I was still a struggling artist, but it appeared that wasnt “Cute” anymore. That wasnt worthy of their affections or moral support anymore except in a platonic way. Somehow I had (without my knowing) been put in the “loser” and “he has no future” category. I was still young enough where even this label I was hit with allowed me to still meet women and get laid but it became a whole f~~~ing production. It was like banging your head against the wall. But by the time I reached my mid to late 30s and then into my 40s I was living a f~~~ing monastic life! Again, I was still the same guy and I still looked great for my age ( I can pass for 5-10 years younger than I am) but I am still not a wealthy or even upper middle class guy. Economically I make about as much as your average working stiff. And in this economy its usually paycheck to paycheck. Add to that that I now have some physical issues that came from being in a car wreck and I am practically persona non grata. I dont even want to tell you how long its been since I last got laid. Let alone kiss or even touch a woman! Yet in a strange way I almost dont give a f~~~ anymore! I was lurking on Tinder and OK Cupid and what I saw horrified me! Tinder by itself is like sociological insight into where American women of the 21st century are at. If you break it down into age ranges it goes something like this:

Women in their 20s

PHOTO POSES: Lots of alcohol. Lots of photos of them with their girlfriends in club wear with that now ubiquitous pose of hand on hip and head c~~~ed.Drunken antics. Weird trying to be funny photos.

(There is nothing particularly weird about this. This is kind of normal 20s behavior.)

BIOS: Mostly non-sensical.Inside jokes and Instagram links.

Women in their 30s

Heres where things start to get interesting.

PHOTO POSES: Yoga poses. Lots and lots of Yoga poses. Dogs. Lots and lots of dogs. (Almost every women above the age of 30 has a dog now. The number of dogs and dependency on said dogs increases with age. These become substitute boyfriends and or husbands when they realize no man will ever live up to her ridiculous standards.) Lots of jumping out of airplanes and sports or athletic endeavors.(This is another modern phenom I have noticed amongst women. All of sudden women have become jocks.Call me old school, but I like my women to be soft and nurturing. Not smelling of Tiger balm and being all hyper competitive.) Mountain climbing and biking, paintball, Cross Fit (This one is huge now), aforementioned Yoga (huge as well), martial arts, marathons etc.

BIOS: Now come’s the lists of demands of what their potential mate MUST HAVE and MUST NOT HAVE.They are often full of themselves in these bios and go to great ends to let you know how fabulous they are, how they dont take any s~~~ and how they are outspoken and sarcastic.And if you cant handle that then you are not really a man secure in himself. If you “Dont love dogs” dont even bother contacting me. If you are a smoker? Same thing. You are a disgusting person and should just go die or shack up with some trailer trash chick.The bios get much longer compared to in their 20s. They are now all “Spiritual” and into some form of Buddhism. They now obsess over food. It must all be organic and they are all vegans or vegetarians and prefer the same in a man. Yet they are still flexible on this issue. (interestingly enough. Being interested in healthy foods, spirituality and health in general is a very natural, nurturing and inborn trait amongst women. In the past this was used to keep her children and husband happy and healthy as the housewife and caregiver. They still have this trait as seen here but it is now an energy looking for an outlet. Instead of going towards a family this energy goes towards themselves, blogging, homeless people and her many dogs.) You are also alerted that she loves to travel, eat at fine restaurants, go wine tasting, sailing and basically live the life of Richard Branson. Well dont we all? Although most mere mortals dont have the time or money to do all these things. And to top this whole thing off is the now ubiquitous Marilyn Monroe quote that they ALL seem to use. Its a quote that shoudl tell a guy everything he needs to know.

“I’m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I’m out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” – Marilyn Monroe

(What man in his right mind would want to have anything to do with a women who writes that about herself?)

Women in their 40s and up:

Photos: Same as in their 30s only this time there are children from her broken marriage and more dogs.

BIO: Same thing as in their 30s. Only now the desperation and anger really comes out HARD! Same Marilyn Monroe quote.

This is largely why I have become a MGHOW. I always promised myself I would never pay for sex or companionship and I still feel that way.I would rather be alone and do some high speed jacking off then get tangled in this s~~~ty web. My heart really goes out to younger guys who are coming of age in this s~~~fest and werent able to experience what it was like before women grew dicks and feminism got a chokehold on the Western world. It all seemed to change in the 90s. I havent given up though. I just dont let it bother me anymore. Besides, there are still women in other parts of the world where this sickness hasnt taken hold. Sorry for my long winded introduction. But this is years of s~~~ I have wanted to get off my chest.

I love your analysis of the modern internet dating scene in the aggregate! I’m a lot younger than you but I’m already on the monastic path. If a woman wants to take the initiative and pursue sex with me, I’ll likely oblige her. Other than that, I have an entire harem of digital whores who are willing to perform stunts of a seriously impressive caliber. We men of the digital age are truly blessed in this regard.

Nothing wrong with that, it has been 3 years for me and I am doing fine. It is called a fleshlight and the internet lol. Sure many women would laugh at me, criticize me, even go as far to say I am a threat or have problem, but they are just threatened because women are afraid of a guy who has no problems not getting laid. They fear us because if other men think that way they as women loose power over men.

“you must”.

F~~~ you. No I “must” nothing. In fact, that’s your problem. The fact that you think I “must” do anything for you, means you MUST be dumped as quickly as possible. Like right now.

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But I “must” concur that I noticed a WILD shift in female social attitudes and behavior in the 90s, and would pin it at around’93 – ’97…where they no longer resembled the younger girls of the previous generation(s) in any way….. with the APEX being around 2005 when I started hearing major “f~~~ this s~~~” from fed-up guys everywhere. That’s when I looked around I saw the most unbelievable examples of entitlement and sociopathy in women who had NO CONCEPT of their own toxicity. The situation has not improved.

I would also thank my personal God I am not 21 anymore. In fact, it’s only been in the last couple of years that I began to notice 18, 20, 22, 24 year old guys getting NOWHERE with women and reporting major dry spells and frustration with their girlfriends and women in general…. with some of them totally fed up by 25 or sooner. This came as perhaps the biggest surprise.

My patience with these t~~~s wore down to nothing with this “must love dogs” bulls~~~. What kind of a c~~~ puts in her dating profile “must love dogs”. First of all, who the f~~~ hates dogs? You know what kind of dogs we hate? The little pomeranian you stuff in your purse who you are nicer to than OTHER PEOPLE you psychotic freak. The fact that you “love dogs” more than other people doesn’t mean we “must” be as insane as you.

It’s true. Observe! Women are actually kinder to pets than OTHER PEOPLE. I was outside in front of the market eating a slice of pizza in the sun and this guy was waiting for a chick with his dog. Texting her on his phone. A few minutes later she showed up and said “hey” … (insert small chat) …. in a sort of quiet neutral tone.

But then, totally brightened up, and kneeled down(!) and SMILED at the DOG and pet him and cuddled him, and talked to him, and gave him all kinds of affection and attention, while giving her own boyfriend NONE of that s~~~.

This was one of the most psychotic nutso displays I have ever observed, and it’s everywhere!!
Women are kinder to PETS than they are to OTHER PEOPLE. Including their own boyfriends.

It’s so whack… I can’t even finish this sentence.

Women have always been obsessed by their physical appearance. This formerly manifested itself with make up, hair dos, clothes, manicures, etc. Now it manifests itself in sporting prowess. It’s still the same shtick, just old wine in new bottles. It’s still all about how they look, because how they look is how they get power over men.