Recently I re-discovered YouTube and while poking around found the Mayor of Mgtown’s channel, then Sandman and Barbarossa. Suddenly I realized there are other like me out there and have been checking out a lot of the content on YT. I have been single, not in a relationship since July 21, 2000. Funny how you can remember the important dates. I had had two prior relations~~~s that went badly, I got cheated on in the first and the second was a “feminist advocate” (enough said about that one – yeesh). The relationship that broke me was an on again off again relationship that was only like that because she was using myself (and her brother I found out later) to finance her life. I was Mr. Good enough for now but that she was always looking for better, always. She broke up with me twice and I took her back twice until I realized I was being used as a sap and grew a backbone. In addition to this and at the same time I watched my older brother get screwed by a pretty young girl for his money. It was at that point that I was done.

I’m glad to see other people out there talk about this. I’ve been shamed primarily by women about not getting into relationships and it’s nice to have somewhere to go where people understand.

As an end note I recently saw the woman I mentioned above and am glad I avoided that trap. She’s put a lot of weight.

I will have to spend some time going through the forums.