there was a girl I liked and heard she liked me back.  Now we

agreed to be friends at first.  I said OK no problem then when

the time came to ask her out she tells me she didn’t or wasn’t

ready to date because she got out of a bad relationship with a

guy I went to school with yrs before. I said I’m not one of these

douche bags she said I know but I’m only attracted to you as

a ”Friend” Yup got friendzoned even though word around school

from her friends were she liked me more then friends.  So now

three yrs removed I managed to get another girls number  from

the mall we hit it off at first she tells me because of her work schedule

she wouldn’t be able to talk to me on a daily basis again I said OK.

Two weeks later I decided to call her up to say hello and ask if

she wanted to hang out? I get her douche bag BF swearing and threatening

me I started to laugh and said OK come kick my ass? Never showed up

he was one of these gangster  white wannabe’s.  She knew I liked her

but because she told me she wasn’t able to talk due to her job

I agreed but the kicker was she was dating this guy those two

weeks I know because she said so herself.  I just don’t get why

women do this s~~~? They tell a guy they like him or give him

hints he makes a move and she rejects him?  Its no wonder

why my hatred towards women I don’t know grows more and

more each day.  But don’t worry I can control my anger lol.

I decided to look up the girl I knew in HS on Facebook turned

out she’s engaged or married the funny thing is this guy is not

even that good looking I don’t think I’m good looking either

but if I were a woman I’d date myself over him.

she rode the c~~~ carousel for years and now she wants a beta provider and she found one.

I never understood women either in my days, but by now I am beyond this as in “For quite a few years now, I no longer aspire to want to understand women, since this to me is a waste of my own valuable time…”

You got that right.  I stopped trying to understand them a long time ago.  If they want my attention, they’re going have to make themselves comprehensible to me.

I knew in HS would always walk up to me and hug me I took that has a sign of she

wanted me to ask her out.  But when I did I get friendzoned.  I’ve always wonder

if she was a gold digger in a way? Because she grew up as an only child so she

always got what she wanted due to the fact she had no siblings.

Thanks guys and your right never gonna understand them. The funny thing is the girl I knew in HS would always walk up to me and hug me I took that has a sign of she wanted me to ask her out. But when I did I get friendzoned. I’ve always wonder if she was a gold digger in a way? Because she grew up as an only child so she always got what she wanted due to the fact she had no siblings.

I suggest that you Google “Alpha F~~~s Beta Bucks”

Sit down with a drink and some food.

Read through the various articles that are returned as a result of your search.

You will understand women a hell of a lot more after reading through them.

A couple of articles to set you on your way:

http://therationalmale.com/tag/beta-bucks/

http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/

I suggest that you Google “Alpha F~~~s Beta Bucks” …

+1!

You were just a convenience to her–nothing more.

By the way, I’m an only kid, too.  Like other only brats I’ve known, I was far from spoiled.  In fact, I’m sure that our parents had very high expectations of us.  It must have helped.  Many of us went to university.  At least 2 I knew of, besides me, earned graduate degrees.

But don’t think being an only kid was a picnic.  It wasn’t for me.  I got a lot of attention from my parents, including getting spanked or smacked across the head when I misbehaved (much of that I deserved, by the way).  And here’s one more thing that I have to deal with as an only child:  when my father dies, I’m the one who has to make all the necessary arrangements as well as settle his estate.

Afraidofdyingalone: You were just a convenience to her–nothing more. By the way, I’m an only kid, too. Like other only brats I’ve known, I was far from spoiled. In fact, I’m sure that our parents had very high expectations of us. It must have helped. Many of us went to university. At least 2 I knew of, besides me, earned graduate degrees. But don’t think being an only kid was a picnic. It wasn’t for me. I got a lot of attention from my parents, including getting spanked or smacked across the head when I misbehaved (much of that I deserved, by the way). And here’s one more thing that I have to deal with as an only child: when my father dies, I’m the one who has to make all the necessary arrangements as well as settle his estate.

I understand what you meant it sucked because you had no one to play or hang out with.  I thought for the longest time

she had siblings but she told me she didn’t. Never meet the Parents don’t know if I would of anyways?