Naturally, all MGTOW are welcome to chime in, but I’m wondering how those of you that have been through your own trauma (ugly divorce, parental alienation, financial rape, cheating, etc.) dealt with the desire for revenge.

As a MGMOW, I’m already plotting how to exact my own retribution on the people that helped to precipitate my misery, but naturally until the papers are signed, I’m a choir boy. I recognize that revenge won’t explicitly help me go my own way, but then I wonder if it will by way of closure.

The best revenge is to live well, and I agree. But part of me does want to punctuate my new life with a firebrand – “Don’t f~~~ with me anymore” exclamation.

For those of you that have felt similarly, what sorts of revenge did you awaken on your foes, and did it help you go your own way?

It’s not just a line, either.
It’s a dish best served cold.

A “don’t f~~~ with me anymore” attitude is a highly advantages position, because they are NOT expecting it.
“Don’t kick my leg or I will break yours” has served me very well from time to time. No revenge required.

… the best revenge is to let the other guy keep her.

I agree completely with KeyMaster. Do nothing except let him keep her.

By the way, there is a product used by deer hunters — skunk oil. It is used to mask the hunter’s scent from the deer. It smells worse than dead fish and lasts longer. (Not that I would do anything with this. It would be wrong.)

Best form of revenge is to live well. Nothing p~~~es off a woman more than her thinking you are doing better without her. Don’t waste energy and resources being mean, just channel that anger into being productive for YOUR betterment.

Just my two cents worth…

Your “two cents” is worth a lot more than that.

Cheers.

Believe me, after my bitter divorce,  all the lies, cheating, and bulls~~~ that went behind my back I wanted some good old fashion revenge!. But then I thought, about the guy my ex wife cheated on me with. and what he now has to deal with. I started laughing so hard you would’ve thought I was a crazy man or something.

I recently saw a picture of my ex wife and her lover (they got married), she put on 20 pounds and her “New” husband looks miserable!, hahahaha!. I looked at that picture and just laughed and laughed, and to me, that was revenge enough.

This asshole now has to deal with a certified bitch, who will not only have him by the b~~~~, but suck the life out of his very soul as well as his finances. I was grateful to see that picture, because they both look miserable. Here this guy is, raising kids, married to a C~~~, who I know isn’t happy married to this bitch.

While I’m enjoying my life, surfing, traveling, riding my motorcycle.  in the end, I got the last laugh. Sometimes revenge isn’t about getting back at someone, It’s taking the opposite direction, and then watching that other person crash and burn in the process.

This same is true for a lot of blue pill guy friends in my life, who i warned about marrying the wrong chic, they would either stop talking, want to pick a fight or ignore me, and in the long run, after a few years, who’s the first person they call up when the s~~~ hits the fan?, ME. All i say in those situations time and time again is, “I told you so man”.

But when it comes to women, it’s very important to understand FORCE.

Men understand force EXPLICITLY.
To neutralize a threat, Men use fists, knives, bombs, guns etc.

Women understand force IMPLICITLY.
To neutralize a threat, they use social manipulation, mind games, back-stabbing (without knives), ostracizing from a group. etc.

So you “beat” women not by actually “beating” them. But destroying them from the inside. It’s a different kind of warfare. So the game of revenge must be fought with different ammunition.

Attention is a woman’s lifeblood. Women will even initiate violence when they are not getting it and proudly upload the film to youtube for all the world to see. When women don’t get attention, it’s the same as firing all your nukes – without firing a single shot or throwing a single fist.

Even 10,000 of the ugliest bitches on earth (feminists) will say and do ANYTHING for attention they would otherwise never get. Don’t subscribe to their bulls~~~, and they become instant failures. They know it too.

Just KNOWING you are doing better without her will reduce her entire belief system to rubble. Absolutely no contact is infinitely more effective than throwing a fist. Nothing is more devastating to her. It’s the game SHE plays to win, you easily beat her the same way. When you are treated badly by woman, you don’t need to treat her badly back… you just need to live better without her.

Great topic, this.

Dudes need to learn how to properly ‘fight’ women.   Proper Way?  Don’t Fight Them.  🙂  Your Ass is going to jail if you use Physicality.

Use “Ignoricality”.

When You Don’t Fight and instead “Flee”/Ignore Their Asses, You Win.

I remember a scene from The Godfather Part II. Al Pacino hit Diane Keaton so hard, he practically came off the floor. She didn’t throw a fist to hurt him. She aborted his son without telling him…. which would be perfectly justifiable grounds for him to get angry. But did hitting her really HURT?

Later in the movie, when she shows up to visit the kids, he doesn’t do anything. Doesn’t say a word. He doesn’t even blink. He just quietly walks up to the door and slowly closes it in her face.

Awesome.

… and it hurt worse than any fist.