I have tried a fetish dating website. I thought maybe this was going to be the best thing since sliced bread. Sex and kink with women……without all the boring and annoying s~~~ that comes with relations~~~s. But I got nowhere. Turns out it isn’t the paradise it is cracked up to be.

I have no interest in prosty’s. Why? I don’t know. It’s psychological. I think about all the men who have been with her and it makes me sick.

I have no idea how to get pussy, without having to go the traditional route of courting, dating, relationship. Yet of course, being a MGTOW, I have no desire for the courting/dating/relationship route.

What to do boys? What to do?

I have tried a fetish dating website. I thought maybe this was going to be the best thing since sliced bread. Sex and kink with women……without all the boring and annoying s~~~ that comes with relations~~~s. But I got nowhere. Turns out it isn’t the paradise it is cracked up to be.

As we talked about in another thread, the kinky ones on alternative lifestyle websites are worse.

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I have no idea how to get pussy, without having to go the traditional route of courting, dating, relationship. Yet of course, being a MGTOW, I have no desire for the courting/dating/relationship route.

I can relate. I periodically use POF and Tinder. I’ve come to the realization that in order to get sex (except a prostitute), I need to play the dating game. This costs me some money, but the sex (dare I say the companionship too?) is usually good at first during the “honeymoon stage”. You can usually date a chick for about a year (depends on her age) before she starts talking about moving in, having kids and/or marriage. Once I get any pressure in that regard, I’m done. I will never again put myself in a situation whereby the family court can potentially smash the gavel over my head.

I can tolerate women in short term dating, but I’m anti-family court and I’m not going there.

“I have no idea how to get pussy, without having to go the traditional route of courting, dating, relationship. ”

Im sure I could tell you some other ways, but Im also sure youre aware of them, and I dont want to come off as some master pussy slayer PUA, because I am NOT.

Im sure youre aware of these routes/tactics, but since you asked heres my two cents:

-With respect to how to relate to women APART from courting and dating: treat them like your little sister. Meaning you acknowledge their “cute” but they are ANNOYING, cant teach you anything, and dont have much value beyond their “cuteness”. When you are in a coffee shop, bar, or any other place with interaction, you yawn (as do the females) when you watch men BUY their drinks, put them on a pedastool, and try every supplicating move under the sun to gain their approval. You on the other hand, display a witty dismissal of them. Just like little sisters. This SLIGHT change in attitude turns the tables DRASTICALLY. Its amazing. If you get e honest with a girl and tell her “youre GERGOUS”. She wont respect you. She just got all she was after. I did LITERALLY just that when I was a youngen, and the girl turned around, without saying a word, and walked away. LIYERALLY. Once I realised you cant be transparent with women, and such, I realised: they are like little sisters. Pat them on the head, treat them accordingly, and watch the difference in the way they relate to you. Night and day.

-If you really want to get laid with minimal effort, and dont want a “pro”, take some time and write out a unique post on craigs list casual encounters. Youll have to repost it several times, but it works. Beware though, those girls are dirty sluts.

I hear where youre coming from on the prostitute angle. Its like, all the s~~~ I really want to do to them I cant truly enjoy knowing how many c~~~s have been in them. Theres also the psychological aspect of knowing a girl WANTS you physically as well. I know many guys here speak against that, but if you NEVER paid for ANYTHING, and had a strictly sexual exchange based off of mutual attraction, it is SO much more gratifying. And of course, YES this happens.

I want a woman, but I don’t really want a woman. How do we solve this horrible dilemma?

Pass the beer nuts?

Edog wrote:

I want a woman, but I don’t really want a woman. How do we solve this horrible dilemma?

Pass the beer nuts?

Just masturbate and get on with your life. That’s my solution. You don’t want the woman, you want the orgasm and the release it brings, if you wanted the woman you would stay after you cum.