MGTOWMGTOW for 4 years and just found out now. – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 21:10:12 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/page/351/#post-49599 <![CDATA[MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/page/351/#post-49599 Fri, 08 May 2015 10:24:32 +0000 Ambulocetus Hi Everyone!  I’ve been living MGTOW for 4 years now and just learned the term this week.  Can’t believe how cool it is knowing other men said “f~~~ it” to relationships too (or just marriage if that’s all you rejected).  For all these years, I wondered why so many people could insist that relationships with women were mandatory, considering how crazy dating women nowadays it.  I’m 34 now, but in my 20’s, I tried real hard to make it work with women I loved, only to discover that the “romance thing” is a lie and that women that act like regular human beings and treat you like a regular human being turn into hostile, childish nightmares after the relationship gets going.  Like WTF???  I had multiple women hit me and throw stuff… and threaten to call the police for… uh… something because she felt like picking a fight and it didn’t turn out her way.  “Man, I must have the WORST luck with women,” I’d tell my friends… the ones that were married or in “successful” relationships told me that “you just have to put up with it” or “apologize anyway” because “women are like that”.

If “women are like that” then why in the sanctified f~~~ would you badger me about marrying one.

And for years, when one relationship came to an end, knowing how bad divorces can be for men, you know, “if” she’s “one of the bad ones”, I’d always end up saying “thank God I didn’t marry that one.”  Because after breaking up with women and having been stalked, having 3 windows of my car broken in the night, been accused of all manner of things which were so ridiculous as to be totally unbelievable (thank God!) (and we’re talking about storied from multiple ex’s), I can only imagine what they would have done if they had the family court system to throw at me!

I am so glad that other people have noticed the insanity of it all!  I’m so happy to have read MGTOW posts and seen MGTOW youtube videos from thoughtful individuals that help put some sense into it.  I am so relieved to finally get it into my head explicitly that I DON’T WANT TO WASTE MY PRECIOUS TIME ON WOMEN!

I’m sure most of you will agree, that moment you realize you’re MGTOW, that you’ll never have that family you always wanted, but that, God damn it, the rest of your life will be spending all your money, time, and effort on what MATTERS to YOU, is the most amazing, liberating feeling I’ve had in years!

And for the younger MGTOWS… when you hit your 30’s, the other men, the family men, stop calling you gay and start envying the international vacations you take and the neat stuff you buy when they know you didn’t work extra or save… when they realize what their marriage cost them.  In other words, IT GETS BETTER!!!!

Sorry if this is long and rambling, but I’m writing this late at night, and I AM SO EXCITED TO EMBRACE MGTOW!

I look forward to meeting you all and hearing what you have to say.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49646 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49646 Fri, 08 May 2015 12:41:41 +0000 Keymaster Hello my friend. Welcome to MGTOW and to the forums. A classic introduction. Shockingly similar to many – including my own (and worded like the intro/story I would have written myself) – but then again, not a shock at all. Precisely the kind of guy we created this website for. Happy you found your way here.

Ambulocetus wrote:

“apologize anyway” because “women are like that”

That one really made me smile. Twice as funny considering women keep telling us “NOT all women are like that”.

God damn it, the rest of your life will be spending all your money, time, and effort on what MATTERS to YOU, is the most amazing, liberating feeling I’ve had in years!

I remember that day myself. 2008. Although I had been aware much sooner, there was a random Tuesday I was walking to work and had exactly the same “aha” moment, and I smiled the whole way. Like I knew something nobody else did. As if I understood a punchline to a joke that others just didn’t get. I know exactly where your introduction comes from. Thanks for making it.

Hope to read more from you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49720 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49720 Fri, 08 May 2015 16:56:07 +0000 xgreenlanternox Thankfully I was fortunate enough to not be taken to the cleaners by my ex after we had kids (we never married – thank GOD!). We actually made a mutual agreement outside of court and I am still very financially stable while providing above and beyond what is necessary for my 2 kids (I have cancelled checks to prove it just in case she gets any ideas but I doubt it’s been 10 years). I guess I lucked out since my story is very abnormal. I am 29 years old and my kids will be fully grown before I am 42 and seeing as I already live quite well and enjoy my life to the fullest without any worries of money, I can only imagine it will get better when they are adults able to support themselves (although I will always be there for them if they need).

As far as women go in general, today’s American woman is bottom barrel scum. I will not date them, I will not comfort or console them and they do not get any of my time. I think my first revelation had come the last time I had gotten drunk and slept over an extremely physically attractive woman’s house with no urge to have sex with her at all. I questioned it for a while but then it dawned on me that I just have no interest in women on any level because I am just disgusted at the people they have become (I am not attracted to men either – I consider myself having become asexual).

It has been a breathe of fresh air to find this site and so many other people like me… Thank you for creating it!!!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49806 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49806 Fri, 08 May 2015 20:52:34 +0000 Rennie Welcome aboard.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49841 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-49841 Fri, 08 May 2015 23:19:05 +0000 It’s nice to see a case where the lawyers and the courts didn’t feast on the ruination of a man! Welcome to MGTOW my uneaten brother!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-51626 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-51626 Wed, 13 May 2015 02:58:55 +0000 MOWsince95 Welcome Ambulo, and enjoyed the intro.  Gotta add a thumbs up to the comment about getting in your 30s (40s for me now) and how you have money, freedom, and whatever your heart desires, and you can tangibly sense the envy of the guys who are stuck in the nutless living hell they call a marriage, nagged to f~~~ing s~~~ and wondering why they work OT and never get ahead while you get more done, smile, and GTFO of the office on time.

Will admit to once since going MGTOW in 95 I had a blue-pill moment and thought I met the NAWALT of my dreams.  It was in late 98.  Was even thinking how right it was as the 1 year mark approached, but thank God, my wits, and a few Sam Kinison snips I still regard as gospel that I held out.  Along came month number 15 and she flipped like a stack of wet griddlecakes at a roach infested 2-bit diner.  It was a serious Jekyll and Hyde thing like I’d never seen before and lasted 3 weeks. Woke me up, got out, and yes I date but I keep an arms length about everything now.  I don’t hate women in any way, but that f~~~ing monster that each of them them houses under the surface of her thin skin can go f~~~ itself, as can the legal system that caters to it.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-52719 <![CDATA[Reply To: MGTOW for 4 years and just found out now.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/mgtow-for-4-years-and-just-found-out-now/#post-52719 Fri, 15 May 2015 15:04:31 +0000 Binary Logic Welcome brother. Seems like you, as I have, recognize the immediate and permanent satisfaction of finding such a place. It’s almost surreal, isn’t it? Glad to have you aboard. Steaks over there, beers in the fridge, cop a seat by the fire, you’re home now.

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