Just wanted to do the brief intro. Been out of relationships for about 5 years (a few offers but I just can’t do it anymore). The majority of my relationships have involved her feeling she can’t live without me. 6 months to a couple o years later, deciding she needs to live without me. Finally, 6 months after that (without exception) deciding she was wrong to leave me and wants to come back. Needless to say they’re all very p~~~ed off when I say NO!

I currently work in a female dominated industry (got heaps of stories). Working there has been my greatest awakening. I’m a kind, friendly and generous person by nature. But a couple of years in that industry have taught me to be guarded, cold and selfish. Don’t get me wrong, I do get along with the women there, but just always on guard for when they’ve decided, for example, the other day, (mid morning) she’s decided she’s done enough work this morning and needs to kick up a stink to shift the blame to someone, because (in her enraged opinion) they’re not doing enough work. All this emotional explosion just so she can justify doing nothing the rest of the day. For all her devious planning and emotional outburst to get out of doing work, gotta wonder if it’s just easier to do the work! The final irony being, the one woman trying to get out of doing physical work will go out jogging for an hour after work! Then complain bitterly cos she still thinks she’s fat!… stories… I got a million of em!

I can’t talk either as I’m in UK but it’s still not as bad….. yet.

Yes do tell story’s of the wo-men. It’s wonderful hearing how they operate …. insight in madness 😀

Lostmanfound wrote:

The majority of my relationships have involved her feeling she can’t live without me. 6 months to a couple o years later, deciding she needs to live without me. Finally, 6 months after that (without exception) deciding she was wrong to leave me and wants to come back.

I’ve been through this classic cycle more times than I can remember. The one at the top of my list is my date for next Saturday canceled. She got married. A couple of months later she was back without hubby and making “I’m available” noises again.