Well, as of a month ago Bro (we kind of do our own things, I attend a different college over an hour away and live in that area) fell in LOVE hardcore over a woman! I want to slap him, because this “chick” is f~~~ing hot and always goes to the bars, his RED-PILL went out the f~~~ing window, HOW? having a relationship fine, but chasing a chick that can get any dude/mangina/has a brigade of white knights; he’s falling for her BS! HOW? RED-PILL is a filtering tool, WTF? I’m like dude lmao you can’t be serious (look on facebook has 100 selfies, and guy friends). His response; “she’s not like that, she is sweet” meanwhile he was going on and on, how she gets pumped and dumped and she is too sweet for that. Now it’s like 101 with “bro” uhm, uh, why does she get pumped and dumped with “bad” boys LOL.  anyhow he of all people who even told a woman he is MGTOW is mangining to her; consolidating her! all this s~~~ WE LAUGH ABOUT! she is clearly using him as a comfort-pillow. Then he found out she is hooked up with some dude, and f~~~ing lost it! I can’t contact him because he fell hard for this chick! and he’s all depressed and s~~~ now, WTF.

-my die-hard RED-PILL, MGTOW friend, fell for a “chicks” drama…and lost it again!

He’s hung up on NAWALT. He wants a special unicorn to exist that will give him a reason to live.

Been there, done that, even got the T-shirt.

Your friend is going to need you, this is a tricky situation and I don’t know your friend so take my advice with a grain of salt:

Help him get over NAWALT. Remind him that there is more to life than pussy, women, love or whatever. It’ helps to logically breaking this stuff down, but he’s still going to be in a lot of pain; chances are his emotions are going to be going completely out of control, so if he cusses you out a few times don’t take it personally. Give him a couple of days then call him again, it will make a world of difference to know that someone in the world gives a s~~~ about him, even if his NAWALT turns out to think he is lower than garbage (which may be what he is thinking/starting to realize right now).

He’s going to want to blame himself for what is happening, which may even be true to some extent; but for all the wrong reasons. So just keep reminding him of what female nature is actually like, and that there is NO SUCH THING AS NAWALT. But also remember to tell him that things will be OK.

Also, one of the healthiest things he can do is eject the bitch from his life. He may not want to hear that, so tread carefully.

If he hasn’t seen it yet print up Briffualts law and give it too him. If he’s smart enough he’ll start connecting the dots just from that.

Briffualts law explains A LOT of female behavior. Not all, but enough that it can help the male mind start breaking things down and making sense of them.

http://www.stickmanweekly.com/ReadersSubmissions2009/reader5546.htm < briffualts law.

It also helps to tell him that he’s not the biggest idiot on the planet and that other guys have been through the same thing, sometimes multiple times.

SHE IS A HO.

Dump her like one. Remind him Unicorns are for 10 year old girls.

Until a man gives up that belief, he is a target, like free money laying on the ground, and he will be targeted. Fortunately, for a lot of us, having even one voice around to remind us of the not-so-beautiful truth, is enough to eventually lead us out of that mirage. Try to hang around and be that voice when the real woman fully distinguished herself from the one in his head…

There are two women in your story: the one in his head, who is worthy of the emotional investment, and the one he is trying to have a relationship with, who is NOT worthy of it. These two women look exactly alike, and your friend cannot tell them apart. He believes that there is only one (the one in his head) and he is making decisions based on that belief. 

Yeah, well said! This “two women” thing has been the source of my problem with my former girlfriends since forever! With my last girlfriend, it became so bad that, after we split up, I continued to be nostalgic about our relationship. You know what cured my nostalgia every time? Actually seeing her again :)) one swift bombardment with her bulls~~~ and all my nostalgia and illusions were over!

I suppose it is enough for your friend to see her bulls~~~ once, Mr.Dextro. She already said “my asshole boyfriend dumped me and your such a great guy to talk too…” same happened to me with my last girlfriend. Major Red Flag, man, he should know!

Some men simply have to learn their lessons the hard way.  The best you can do is say, “I told you so,” when they do.

Lately I’ve been going back and forth on this, and in every example I can think of — (like my best friend who’s wedding I didn’t attend in 2010 , and 4 months after the wedding she was swinging from another c~~~) — I am compelled to show no mercy for these assholes who do it anyway.

They shame YOU and make YOU feel like s~~~, like you’re an asshole, like your’e wrong, like you don’t know what you’re talking about, like you’re stupid, like you’re a “misogynist” who “hates women”…. and then he calls to tell you she’s blowing some greasy thug unemployed musician on a stolen motorbike.

F~~~ him. I’m serious. Im getting to that place – if Im not already there.

The last wedding I attended was in 2006. In about 18 months she will be able to collect lifetime alimony and I predicted it before his wedding. 2 kids and she’s a total bitch. We’ve known each other for 25 years and haven’t spoken in 2. Once he called me to show him how to change the passwords to all his emails because he was “sick of his wife behaving like a controlling Nazi t~~~”.

She made sure we don’t spend any time together anymore.

When he calls me, it won’t be “i told you so”. That would be MUCH too polite.
The guy is basically F~~~ED.

Tick tock. Tick tock.

He will show up here one day. And it won’t be to gloat.