It’s important to understand why “slut shaming” exists. It exists for a specific reason.

In order for a man to enjoy many sexual partners, it requires A LOT of work.
• Many years at the gym + an impressive amount of dedication.
• Patience. For he is more attractive to women as he ages and establishes himself after EARNING his way out of worthlessness.
• Business, professional and financial success.
• “Social proofing”
• Assets and resources
• Social, economic and/or political power
• Fame
• A fancy car or two and his own home
… you get the idea.

In order for a woman to enjoy many sexual partners, all that’s required is the willingness – and to not be a land whale. Even being slim requires no real effort, compared to a man. She just needs to keep the fork out of her mouth.

Consensual sex only takes place when a WOMAN wants it to.
And all it takes for that to happen, is her consent.
A man cannot simply consent in order to make sex happen, and that is the key difference.

This is why men are revered for enjoying many sexual partners – and women are “slut shamed” for it. Because he must bring infinitely more to the table. Even more importantly, women CULTIVATE this themselves. The more she expects a man to do (and have) in order to get laid, the MORE he will be revered and respected for enjoying many women. The LESS that is required from her, the less she can be “respected”. Therefore, “slut shaming” can never go away because women PREFER it this way.

When the criteria for sex (and the price of vagina) is as high as it is, and the more women expect for access to their love gates, the more they can expect to be shamed when they cheat on the “boyfriend”….. who is expected to meet all kinds of outrageous criteria, and pay for everything, do all the work, entertaining and jumping through hoops for her affections. Women are simply not required to have six-figure salaries in order to get laid. But countless women on dating sites won’t even consider meeting a man for a coffee unless he meets a laundry list of demands – including a six-figure salary. It takes quite a bit for a man to rake in $100K and she expects this before considering a first meeting? She is personally guaranteeing she will be slut-shamed when she cheats on her man.

So I’m afraid “slut shaming” will always exist. Like it or not. MGTOW or not.
It is not dependent on the male. It is dependent on the female.

Women are actually more guilty than men of “slut shaming”. For every girl who gives it away for free is effectively lowering every whore’s “price”. This is why “good girls” who attempt to withhold their affections from a man until he pays the highest possible price (a marriage contract and diamond ring and 1/2 of his net worth) will HATE the woman who enjoys sex openly, often and freely. She will even “slut-shame” that girl herself.

When women bring their expectations down to an acceptable level, only then will you see a reduction in slut shaming. Theoretically, if all sex was free and all women were content with a strictly sex-for-sex exchange, and the only requirement for a man to enjoy may partners is his willingness, “sluts” would cease to exist – and they couldn’t be shamed any more for it.

Women will never allow that to happen.

On the flip side, there is a certain amount of RESPECT to be had for “sluts”.
After all, at least they are not running around pretending they are NOT sluts.

The “double standard” exists, because women WANT it to exist.
Here it is explained succinctly, and directly from our own “quotes” page:

“A key that opens many locks is a master key.
A lock that opens for many keys…. is just a s~~~ty lock”.

“A key that opens many locks is a master key.
A lock that opens for many keys…. is just a s~~~ty lock”.

F~~~. That’s genius.

Yes it makes perfect sense and I happened to agree with you. That’s why I mentioned there is a certain “respect” to have for sluts. But women who enjoy sex openly and freely are not actually “sluts”. They are just not prostitutes and those are the only women I can tolerate. Sex if it’s free, or it’s not going to happen. Personally, I am SO opposed to “paying for sex”. The kind of girl who has it when she wants it is the kind I WILL call again.

“Slut shaming” (as in the link I provided above) is for women with boyfriends or husbands who expect him to bring all kinds of things to a committed relationship… and then has sex with another guy for free. (The radio host calls her a “whore” – but that is the wrong word in this case. She is a slut, plain and simple. Of the worst kind.)

So it’s key to understand the difference between “slut” (who has sex with someone else while in a relationship) …
v.s a chick who is reasonable about her expectations and believes a sex-for-sex-echange is equal and fair.

I can only “respect” the second kind.

The over-priced whore that withholds sex from the man she pretends to “love” until a marriage contract is signed can go find some other sucker to pay her price. But you asked about the general stance on “slut shaming” in the MGTOW community. So that’s how I answered you. My personal stance on the matter might differ from some, because there might be MGTOW who prefer women to be chaste. I don’t personally expect her to be a virgin. But I do expect her to be 100% faithful if she is looking to me for all kinds of other nonsense. I also know that when a woman has 5+ sexual partners in her life, the probability of her initiating a divorce is +75%. She loses her ability to bond with only one male. The more dicks that have ravaged her, the less she will be mesmerized by any one of them.

Chaste? No.
Faithful, Yes.

You are correct in assuming if a woman gets away with withholding sex until the wedding, you can bet she will continue that behavior AFTER the wedding. “Fix the bathroom tiles, honey, or there will no sex tonight”. What a nightmare. That is a form of “manipulation” you are speaking about… lording it over a man’s head as some kind of *reward* when he is a good boy and does whatever she wants. Forget it.

In short, I’m not much of a slut-shamer. I almost prefer them.
But if a girlfriend (or wife) is a slut, she ceases to exist and becomes instantly invisible to me.
Perhaps other MGTOW will chime in on this in their own way.

http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2014/5/29/slut-shaming-study.html

Men are out there busting their butts making successes of themselves and working like mad dogs at the gym to get some trim… while women are fighting with each other over who is “more easy” when she lays down and spreads her legs. It’s hilarious.

The idea that a Latina is “trashy” for blowing some dude in a bathroom stall but a nice white girl who lives off the lake is “more respectable” for the same behavior…. is like a urinal and a toilet fighting over whether or not it’s “better” to be p~~~ed in – or s~~~ in.

(NOW look what you made me do..)

and it enforces my original point. The “double standard” is created, enforced and perpetuated by women.

That was a great point and makes a lot of sense. From my view it seems women are more nastier to women than men are. I think most men could look past girls slutty past if they really liked her and she wasn’t with too many guys,but other women would still look down on her.

I myself slut shame, but I am an equal opportunist and shame both men and women. Not that I do it to their face or look down on them, but if I am watching Maury and a woman has slept with over 10 men and can’t find the father or my sister has Jersey Shore on and I see the guys talking about their sex partners I will be like “wow what a hoe”. All in good fun for me although I wouldn’t date a girl who slutted around while in college and after because of the way I think.

The idea that a Latina is “trashy” for blowing some dude in a bathroom stall but a nice white girl who lives off the lake is “more respectable” for the same behavior…. is like a urinal and a toilet fighting over whether or not it’s “better” to be p~~~ed in – or s~~~ in.

That is awesome lol.