MGTOW….Help me – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 18:31:38 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/page/336/#post-54607 <![CDATA[….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/page/336/#post-54607 Wed, 20 May 2015 17:53:20 +0000 Gambit1015 Hello my brothers I hope you are all doing well.

I usually try to avoid posting things like this because I am tired of being judged and being told to bite the bullet. But I feel I have no other choice but to ask for help. I am a 23 year old (practically a virgin by choice) and I have been having a lot of issues. Some of you may say I am a TFL but I don’t want to believe it. Women have never really been attracted to me like ever. I really didn’t care about relationships or marriage until one day when I was 18. I began to think that there is something wrong with me. When I was 20 I went out and tried to pick up women with little to no success. I began to get depressed and angry until I found MGTOW. MGTOW has helped a little however I can’t help feel like there is something wrong with me. Why didn’t women want to date me before? I also notice myself being annoyed when my friends are picking up girls. Sometimes when I do go out I feel like women avoid me completely and are repulsed by my presence. I keep thinking in my head that it isn’t them its me. I feel like a huge loser who is going no where and all I can think about is how women have always rejected me. I feel I keep making excuses as to why I am single. Can I even be a MGTOW? I don’t want to have this mindset anymore, I don’t want to keep thinking about it, I don’t want to be angry, in fact I think I’m scared. Please do not judge me just….help me…please…get me out of this mindset I don’t want to keep doing this to myself. As hard as I try to see my own self worth it seems that women are always finding a way to take it all away. What do I do? Please help me…

Eye Have You

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54614 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54614 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:01:02 +0000

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54615 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54615 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:02:34 +0000 Keymaster Hey.

What if I told you ….the WHOLE IDEA is to get you to think there is something wrong with YOU.

http://www.mgtow.com/video/women-over-the-hill/

They WANT you to think there is something wrong with you. That’s the whole point. The system NEEDS you to feel insecure. It thrives off it. Especially when you’re under 25. They want you to be afraid … of what exactly? Of being alone. Of being a virgin. Of continuing to have sex even after you’re not a virgin. Of being bald. Of not being muscular…..

http://www.mgtow.com/video/women-are-parasites/

You’re going to feel MUCH better about this starting today.

You’re 23. You can’t see the future yet. You have MUCH to look forward to.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54616 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54616 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:05:07 +0000 ILiveAgain First you MUST let go of women. Stop getting hung up on them.

Take a break away from that s~~~ and then start a process of self evaluation.

What are you good points? Tell us.

Bad points? Tell us.

You won’t get anywhere if you don’t first build and maintain the man you want to be or are but just don’t know it.

Tell us about yourself and lets see what we can do.

Chasing women is a rigged game.

Funny that most of us are running from women hahaha

Welcome friend.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54617 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54617 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:06:55 +0000 iamblichus I’m married in my mid-30’s and I am basically my wife’s bitch. But really, do you work out? Do you take care of your appearance? Start with that. I met my wife when I was the fittest in my life and have quickly gone downhill, and due to kids etc. can’t take care of myself the way I like. But I would start there. You’re 23, you should be able to move f~~~ing mountains. Get some endorphins pumping. At the very least you’ll feel better. I don’t see why young dudes who have no commitments can’t at the very least be in shape. Then the pussy will fling itself at you, at least something. At the very least you’ll feel better and be confident. Learn to wake up early and sleep little

Hire an escort if you can. Get that virgin s~~~ out of the way. Be careful with this and don’t be stupid. Do your research. No shame in paying as you gotta pay something to get access to a woman, at least in time and effort, but probably money as well. Then maybe once you’ve accumulated some confidence you can try to pick up women, but don’t put the pussy on the pedestal. Get what you need and get the f~~~ out. Love fades, they will manipulate you, and you’ll end up like me.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54620 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54620 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:10:17 +0000 Durden My advice to head over to the red pill on reddit.

Red Pill Reddit

Great wealth of information. Maybe MGTOW is for you maybe it is not. First thing is to understand the red pill. Read the sidebar.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54621 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54621 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:12:53 +0000 @iamblichus you sure you’re not a tradcon bro?

F~~~ WOMEN, he doesnt need to do s~~~ for them,he doesnt need to work out to attract them, he doesnt need to feel bad for being a virgin and he HAS TO STOP basing himself upon his success at penetrating vaginal orifices- IT MEANS NOTHING

Edit: i should of said, im not saying dont have sex with girls, do what you want. But basing one’s worth on women is pointless and stifiling to one’s potential.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54623 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54623 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:13:04 +0000 Cipher Highwind That subreddit is a s~~~hole and is openly hostile to MGTOW. Stick to YouTube videos.

Durden, your post has been noted.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54626 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54626 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:15:05 +0000 iamblichus Nah, I stand corrected in that he shouldn’t get his s~~~ together so he can get pussy, but if it’s f~~~ing with his skull he has to resolve it.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54627 <![CDATA[Reply To: ….Help me]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/help-me/#post-54627 Wed, 20 May 2015 18:15:48 +0000 EDIT: I just saw what Cipher Highwind said, and I feel the EXACT same way…he kind of stole my thunder there just seconds before me 😛

I had some issues with the Red Pill Reddit.  They seemed a little too “dudebro” to me.  “IF YOU WANT TO SLEEP WITH WOMEN, WORK ON YOUR UGLY SELF,” that’s the vibe I got off of them.  I am fine with guys telling me to work on myself (and I certainly am for my own health and sanity), but when they say it as a goal to “get in bed with a woman,” it seems non-MGTOW related.  Instead, it seems like they’re still thinking of women nonstop, and not themselves.  Not to say that a MGTOW isn’t “going their own way” if they’re sleeping with women, as that IS their decision…but having a woman around who will drive a man to insanity seems a little counterproductive to what the MGTOW philosophy really is.

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