When I was a young un, goldie was a looker.

Now they lie

http://www.aol.com/article/2015/06/18/goldie-hawn-and-kate-hudson-flaunt-their-amazing-beach-bods-in-gre/21198043/?cps=gravity_1593_6867733712404185638

Thats disgusting and why lie about it?

it’s all gone Goldie

I told her the truth she didn’t want to hear. She flew into a rage and broke up with me. Boo hoo.

Same thing happened to me with my ex. Double standard. She could tell me everything she saw wrong with me and I listened. After a while I thought we’d built the trust up and I expressed my greivences with her. She was enmeshed with her seriously insecure mother who had serious issues including PTSD. This woman ruled the family tightly. Oh, a nightmare. Everything was always about the mother. The double standard was that I may only say approved things. I was routinely tested.

A great distance was built between her (with her family) and me. They saw me as someone to “fix.” The truth was that I wasn’t even all that into their daughter, I was just feeling so guilty for being unable to keep from getting physical with her when she’d let me. She like me a lot and let me, which made my guilt worse. I didn’t want to bring her into my life problems (although she had no problem bringing me into hers). I was really lonely at the time, and struggling greatly in life.

That girl was so overly sensitive. I had to be in love with her, tell her how good looking she was (even though she had a few extra), how smart she was (she sucked at math, and was very narrow minded, so incredibly narrow minded, like wow), and on an on. I was rated on the things I was expected to do but never knew I had to do.

I thought I built the trust in our relationship that since they’ve told me tons of what they think of me that I should change, I should tell them how I felt about them. So, you can guess how that went.

FYI, one of their little self help books they wanted me to read: Built to Work (a really silly Christian book for men)

Mix them how you like … they all ad up to the same result …… s~~~ testing

It disturbing how women go around lifting other women’s spirit by telling them little lies.

They expect us to do the same.

You so beautiful. To every women no matter how old and ugly she is.

You will hardly ever see a compliment towards a man.

Often the husbands are the butt end of their jokes.

EVERY post by a single woman, is either a “You go girl, you look so great!” or “He’s a dog, you don’t need him!”.

They prop each other up like that, while behind closed doors they hate each other – or will steal the dumped guy.  Bizarre two-faced herd mentality they have.

They read magazines that tell them all sorts of stupid things and try to explain away their responsibility. “It’s always his fault,” they say. All women read these magazines so all women have the same attitude problems. What are men to do but to play tricks for them to get their cookies?

That means their self-esteem is based on lies. Lies are a terrible thing to base anything on, especially something as important as self-esteem. They know this, but they won’t deal with it, instead they continue their little psychological games of covering up the truth.

Then they get lonely and scared. What are they to do? Well, we’ll figure out how it’s really a man’s fault, and blame the men. Blame the men, again and again. They come up with silly lies (but fail to tell men about them). They have tests that men cannot pass, which prove their ideas. They give hints and such, and get angry when men do not respond to them. They actually feel entitled to men responding to their hints, as though that man is supposed to just get it (rather than be careful with women, which he’s wisely learned to do).

They need to drop their friends and get real with themselves. That’s what they need. They’re always double-checking their thoughts and feelings with the Hive Mind. They don’t want to be found foolish in the eyes of their friends. Those friends could be doing anything, such as being jealous. A girl will screw over another girl just because she’s jealous. One girl might be jealous of a girl because of her larger breasts, and tell a guy to dump her because something’s wrong with her. That same girl can like a guy and tell her best friend that he’s a loser because if she can’t have her, why should her friend?

Women do it to each other. They set themselves up for all this.

FaceBook is pure drama. As usual, women love it because it feeds into their need for 24/7 validation. EVERY post by a single woman, is either a “You go girl, you look so great!” or “He’s a dog, you don’t need him!”. They prop each other up like that, while behind closed doors they hate each other – or will steal the dumped guy. Bizarre two-faced herd mentality they have.

I unfriended a woman my age (57) when I saw a selfie on a beach with that pouty I want sex look, and the comments were “smokin”, “Hot mamma” and it was then I realized that facebook is the place where women go to document their narcissism, be harpies, and show off their cats. Social media has turned women into the Borg. You will submit and assimilate or we will destroy you. I quit hanging around there when I started getting women trying to strike up conversations on chat.