Just got back home to the US after 9 months abroad. The last 2 months of the trip involved a relationship that I felt uncomfortable in the entire time, without realizing exactly why. When I got home, I met 3 of my good buddies, all of whom have LTRs. I can definitively see that they are beta (docile, follow her around, etc) when they are with their SO’s compared to “with the boys.” And it was like a mirror slapping me in the face; I could see that I was the same type of person when I was around my SO, and it had been subconsciously driving me crazy. Why do we, men, do this? Why must we all put on our sensitive, emotional hats, just to get attention/sex? Why can’t we be loud, brash, and strong-headed all the time? I have always thought this, but MGTOW made me wonder if its not immoral to think this. This is my red pill moment.

MGTOW instantly appealed to me because I believed in a lot of core tenets already (complete self-reliance and no apologist attitude for one’s life) and the actions to improve ones life (working out and plate spinning). It’s great to find a community that encourages all of my instinctual masculine attitudes rather than stifles them. Right now I’m trying to soak up as much material on the subject as I can, but I will contribute to the community as well. Cheers, guys!!!

WORST thing for you.

The book “The Manipulated Man” touches on it. It’s instilled in you before you can even comprehend. The idea that your sacrifice, or efforts will get you some female attention and affection is a myth. A women has a flat tire, the man pulls over to help her, will muck up his shoes, get himself dirty, make himself late for a meeting, and he will go out of his way to inconvenience himself for the slightest APPROVAL from her. But the best thing that happens is an “OMG that’s so sweet!”.

For all of his efforts, sacrifices, care, expertise and handling of a situation…. she thinks a lazy response like “omg you’re so sweet” is thanks enough. Perhaps she should consider putting her shoulders into showing some REAL gratitude, because eventually, this dude will wake up and be much less willing to pull over and help her at all. When he arrives at this place, he wonders how he was ever so caring and kind and generous to such a creature in the first place. But he was socialized to be.

Why wouldn’t a woman thank him by inconveniencing herself (as he did) and offer to bake him a lasagna?
Why wouldn’t she reach into her purse and offer to tip him $40 or enough to get his shoes polished?
Why wouldn’t she offer to bake him a pie and bring it to his home?
Because she was socialized, too.

That’s how a woman slithers through life.

How many times have you heard women say “that doesn’t impress me”?
She thinks you should work harder for her approval because what you’ve done is not good enough for her.

To “be a selfless gentleman” and do “something nice for her to cheer her up”, and “buy her flowers when she’s being a pouting little bitch”, for some kind of “OMG you’re so sweet”….. is s~~~ women have been bombarding us with since Kindergarten. Just like media and TV.

“That didn’t impress me. A real man would _______(insert bulls~~~ female demand here)_______.”

How arrogant and self-centered is she to think men do things to “impress” her?
She’s been hanging around too many white knights and needs a good schooling from a red-pill man who knows better.

And more importantly, which one do you think she’s more likely to have sex with??
We all know the answer to that and so does she.

Approval seeking is bad for you and instilled in you since birth. We gotta purge that s~~~. Men will even convince themselves that if we were less supplicating that we would get LESS sex. It’s simply not the case. The university of Florida proved men “with sexist attitudes: (translation: non supplicating pussy worshippers) make +$8K more a year than their pussy whipped counter parts. It’s not just good for you in bed.

“Men owe me their labor. I don’t need to a do a goddam thing.”
That’s how a woman slithers through life.

I thought they left snail trails myself…