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So, don’t just sit there and think about what you don’t have, think about what you do have a work with it. Majestic Sequoia trees all started out as a little sprout, and over time, grew into huge mofos!

So, sit down and think about what you do have and what you can offer. Write down a plan, a simple one, and think of some small steps you can take to get things going – self-improvement (gym, meditation, etc.), hobbies, and applying for jobs – they don’t have to be big fancy positions, they can just be WHATEVER. Then once you get those things going, which mind you, could take a bit of time, then you build on what you have, and just f~~~ing grow as a person. Once that happens… it’s only up (and sometimes down) from there.

See yourself as a piece of metal being heated up by a blowtorch. At that point, your pliable, vulnerable, prone to breaking, but taking the steps and taking on the fight to better yourself and your life situation is you being dipped in oil, only to come out solid as a f~~~ing rock. Good luck.

I did get a dog and she keeps me company.  I like to immerse myself in reading, exercise, and staying active.  I also work too much so that keeps me out of trouble and also keeps me from ruminating constantly about the relations~~~.  I’m also into personal development — learning new things.

I’ve been fortunate to never have employment problems but my advice is to take whatever job you can get, pay for school (preferably TRADE — even though I have a degree in Engineering I recommend young people study the trades first), and do something you enjoy and that will allow you to provide for yourself, and don’t be depressed.  It’s never too late to start over.  You can also work independently as a tradesmen or start your own business.  I’d also try doing some volunteer work.

If your wife doesn’t love or desire you then you should dissolve the marriage contract (divorce in MGTOW-speak).

I would also recognize YOU are the agent of change, your ACTIONS determine YOUR outcomes, luck plays some role but you play the major role.  It’s never too late in life to grow.

CPig Hint: Never let your workplace or relations~~~/marriage be your exclusive social life.

Just one chance meeting could lead to a whole new group of friends. I once asked a guy at a restaurant bar what kind of peppers he was dropping into his soup. That that one simple question lead me into a whole new set of good friends that I’ve had for over three years now. I’ve also met a lot of good people through my favorite outdoor recreational activity.

Get out there and start talking to people. Start doing the things that you like to do. I can’t promise relief will come immediately, but it will come. If you’ve been out of the game for a while, it will seem awkward at first.

Eventually you’ll say to everybody. “I’m alone, but not lonely.”

My best memory in life, I was all alone! I decided to risk my life on a back country run to the top of Little Killington, the trail was an obscured hiking trail covered in 4 to 6 feet of snow, I didn’t let off on the throttle even when I went off the trail, I had one shot, and one shot only! It was invigorating!

The worst part of the run, I was on a cornice (full throttle) looking hundreds of feet down on my right, with my body on the left side of the sled, had I f~~~ed up, or backed off,  it would have meant certain death! It was getting dark and the temperatures were well below zero.

The loneliest time in my life, I was laying with a woman I fell in love with (VOMIT), I realized I, nor any man could fulfill her lonely heart.

I never felt so alone at any point in my life….

This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.

In other words, if you are focusing on your own goals, loneliness is not possible. Loneliness as a mental state depends on what others do and think, and these are things you can never control. Set goals, strive toward them, be your own man!

Eastwood is misquoted here, but it is a good article and it does address your concerns.
Clint Eastwood main advice to actor son: ‘be a man’
http://pagesix.com/2015/03/21/clint-eastwood-main-advice-to-actor-son-be-a-man/