As I grew into my late teens, I became aware of this my mother’s true nature. I also began to notice the true filthy nature of the human female in general. It was also during this time when I began to form my own relationship with my father.
During this period I became keenly aware of how broken, corrupt, dysfunctional and destructive the family court system had become. Even back in the 1970s, (when they divorced) the family court system was completely rigged against fathers and against the best interests of young children.

Nevertheless, in 1988 armed with a firm belief that “not all women are like that” I married the girl of my dreams. Within five years, this girl of my dreams literally became the monster of my nightmares. Luckily by this time I had become well versed in the dangers of marriage and had prepared accordingly. I had already taken steps to limit my exposure, and to deprive her and the state of any asset they wished to steal from me. By 1993 I had escaped this marriage with my reputation fairly intact , and with no children, and no alimony payments. Good for me!

Between 1994 and 2004 I went full MGTOW, gaining a reputation as a “player” and a “ladies man”, but in reality I was neither of those. Quite simply, I refused to play the game of “love and marriage” or perhaps more aptly named, “theft by proxy”…

Nevertheless, by 2004 I had built up a nice career in IT, and had acquired a few assets and a little nest egg for the future. And wouldn’t you know it, those damned marriage and family hormones started raging inside me again.

I decided to start looking for a really nice girl who had the potential to be my partner rather than my dependent. I finally found “the one”. We talked of planning for the future, of family, of building a financially stable retirement, and of growing old together. She was beautiful, intelligent, future focused and hard working. Or so she led me to believe.

After a respectable courtship we married, and I moved her and her daughter from another marriage into my home. The wedded bliss lasted exactly one week before I gazed upon the raging, violent head of Medusa. 13 days into the marriage I drove her out of my house (while I still could) and I filed for divorce the very next day. I later found out that every quantifiable thing she had told me about herself had been a lie. Her 800 credit score was actually in the mid 400s. She made less than half the salary she told me she made. Finally she had told me that she had a master’s degree when in fact she only had an associates degree from a junior college. Hi-Ho, Hi-Ho, back to MGTOW I go.

— — –TO BE CONTINUED HERE (WHEN HER PLANS FAIL MISERABLY)

It was a similar scam to your deal — she turned out to have a much different set of economic options, including education, work and credit history, than she pretended to have, and everything got real weird real fast.

The NUMBER ONE thing to watch out for, in my opinion, is a time crunch.   I don’t know if you had this happen to you, but when I asked this guy why they got married so fast, he really didn’t have an answer other than “she led the way” and “it seemed so perfect I really couldn’t object.”

No matter how perfect it seems, rushing things IS a sign to be cautious.  That’s the lesson from his story.

Looking back, for the rest of us, do you recognize any warning signs you can have us watch for in our own lives?

Over the years I have asked myself one honest question.  Is the human female even capable of emotional fidelity and intellectual integrity?  Time and again the answer to this question seems to be resounding “no they’re not”.  Unfortunately I believe that most of this is merely a function of evolution. This isn’t necessarily due to the fact that women make a conscious decision to be bad people.  It has been my experience that the woman will seek the best possible pay-off obtainable, that can be gathered via the easiest available means.

It seems as if the female brain is hardwired to act and to think in a hand to mouth fashion.  Of course these simple truths are not always necessarily a bad thing in all circumstances.  Pointing out some of these facts, serves about as much utility as criticizing and dog for barking, or criticizing a fish for swimming.  The true facts of the matter is, that the human female is what she is, and there is nothing that anybody can do to change this.

The one saving grace over the millennia, has been the fact then men have been able to step in and save the human female from her own self destruction.  The terribly unfortunate thing in the modern world is that feminism has destroyed the mechanisms by which men and women have been able to form a productive symbiosis. Add to this the fact that society and the family court system(s) have become corrupted to the point where they encourage the most self-destructive elements of the female nature.  This is where the real danger lies.

This is also where common sense is beginning to meet MGTOW.  Of course these ideas are not intended to be a screed against women simply because women are bad people.  In fact the most dangerous thing is that we now live in a society where irrational and overly emotional creatures (women) can dictate the terms of the human condition.  Perhaps the most dangerous part of this whole equation for a man is the entire female environment.  As of right now the whole entire female proposition is a call for alarm. This is especially true in a time when a man can lose everything including his livelihood and his freedom, for simply desiring a family and a future.

Anyway, I too have been in IT over the years.  My last relationship which was with a literally bat s~~~ crazy bitch and probable Borderline who tried to persuade me to sell my own house(Bachelor pad to the max! Yeah, I love it, and they freak over it.) which I own free and clear and put all of the money into some overpriced POS where only her name would be on the title.  WTF????

Of course, I said not just no but hell no!

Great and inspiring well put words on your part!   Thanks….