I recently found this website and I must say I am glad that I am not alone out there

I have decided to just MGTOW everything since I believe that being an MGTOW is a sort of passive aggressive way of doing things; I like the idea that men can just stand on their own and do what they need to do or what must be done – this is how it’s suppose to be.

So for my first step of MGTOW-ing it I decided on Value Building and I need your guys help for it.

What do you guys do whether in your spare time or whether in your work to build values upon yourselves? whether its just reading books to build knowledge, share your ideas.

The main reason I made a topic like this is just so we, men, can help each other out with going on a path as MGTOWs while also building character upon ourselves.

“Nothing nobler than being a better man than the one you were yesterday.”

Cheers~

Lowkey

My main value starts with a love for myself, a healthy body, which promotes a healthy mind.

This video changed my perspective on working out, I follow everything Greg Plitt and my workouts have taken on an entirely different meaning with awesome results. It’s not for everyone, but it changed my life.

I take the questions you ask as a big one for MGTOW to deal with.  You won’t usually have the normal structures men who aren’t MGTOW have, like usually marriage, and often kids (well, unless you went MGTOW after having kids, or you really want to be a father without a woman).  So, there will be a void there.

I do run a YouTube channel, and am thinking of getting together a bunch of methods that could help answer your question. I will look to what Logostherapy and others say.

As I see it, key thing is to find your way in life, that works for you.

It is like Curly said in City Slickers:

Curly I believe was MGTOW.

Is this in the archives on this site?

What do you guys do whether in your spare time or whether in your work to build values upon yourselves? whether its just reading books to build knowledge, share your ideas.

Well, when I am not working…… I am working. MGTOW.com isn’t my/our “job”. But it sure as s~~~ is more work than our jobs. And if I’m not working here, I’m working on something else. Maybe even my car. That’s what men DO. We put effort, energy and invested time into things – even old forgotten cars – to increase their value.

You could even make a conscious decision NOT go out and spend $100 on cover and beers tonight…
because you would rather work and invoice a client $100. You see how that’s $200 in your pocket?

So on the topic of value building, remind yourself of this:

If you don’t pursue and build YOUR dreams…
… someone ELSE will hire you to build THEIRS.

.. and of course, they will all behave like you should be “lucky” because they “let” you work for them.

Welcome to MGTOW. I would correct you on the use of “passive aggressive” as a means of accomplishing something. “Passive” yes, but it’s not used as a back-handed way of doing (or accomplishing) something un-aggressively. A passive/aggressive approach means getting someone to do what you want in a lazy way. GYOW is more of a re-routing of your priorities entirely.

Example:

By saying “I will never sign a marriage contract because it FAILS a cost/benefit analysis. “…. I actually MEAN that. There is no hidden aggressive intent behind it. That’s the end of the sentence. It’s the end game. It’s the end of the conversation. I’m not saying it (passively) to get women to prove that they are “not all like that”, or to have laws changed so that I get married.

A MGHOW assumes the agency himself, and really doesn’t give a f~~~.
On that topic, inaction is the final action.

But I will aggressively pursue my own rewarding interests – and not in a *passive* way at all. It’s very active. It’s a re-prioritizing. With all of the importance placed on “relationship” and “marriage” and “giving women what they want”…. when you think about it , it’s f~~~ing MADNESS.

It’s not your job to be the man “she always wanted”.
It’s your responsibility to be the man – YOU always wanted to BE.

Nothing “passive” about it.

LowKey wrote:

“Nothing nobler than being a better man than the one you were yesterday.”

Exactly.

Welcome to MGTOW, LowKey.

This video changed my perspective on working out, I follow everything Greg Plitt and my workouts have taken on an entirely different meaning with awesome results. It’s not for everyone, but it changed my life.

Elaborate on that! Would be very interested and so would others. I find action movies and those workout videos (even personal transformation stories) fascinating and great motivators. When a guy tells his story about how was a flabby f~~~ and 2 years later he’s ripped … I knew a guy who was 240 and 15 months later he was totally unrecognizable. It was awesome.

Were you one of those? Sort of out of shape and depressed an then you went to the gym 5 days a week and 12 months later you were Spiderman?

I love those examples.

… someone ELSE will hire you to build THEIRS.”

I saved this quote in my cell phones notepad the moment I read it. Very true, and a motivator to achieve ones goals and dreams.

The ‘it’ being me.

The ability to wake up and not be dead is f~~~ing awesome 😆

At the end of it ….. before I close my eyes …. I ask if it was a good day. If it wasn’t, I promise myself should I awake in the morning ….. it will be an AWESOME day 😆

I now can’t live any other way. I can’t conceive of not doing that.

Build what you want. Doesn’t work? Rip it down and build again. Learn from it …. rinse and repeat.

You build the path you walk.

As I see it, key thing is to find your way in life, that works for you. It is like Curly said 

@richardhutnik That “one thing” quote was spot on

As for all the replies, I gotta admit I was a bit hesitant and was unsure what kind of answers I would get but I am glad that I came to the right place.

I knew you guys would understand where Im coming from

Thanks guys, appreciate it

Lowkey~