I was a long time lurker around this site for 3 months and finally decided to create an account.  My name is Tobias!

I’ve been lucky to only date one girl for  5 years and I’ve felt like that was really the only taste of the relationship world I needed. I mostly grew up as an only child by my Mother along with my father figure I got to see on the weekend my Grand-Dad. I would have to say my mother raised me quite well instead of catering to a female she taught me to live for myself. My Grand-dad taught me many things such as fishing, cutting wood, mowing the lawn, sadly we never got to cars as he passed before then. My aunt who is in Germany has also bestowed onto me that being single is amazing “You never have anyone tie you down”, “You can come home to know you are single and being refreshed”, etc.

For some odd reason my family, well my mothers side has said they would have no issue with me being single along with bearing no children. I’m not much into either honestly.  I feel as since I cannot fully understand myself as a human being how could I understand another one? So, I feel as If I am lucky due to my Mother’s side being supportive of being single.

I’ll try to participate in as many as discussions as I possibly can.

Nice meeting you all.

Enjoy the forums.

Cheers