MGTOWNeed Advice…. – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 14:31:41 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/page/480/#post-11181 <![CDATA[Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/page/480/#post-11181 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 09:58:53 +0000 astroboysuper Just after being married for 2 weeks i found out my partner was cheating on me, once 3 weeks after started dating and again 3 months after started dating. These are just the ones i know about. We married because she was pregnant and being Chinese girl was culture orientated.

About 2 months ago we lost the baby to stillborn. So the question is should i end it now or take the risk and stay??

I have alot of property – mainly bought before married, no children and a prenup. So im in a good position right now to escape. She has no job and said the reason she wanted a boyfriend was because she was p~~~ed of not finding a job.

Some other quotes shes recently said:

“If i leave you in 5 years, dont be sad” , (I say) “whys that”, (she say) “well just looking out for you if i have car accident dont want you to be sad when i gone”

“I can get the prenup overturned, ive always been lucky in money – anything can be overturned in court”

“If you ever mention me cheating again i will do it again, because you would have brainwashed me to do it”

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11183 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11183 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 10:27:38 +0000 Laz This is a mgtow forum so I suppose you have already anticipated the obvious answer?

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11184 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11184 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 10:30:11 +0000 Stargazer Annulment.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11186 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11186 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 10:44:06 +0000 astroboysuper Annulment only possible in Australia if pressured into marriage…

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11188 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11188 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 10:53:46 +0000 Laz Then divorce.

Honestly I believe that you have already know the answer. You are simply  here for support, because somewhere inside you, you still feel that abaddoning her is a bad thing to do.

 

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11189 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11189 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 11:07:15 +0000 astroboysuper its true after losing baby , then divorce might be too much for her. She may be suicidal. Thats the only reason im still with her.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11190 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11190 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 11:19:46 +0000 Laz From your description I don’t think she value her child so much, but that’s just my speculation

How did she behave after losing the child?

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11196 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11196 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 12:15:42 +0000 Total Lee LEAVE. What are we talking about this for? Such a difficult situation and I am sorry for your loss, but the solution is not difficult. I don’t mean to be cold or insensitive but would she stay if you lost your job and had no money or property? Having a boyfriend because she can’t get a job is the most unbelievable insult. Cut this nightmare out of your life. It doesn’t even sound like being with her is enjoyable or fun! If you’re not having fun, get out. To stick with someone because she might be suicidal is a not a reason. How can you possibly love someone who hates themselves? There’s your reason right there. She can’t love you if she hates herself.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11220 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11220 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 16:52:24 +0000 Loose Nuts Astroboysuper – seriously, get the f~~~ out! I have been in a similar situation with an Asian girl and that’s “what they do”.

It sounds like she is Asian Asian, as opposed to American Asian if she’s that culture oriented? The girl I was with was Indonesian, from Indonesia, and as damn crazy as it gets. She was so insane, in fact, that she thought she was untouchable enough to actually tell me “what they do” (Asian girls that come to the US from Asia). It’s like a f~~~ing business to them. It sounds like she was able to take advantage of you and suck you in, for sure. She was cheating because she was securing backups and allies in case it didn’t work out with you. She told you about it to test you and determine how much she can walk all over you in the future. She was happy to have a child with you to secure you and your income. After the child was born, she would have left since you now had to pay under the law and then probably moved on to someone else. That’s what she meant by “when I’m gone”.

In my situation, I was aware enough to stand up for myself and not let her walk all over me like she did everyone else. I knew better and there was no way in hell I was going to produce a child with that crazy bitch or be legally bound to her in any way. We would fight constantly because I wouldn’t allow her to manipulate me and then, and only then, when she would break down crying every time, would she admit that everything she was doing was intentional! She would also tell me at that time that I needed to get away from her because she was a terrible person and she knew what she was trying to do was wrong. Yeah, no s~~~.

Those last three quotes you provided give some serious insight into the future and that’s just the tip of the iceberg, mark my words.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11223 <![CDATA[Reply To: Need Advice….]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/need-advice/#post-11223 Mon, 22 Dec 2014 17:38:56 +0000 TheNinjaUWannaH8 Get Good Lawyer, Out-Maneuver her and go Ghost Dog on a Hoe.

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