His post stated something to the effect of if men dont approach girls, theyll claim you are “aafraid” of them, for whatever reason.

I have two distinct memories of girls saying this to me when I was younger, and wanted your guys honest opinion. I was kind of a late bloomer when it came to branching out, and the main reason for that is I was brought up in a household with old school traditional values. Sex was for marriage, was the way I was brought up, and it was sacred.

I remember when I got out of that awkward, puberty pimple phase, and the first time I ever saw girls giving me that animalistic F~~~ ME eyes. Walking in late to a class in junior college, and I saw four girls giving me that swollen eye gazed look. I was SHOCKED. I dont hide my expressions too well, and Im sure my face showed this. One of the girls said “hes AFRAID of girls”. That happened on one other occasion.

Years later as a man, those words stuck with me. Because when your young and impressionable, that happens. Anyway, until recently I always looked back with regret, as though I did something wrong, and should have behaved differently.

What do you guys think? I know it sounds petty and trivial, but remembering it all these years later says something to me.

I love the way my parents raised me, but a part of me knows I wasnt fully equipped and aware of how women are. I viewed them as innocent, non slutty, so of course I was shocked in realising their true nature.

Anyway, just curious if anyone can relate. Those kinds of comments are so immasculating from women.

Now, I obviously know better. But being a ripe youth, it is interesting looking back.

You have every reason to be afraid. Marry one. She will get your kids, house, money, and then she will get you thrown in jail for the crime of being broke.

Get a job handling poisonous reptiles. It pays better than dating and it’s worlds safer.

You should be this way when a child …. boy …. adolescent …. teen …. young ….. man ….. elderly.

Being afraid of women will serve you well.

However, can I replace the words ‘afraid or scared’ with F~~~ EM

Ever notice how women will complain about men who don’t approach them but will never approach a man themselves? It’s a power trip for them, to sit back and reject men one after the other. If you want a taste of how powerful that can be then go to a strip club and let strippers approach you and knock them back when they ask if you would like a lap dance.

Women only want a man when it suits them, when they don’t want one we are just dead meat for them.

The only way we can win is to not play. Then watch them s~~~ themselves.

And that includes using the sex industry.

This incident happened when I was a TEENAGER. Im not afraid of girls lol, and have no problem approaching any girl now a days.

I was asking if any of you experienced this in your youth prior to being more experienced.

I only ask because I HAD looked back on those events with regret, but now I believe it was just girls playing head games.

I think my original post was too long, which is why my original question got lost.

No worries. Just curious NOW, at this age, if any of you can relate looking back on your youth.

My friend and I went swimming with two girls both of whom were quite attractive. I had a crush on one of them as did every other swinging c~~~ in a 3 mile radius. Her friend who had a better body than her began to approach me for a make out session in the pool. I chickened out due to fear. I realized my mistake within a few hours and never again got offered the chance to sample those juicy t~~~ she possessed.

Of course, they both look like washed out sea hags now that we’re in our late 40s.

The correct response is “meh” then a shrug of the shoulders and walk away.

And in relation to your question about experience in youth, women are more interested if a man isn’t desperate to speak to them so ignoring them will likely make them want you more. It shows self respect and scarcity, particularly if you are busy pursuing your own life dreams and goals. Unless a woman brings some benefit to your life (even temporarily like sex), there is absolutely no reason to speak to her.