That sounds terrible, does it not?  However, the story that’s being told by people that knew him (I know someone that knows him, who was telling me he told her the same story here) that the 14 year old posed as a 19 year old on an adult dating website.

Many people are calling for this guy’s death, his castration, and “swift justice” to be done to him.  I’m all for good and righteous judgment and all, but this seems all kinds of wrong to me.

For the action, sure, he should face punishment.  I’m not disputing that.  What I AM against is simply letting this 14 year old girl go free!  I feel that she should face criminal charges for posing as something she’s not, and getting someone else in trouble for it!

Many people are saying “you’re an idiot if you can’t tell the difference between a 14 year old and a 19 year old.”  I must be an idiot then, because I notice many young females looking a lot older than they actually are.  It’s half the reason I don’t even look at women anymore!

“Why didn’t he ask why she couldn’t drive?”  I can tell you, the area he lives in is full of people who don’t make much money, and who aren’t the most educated in the world.  I wouldn’t put it past anyone not to have a driver’s license yet.

I even saw some people telling others to “stop victim blaming.”  My responses are pretty harsh, but to the point.  (I’m sure you’ll discover which person is me on there.)

Most women generally by nature like older men, and men like younger women because they’re generally more pleasing to the eyes and it kicks in our biological nature to want to take them and have children with them.

Yet, which gender is shamed for the natural preference?  This isn’t me saying that being attracted to a 14 year old is natural…this is me saying that younger women are looking older these days (on purpose, no doubt) and we’re branded as monsters for following our God-given instinct.  Yet, I hear no complaints about these young girls dressing to look older to attract the older men.  Instead, we’re told to “stop looking and stop ‘victim blaming’ the girls.”

Again, this is why I refuse to believe a girl on anything anymore.  I’m usually shamed by people when I call someone attractive.  They ask me, “how old is she?”  If I respond with “19”, I’m called a “creep” (I’m 26).  Friends and family alike.  My family, simply because my sister is in that age range.  They say “you’re attracted to someone your sister’s age?  They’re a little young…” (Though my mother can’t say much…she’s been seeing men that are 15+ years older than her recently.)

Also I can attest to the nastiness of high school girls, when I was in HS they caused me alot of trouble spreading rumors, trying to manipulate and stirring up hatred, while never having the maturity to approach me, thinking somehow I would magically know. I even watched some of those people turn against their friends quite viciously. I also had to listen to how I was “gay” throughout HS.

After 20, I noticed how most of the attractive women I knew in high school all gained about 100+ pounds and kept it. I’m not one to say much, as I gained weight as well…but I wasn’t proud of it. I’m at least trying to lose that weight now and not saying “ACCEPT ME FOR MY FATNESS OR YOU’RE FAT-PHOBIC!” Maybe that’s why the younger ones attract me (physically). I don’t see myself as a “creep”, I see myself as pretty common sense…but we know it’s not common sense anymore. More like “rare” sense.

Yeah one girl we knew in HS was decently attractive and fit, by the end of high school she had ballooned right up, her good looks and slim lines vanished forever. I also had a teachers assistant in several classes, she was nice initially but then she got married and within 6 months had turned into a total c~~~. I ran into her again a couple of years later and she was totally unrecognizable, she had ballooned right up.

As for the preference for younger women, I usually keep such things to myself/in the inner circle, since it’s not a popular or accepted viewpoint these days.

This isn’t me saying that being attracted to a 14 year old is natural…

It’s perfectly natural actually.
Let’s not forget that we’re all the great great grandchildren of 13-15 years old mothers.
Also in many places of the world, including western modern countries like Spain or Italy 14 is the age when the laws say “okay, you’re old enough to have sex and of course your partner age means nothing and it’s none of our business”

Many experts have criticized the belief that attraction toward pubescent individuals is somehow pathological, perverted or abnormal when it’s a universal trait of human nature and when puberty is the universal strategy nature use to signal the sexual readiness of an individual.
Althought the legality of it changes from country to country, the DSM doesn’t list an attraction to teen girls (even when it’s exclusive, when one likes both teens girls and older girls it’s even more normal) as a pathology or a mental issue.

Pedophilia is a serious dangerous mental illness, it’s unnatural and harmful. Peodophilia is the morbid attraction toward pre-pubescent children.
A pedophile would rather stare at a spider rather than staring at a girl with body hair.
Now to use the word pedophilia when talking about sexually mature girls having and expecially initiating consensual relationships with someone older or even when discussing age differences like 20 and 36 is disrespectful of the sufference of real children victims of pedophilia and it’s totally asinine.

Just think of it, this same guy in Italy would face no charge, because the relationship would be legal. Tell me how a clearly mature girl who is horny enough to initate a sexual contact with someone older over the web and enjoying every minute of it, the sex and the power-trip the deception gave her, goes from being a victim in one country or state to being an” individual making a personal choice” just by stepping foot in a different juristiction?

And no, you can’t really tell a 14 year old from a 18-19 year old, unless she is a late bloomer. Most 14 years old have been developing their breast since age 11 and they won’t grow anymore. Many have been having periods for years, meaning they have been flooded with estrogen hormones for years hence they have all the curves, all the feminine traits and secondary sexual characteristics of a 18 years old. Most parents have been caught claiming “what a hot chick” when not recognizing their own 14-15 year old daughter from the back side at the beach.