MGTOWI Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?! – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 11:17:21 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/page/526/#post-2228 <![CDATA[I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/page/526/#post-2228 Wed, 13 Aug 2014 17:33:34 +0000 TYE Should I cut my mother off completely after joining the Military, or should I keep a very distant relationship with her. I don’t think any type of communication will work between us, when ever I get around her she brings out the worst in me. I have had anger management problems all my life, but I have learned to control my emotions she is determined to reverse my progress. She has no respect when I talk to her, and voice my opinion about something she curses and calls me “f~~~ing stupid” telling me I will never be anything. I am sick of her abuse the only reason I haven’t cracked her face open is because, well she is my mother after all even worse my father is no better.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2229 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2229 Wed, 13 Aug 2014 18:42:08 +0000 VileNord I say yes, cut her off. We don’t get to choose the family we are born into, but we can choose who we allow into our lives as independent adults. You do not owe your mother anything for giving birth to you and raising you, this is a myth. You did not choose to be born, SHE chose to have a kid, SHE chose to raise you, SHE did it for herself, you had no choice in the matter, therefore you have no obligation to her. If she doesn’t want to make enough of an effort to keep you in her life, then you have no reason to stay. It is not easy to cut yourself off from family, but if they are poison to your person, it is what you must do if you want to be happy.

Good luck in the military BTW. I enjoyed my brief stint in the Army, even though I was anti-establishment and found myself in trouble quite a bit 😉

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2231 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2231 Wed, 13 Aug 2014 21:11:15 +0000 TYE Thank you Vile you have been a huge help I have for to long felt guilty about wanting to cut my mother off, but now I see what must be done for me to truly be at peace in life.

Thank you lol I hope to gain more discipline in the Military, something that I was deprived of as a child due to being raised by a single woman.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2237 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2237 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 00:12:20 +0000 VileNord Be cautious not to take my views to heart, but rather to take them into consideration. This is ultimately a very personal decision for you and I know nothing about you or your mom other than what you have said here. Once she is aware of your intention, she may never forgive you. She will feel abandoned. So think it through thoroughly and don’t feel guilty about giving her what she deserves if you decide that she deserves it.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2247 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2247 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 08:34:34 +0000 Keymaster VileNord said “we don’t choose the family we are born into” and that was my first thought as well.

But when it comes to “respecting your elders / parents”….. don’t accept that hogwash about how you MUST respect your parents , just because they are your parents. Respect for your elders – including your parents – must be based on parental performance, and not because they once had unprotected sex. It sounds funny, but that’s how you came to exist.

“Some parents are good parents. Most are not.”
– George Carlin

Life is a battle enough already for your to battle the people in your life who knock you down and kick you there. Men not only have to earn their way to of worthlessness, but we also have to withstand the cultural bombardment and the constant “beating down” by females… ‘you’re silly”… “you’re stupid”…. “no I won’t go out with you”….. “you’re wrong”… “you’re a creep”…. “you’re probably a loser”….. “how do I know you’re not a rapist”…. you know exactly what I am talking about.

This lets up as you get older, but early in adult life, it can be discouraging.

When it comes to women (yes including your mother) there’s a really terrific approach that works in our favor. Ignoring them. Kill them with kindness, and when they don’t respond with kindness, totally ignore them. It’s magic.

Best of luck to you. In everything.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2248 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2248 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 12:31:46 +0000 TYE Thank you Key and Vile funny thing is we got into an argument last night, and she said those exact things to me but with a little more brutality “you’re stupid”…”you’re dumb”…”you’re f~~~ing doomed”…”you will never be anything, because god won’t bless you” etc. I said nothing to her when she walked in it seems like she takes her anger out on me after work. I remain humble and my voice stays low, but her voice is raised to the highest it will go I have learned who the real savages are, and it isn’t men look closely at who’s always screaming and losing their “cool”.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2249 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2249 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 13:21:21 +0000 kevward63 Even though I do not personally know the situation between you both ( there is always more than one side !! ) then if that is how she always behaves then get rid….toxic people will poison YOU. Agree with previous points you DID NOT choose to be born , respect & affection is EARNED , not freely given !!

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2250 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2250 Thu, 14 Aug 2014 19:32:55 +0000 Crazy Canuck

Thank you Key and Vile funny thing is we got into an argument last night, and she said those exact things to me but with a little more brutality “you’re stupid”
”you’re dumb”
”you’re f~~~ing doomed”
”you will never be anything, because god won’t bless you” etc. I said nothing to her when she walked in it seems like she takes her anger out on me after work. I remain humble and my voice stays low, but her voice is raised to the highest it will go I have learned who the real savages are, and it isn’t men look closely at who’s always screaming and losing their “cool”.

I suggest you buy a book called “Awaken The Giant Within” and “Unlimited Power” by Tony Robbins. Or you could borrow from your local library if they have it. These two books will help you cope with emotional difficulties. My father was the same way probably worse than your parents. He could men grown men cry and I have seen this myself.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelleï»ż

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2274 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2274 Sat, 16 Aug 2014 05:27:58 +0000 TheBard I say stop communicating with her too if she treats you like that. You don’t need that kind of drama in your life.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2379 <![CDATA[Reply To: I Strongly dislike my mother, and want to cut her off?!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/i-strongly-dislike-my-mother-and-want-to-cut-her-off/#post-2379 Wed, 20 Aug 2014 03:29:41 +0000 Warrior I totally agree with what the others here have said. No one has the right to make you feel like s~~~ and antagonize you like that. Quite frankly, women like that shouldn’t be allowed to have kids in the first place. You’re completely justified in cutting her out, mother or not.

On a side note, I really hope you haven’t internalized the s~~~ she’s spouting too much. Don’t let her poison be your problem.

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