MGTOWI'm too tired to ask anymore. – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 18:39:58 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/page/478/#post-11591 <![CDATA[I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/page/478/#post-11591 Thu, 25 Dec 2014 23:57:52 +0000 pZ1$ I live in a marriage that is void of regular healthy sex. I have been trying to get it fixed on both sides, Even went for MC.  At this point I am too tired to ask for it anymore. The w seems content not having it and in fact sees nothing wrong with her not wanting it. I know for a fact she enjoys it after she lets me prepare her. Any suggestions? I am at a loss.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11593 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11593 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 00:16:47 +0000 Keymaster OK since you asked…

(hello and welcome by the way)

You used the word “ask”. But the first rule of business and sales is: “if you give someone a chance to say “no”, they usually will”. So remove the question mark.

Never “ask” a woman for anything. It will be a command. She will not allow you to leave the house with a single drop of semen in your body …. because if you’re not dumping it at home, or you’re dumping it someplace else. You don’t actually have to act on this, you are just going to establish a new parameter.

She sees nothing wrong with it.
Would she see something wrong with it if you withheld a wedding from her?

She sees nothing wrong with withholding sex from you, then she won’t have a problem with you getting it elsewhere. A simple flip of the script is often all that’s required. Why should you have to “prepare” her? Vagina is not YOUR reward. Dick is HERS to earn.

http://www.mgtow.com/audio/women-who-use-sex-as-a-bargaining-tool/

Forget “marriage counselling”.
You will not be interested in “working to fix her problem”.

Remove the question mark. Don’t ask. TELL her how it’s going to be from now on. Until then, no “gee honey you look nice today”. No interest. A nice friendly sexual indifference goes a long way. Stop for a beer or 3 on the way home. Or go see a movie. “you’ll be home late”. Tell her to start dinner without you, and not to wait up. Let her wonder where you are. You get the idea.

All of this is just what I would do. Take it if it’s valuable. Throw it away if it’s not.

And Merry Christmas.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11603 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11603 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 01:23:35 +0000 pZ1$ Key master,

Thank you for the response. However, she is the one who comes home late from work since she usually works nights.

I have tried showing indifference towards our sexual relationship. Believe me, she doesn’t notice because she doesn’t care.

But all in all you make good suggestions, and I will take what you write into account.

I thank you.

And Merry Christmas.

 

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11623 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11623 Fri, 26 Dec 2014 07:32:56 +0000 ts

Thank you for the response. However, she is the one who comes home late from work since she usually works nights.
I have tried showing indifference towards our sexual relationship. Believe me, she doesn’t notice because she doesn’t care.

And the most likely explanation is, that her sexual needs already get satisfied elsewhere. And you should do the same. Engage a professional.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11696 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11696 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 01:18:13 +0000 Exactly what TS said. That’s the first thought that came into my head. In ALL my previous relationships where the woman cheated, they acted like how your wife is now.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11720 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11720 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 05:19:32 +0000 Soul Man Pretty much a money back guarantee here…when your sex life goes from 100 to 0, it’s virtually a 100% that she’s getting hers on the side.

“If daddy ain’t gettin’ it at home then someone else is hittin’ it!”

Translation=your marriage is f~~~ed

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11730 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11730 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 10:31:21 +0000 Keymaster

Thank you for the response. However, she is the one who comes home late from work.

I see. Well that’s something else. And I’m inclined to agree with the others.

You are just going have to be a little more CREATIVE.

Let her continue. Let her cheat. Show now objection. Pretend it’s not even an issue. Make her cheat. Give her every reason to. Prepare for it. Get it on film (optional). Get a lawyer, give him the film and file for divorce based-on: “Gross infidelity” and file a civil suit AGAINST THE OTHER GUY for Alienation of Affection. A good lawyer will easily win both cases for you.

You pay her NOTHING.
And HE will pay YOU.

Roll that case into a custody hearing etc….
And flatten your wife in legal fees.
You keep your children, wife gets NOTHING.

Then you get to raise your children as you see fit AND you get a nice settlement to spend on yourself. Hell, why not buy yourself a hot sports car……. and you can now look around for a younger, tighter, hotter more reasonable model to assist with your stress level.

Man wins.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11737 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11737 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 13:54:08 +0000 pZ1$ But the marriage has always been this way. She never was interested in sex after we got married. Only before and even then a little. It did not go from 100% to 0%. All through my years of marriage I always had to go without except when she said yes.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11750 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11750 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 14:48:00 +0000 Keymaster So she put out just to get you to sign the contract?
And then stopped after the wedding?

Well, fortunately you live in a world where you don’t have to put up with it – or go without. Tiger Woods wife didn’t get the job done either. Neither did SuperModel Elizabeth Hurley. So Hugh Grant went and got a $60 blow job someplace else.

What the f~~~ are men doing MARRYING these unfulfilling women in the first place?

That’s what women do. Instead of being worth marrying, they force their husbands to get it elsewhere, and they would rather you PAY THEM TO F~~~ OFF. She’s not interested in being your wife, man. She’s more interested in collecting lifetime alimony after you’ve had your 10 year anniversary. Talk to a divorce lawyer TODAY. If you do it fast enough, you will only have to pay 1.5 days alimony for every 1 day married. He will explain all of it to you.

If you’re going to pay a woman to NOT f~~~ you…… you may as well start paying other women who WILL.

And Happy New Year.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11798 <![CDATA[Reply To: I'm too tired to ask anymore.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/im-too-tired-to-ask-anymore/#post-11798 Sat, 27 Dec 2014 23:51:19 +0000 Deus Ex Machina When My Ex Wife and I were dating, the Sex was endless and I mean ENDLESS!. Two solid years go by into the Marriage?, it all ended and turned into a goddamn chore, Or having her open Her legs with a disgusted face and saying “Here, clean up after your finished”.

 

She might as well of detached the f~~~ing thing, and let Me go f~~~ it in the shower or something. That’s how withdrawn She was after awhile.

 

Anytime I hear “Working Late” that’s a huge red flag. Let Me tell you about Women, they hate working late, and if they do?, it’s because they have a” C~~~ Interest” at work or somewhere. Bulls~~~, She ain’t working late. My Ex Wife told Me that saaaaame story, only to find out later She was meeting up with Her lover in expensive hotels, getting $200 a night room services.

 

No my friend, Send her f~~~ing ass PACKING!. You deserve to get laid, get pussy and everything Sex wise headed your way. And if they don’t wanna give it up?, tell them ALOHA!, as in GOODBYE!. I seriously f~~~ing hate when Women do that s~~~, when you literally have to wash dishes, clean the house, build a new Bathroom and Sink(only for them to f~~~ it up later on with all their s~~~) or get a better job just to  “Earn the Pussy”, oh man that boils my blood.

 

Let her continue. Let her cheat. Show now objection. Pretend it’s not even an issue. Make her cheat. Give her every reason to. Prepare for it. Get it on film (optional). Get a lawyer, give him the film and file for divorce based-on: “Gross infidelity”

 

TRUTH!

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

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