People just pose for pictures….. they don’t look like they’re having “fun” at all! (unless they’re playing drinking games or pool, lol)

The only other good things are the music and lights.

I prefer the old boys club far more. I’d take them any day over modern parties. Nobody’s going to label you an “awkward creep” or a “loser” if you’re not pleasing the women. Oh wait, women weren’t allowed in most parties and even if they were the women and children stayed separate…… sigh…… the good old days!

I live in a downtown area, and when I was going to bars after work or whenever, it was NOTHING like going clubbing or “partying”. To me it was more enjoying the life of a single dude, having a few beers after work, and shooting the s~~~ and see whom I would meet. Met many cool dudes as well.

But the clubbing/partying thing? No f~~~ing way. Its a COMPLETELY different environment.

For example, I can get up in the morning as a single dude. Walk a few blocks to the Little Italy district, and enjoy steak and eggs, with a shot of espresso, then a mimosa. All by myself while I people watch, or see who Ill end up meeting. As a single dude, that is the enjoyment and freedom I get from “going out”. I remember a girl asking me “how can you go by YOURSELF?” Thats a big part of the adventure. I cant imagine it another way. Ive been out with plenty of c~~~ blocking douche bags as well, so being alone isnt some detriment.
<p style=”text-align: right;”>My point is: an early happy hour, or what I described above is more my idea of going out these days. You couldnt PAY me to go to a club, or even a bar in my downtown district past 10pm, unless it was with a bunch of good friends who I knew just wanted to have fun, and not chase pussy.</p>

Woman: “Where’s the party at?”

Sorry sweat heart your not invited, lol.

[quote]lol I like how you said that! xD Agreed 100% and people make it seem as if this is the best thing in the whole world. As if you don’t have a f~~~ing life if you don’t go to parties. They’ll INSTANTLY f~~~ing look down upon you….. mostly manginas and women tho.

I remember it being like that in high school, one of my friends who was also part of the popular crowd was always pressuring me to do stuff, like get a cellphone or drinking or you should go to parties. It became clear later on that he had become the sockpuppet of people in the school. Under his pestering I did get a phone for a brief time, but it was too expensive and a ripoff to keep operating so I parted with it, especially after he got mad at me for sending stupid texts to him, after he sent me stupid texts… Years ago when he asked if I had a job and I said no, he never responded back and I never heard from him again. Good riddance to that.

I have not yet attended any of these “parties”, but from the facebook pictures that were posted it looks like they were stupid, people getting totally drunk, doing drugs, outrageous behavior, dancing to crap music, playing guitar hero (of all the things), t~~~s all t~~~ted up and so on.

There’s no bigger waste of time in my opinion (baring marriage).

For example, I can get up in the morning as a single dude. Walk a few blocks to the Little Italy district, and enjoy steak and eggs, with a shot of espresso, then a mimosa. All by myself while I people watch, or see who Ill end up meeting. As a single dude, that is the enjoyment and freedom I get from “going out”. I remember a girl asking me “how can you go by YOURSELF?” Thats a big part of the adventure. I cant imagine it another way. Ive been out with plenty of c~~~ blocking douche bags as well, so being alone isnt some detriment.

I used to hate doing things on my own…until I started doing things on my own.  Its actually the best way to meet people as well.  I found that if I signed up for a class, an event, or a league or anything, and did it with a few people, I’d just end up mostly socializing with the people I went with.  If I just go do some random s~~~ on my own, I end up mingling a lot more.  Good company is always preferred but if that isn’t available I’d much rather just go do something alone then deal with some annoying person I really don’t like just to have company.