so if you read my introduction you know it’s not likely to be a merry Christmas. And I would like to think I can stand my ground when the ball starts rolling, and that’s probably close. So if cupcake comes on with the flirty I still love you crap how would you men deal with your emotions? It’s not easy for men to detach and stay that way especially when the whistle hasn’t been waxed properly for over two years. I don’t know if that scenario will play out. It certantly could. But hearing how other men would deal with that situation would help me and maybe some others someday.  Your thoughts?

Like if you previously believed the world was flat, and then you personally sailed around it, could you ever think the world was flat again? Even if you did not personally traverse the oceans yourself, there is data, there are satellite images, documentation, testimony, films, globes in every classroom. A man could even look up to the heavens himself and GUESS the world is round because the moon casts shadows exactly like a sphere, the sun is round from all angles all the time. Every planet is round. You can’t go back to believing in Santa again, either. And why would you want to?

The temporary haze of orgasm is just that. Temporary.

…. as long as you are aware that her affections (no matter how “genuine” they may be in the moment) are temporary too. You can enjoy the temporary pleasure, but that’s all it is. You could even ask cupcake herself: “if I wasn’t good enough for you BEFORE.. why would I be good enough for you NOW??”

This is a question no cupcake is expecting. Nor is it one she wants to be asked. Her uncomfortable response should be reason enough for you.

NEVER forget,a woman’s plan is to infiltrate your life and slowly begin alienating your friends until it’s just you and her. This is the female strategy to slowly – over time – get you to believe she is “the best thing to ever happen to you”. (See? Im still here even when your friends are not) If a man is not careful, he will believe it. And any return she makes (or slightest bit of affection she shows) looks like “the grand gesture”… when it’s anything but. An ex-girlfriend increases her “value” not by actually INCREASING HER VALUE… but my removing all other value from your life until there is very little left. She is counting on the ability to waltz right back into it while assuming you will be there. Don’t give her this satisfaction.

This is why absolutely zero contact after a break up is so potent, effective and even necessary. By doing NOTHING – and with no effort – you show her that your time, attention, affection and care was not free or to be taken for granted. You pull the rug out from under her. Realize that she left because she thought she could come back. If she knew in advance it would be PERMANENT, she would have not have been so quick to pull the trigger. Keeping as many irons in the fire as she can is her game. Why do you think women collect EX-es like shoes on Facebook? How many pairs of shoes and outfits do women keep which they have no interest in wearing again?

They do this so that you can be “Justin Case.” If you take her back, that’s your name. “Justin Case”.

• Just in case she gets fat.
• Just in case it doesn’t work out with the new guy
• Just in case she needs a date on national holidays
• Just in case she needs an emotional tampon

Never be that guy.

The holidays (especially) are when women are on the prowl. The day before Thanksgiving to the day after Valentines’ Day is when men would do well to make themselves as scarce as possible.

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.
That’s something you can say to her face. Merry Christmas. My gift to you.

First thing I’m gonna do after I file the paperwork is stop at a little girls house who has been asking me to giver some attention, I haven’t been unfaithful to cupcake yet even after all the s~~~ she’s put me through. But the day I have stamped paperwork all bets are off. Just because I’ve taken the red pill don’t mean I still don’t have those needs.

1. Get a proper lay. Post cum clarity sake.

2. Remember all the times I was left high and dry.

3. Remember I wasn’t important enough then, and still not now.

4. Remember catching her cheating, ( that seed of hurt has grown into hatred, don’t forget it!)

5. rinse and repeat !

Your needs are part of the deal. If ONE woman doesn’t meet them, another one WILL.
Forget about the ones who don’t. And …. Happy New Year.

Smiles.

YOU are.

There is cause for celebration today. We had a record number of signups. Guys like YOU are the reason for that and we tip our hats. Really appreciate your introduction and be strong my friend. Perhaps you will give a report as things progress.

I feel for you and understand your difficulties under the circumstances.

Key Master is absolutely correct.  DO NOT Fruck your Soon-to-Be EX).  Cupcakes ain’t Shiet.

If she offers you the Pussy, it’s a Trap that allows your EX to get into your Mind (through your C~~~).  Believe me…It will be used against You in the Court of Divorce Law.  As the ancient rapper Rick Ross once said “F~~~ the Judge and the Prosecutor.”  Don’t’ ask me Y…Just Don’t F~~~ your X.”

I’ll say it against: “Don’t F~~~ your X.”   F~~~ Nike:  “Just Don’t Do It.”

The Solution to Clear Up the “I’m So Horny Cobwebs”:  Go F~~~ another Girl.

Don’t tell the Cobweb-F~~~-Girl your business or cry on her shoulder about your pending divorce war.   Just go over there and tear that thing up, implode your Nuts, release all your tension, and Prepare yourself for Battle.  I call it getting some Battle-Ready Pussy.

Rinse and Repeat. Do not Dry Clean these Hoes.  Use Cold Water only.  Real Cold.

HELP ME my brothers help me keep MY light. I don’t need the second guessing! Send me good karma..

Moby, in dire need of sanity. ,,!!

I caught my wife cheating. I decided that one thing I did not have to endure is jealousy and doubt. Absolute dealbreaker for me. My ex told my parents we could get back together – all I needed to do is have a pay back affair. Two wrongs do not make a right. I am certain that when my children are old enough they will understand the reason for separation. It helps that my ex is such a slut that even her long standing staff resigned when she broke up on of her patients marriages.- so it is just not my judgment but others reaching the conclusion the my ex is a municipal velocipede.