled to text it the next day?

This isn’t cold hearted. It’s just REASONABLE. In fact, it’s totally dishonest and unreasonable to think you need feel emotionally connected to her. She will use a dildo and feel an emotional connection to it, but that doesn’t mean YOU should

It doesn’t “take b~~~~” to dump her. It just takes a single switch in your conscious mind to remind yourself you don’t even need to GET INTO AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with her in the first place. That is a decision you can make at a later date and there is no messy break up to deal with.

There is no need to defeat your conscience. The same woman you are pretending to care about will have no compunction about “oops!” forgetting to take her birth control. Put it in it’s proper perspective and you’ll do fine.

http://www.mgtow.com/audio/do-not-worship-women/

Women are more sexual than you. And they will have sex while being totally unattached to you too. Don’t think for a second just because you’re her boyfriend that she’s not off getting her needs met on the side … while still PRETENDING to want a “relationship” with you. No man can afford to be this naive.

http://www.mgtow.com/audio/if-youre-not-a-slut-who-is/

PUAs just give you advice on attracting women, but unplugging is much more than that. In fact, I suspect a lot of guys with natural game may not have even heard of the red pill.

If only it were that simple, KeyMaster.

Ah but it is… just that easy. Stop indulging your emotions, that’s what children do. Emotionally attaching yourself to someone that is not capable of returning the love is merely opening yourself up to be used.

Women do not love you, they love what you do for them, or how you make them feel, but NOT you.

YOU are the one capable of actual unconditional love, and you are giving it to someone that can’t reciprocate. This IS female nature, you don’t have to like it, but the sooner you accept it, the sooner you will be able to protect against it.

It’s like beating your head into a wall, it feels so great when you stop.

The beautiful lie tells you “she” is out there, a woman that will love you for you. Reality tells a completely different tale. You might give her the ‘gina tingles’ for a while, and she’ll always test you to make sure you’re in control. If you fail, she’ll bounce to the next c~~~ on the carousel without a moment of regret. Then comes “The Wall” (patent pending), and she’ll search for her beta provider and settle down to pump out a couple insurance policies.

It’s all about her Coronation a.k.a. “The Wedding”, that magic, mystical, mythical moment where she becomes Queen of YOUR known universe. Wow, I can’t imagine why guys aren’t just lining up for servitude to a woman that “settled” for you, because she can’t suck rock star c~~~ anymore.

Now don’t get me wrong, women can be fun, as long as YOU are firmly in control. First and foremost of yourself, and full capable of keeping her in check. The fun part of female nature is how they just love…. and I do mean LOVE being dominated. I know what you’re thinking… no not her, she’s a “strong, independent, intelligent woman”. ESPECIALLY her, she craves it more than most.

Because women don’t truly understand truth, or the real value of anything (because they have never truly earned it), they crave someone to put them in their place, below a man. Without Men leading, women grow increasingly dissatisfied, just look around.

So you young bucks listen carefully, stop buying into the lie that an emotional connection with a woman will somehow make you complete, it is only a way in for women to emotionally manipulate you, it’s what they do.

So you young bucks listen carefully, stop buying into the lie that an emotional connection with a woman will somehow make you complete, it is only a way in for women to emotionally manipulate you, it’s what they do.

I would +1 this a thousand times if I could. I am still a young man interested in having a women in my life, but in no way does a women complete a man. Men are already complete, and perfectly capable of finding intrinsic value in our sovereign existance. A women is an additive, not a complement, to an already complete life.

I tend to deal with this by only allowing some emotional attachment to happen when a number of quantifiable conditions have been met. One of those conditions is that I need to be confident enough to maintain control, another one is that she takes good care of her body (by that I mean sports and her diet, not her f~~~ing make up).

“An open mind is like a fortress with its gates unbarred and unguarded.”

Gate’s closed bitches. It’s not going to open unless your accept the terms of surrender. Emotionally, we men are steadfast mountains compared to these whimsical women. All those senseless emotions… I was TOLD to feel! But I don’t! They are illusions, put there to make us feel like we are senseless brutes, to trick us into false feelings of guilt. I’m not going to accept a woman in my life that expects me to be a woman emotionally. I’d rather be just then f~~~ing emotional.

Train your mind to NOT see women at all.

After you trained your mind not to see women, you will see:

5 million tons of makeup wasted everyday.

5 million hours wasted everyday applying said makeup.

5 million hours wasted everyday removing said makeup.

5 million terabytes wasted everyday in bandwidth.

5 million barrels of wasted gasoline.

5 million tons of carbon dioxide added everyday.

5 million divorce dollars wasted everyday.

5million men being leached on everyday.

5 million men being imprisoned everyday.

5 million children being feminized everyday.

5 million mortgages being written everyday.

5 million mortgages being defaulted everyday.

5 million more reasons that I don’t have time to list.