Understanding that you’ve been socialized is a huge step in itself.
Right there, you learn the s~~~ you accepted responsibility for wasn’t really your fault.

There’s a common misconception that “MGTOW are just one blow job away from reverting to blue-pill”…. which is not 100% a misconception. If you’re not diligent the dark side of the force can have a strong influence on the weak mind. (if you get the reference)

The world will test you. Constantly.

You may find it’s best to INTERNALIZE it only. Meaning….. when you are up to your neck in blue-pill dogs~~~ don’t fight the word TOO much. Go with it. Let it pass you if you must. Like that crazy motorbike on the freeway race past and play games with his life as you cruise calmly in your 69 ‘vette with the top down. You don’t race him just because he calls you “chicken”.

If you had the ability to read thoughts and see through clothing… would you TELL anyone?
Would you say “I know you’re lying!!!”

?

No. You would just smile knowing how to play the game better. And win.
So when you’re surrounded by gynocentric bulls~~~, there is no need to “fight” it.
All that’s required is an internal refusal to subscribe to it.

2) Work out regularly. not only do you feel better, you will look better over time. Better sleep and more confidence going out while summer is coming up (beach/pool parties, etc). You also get more testosterone and people who workout live longer.

3) Read more. I personally avoid fiction and like reading sociopolitical/current events but as long as you are exercising your mind you are growing intellectually. An educated mghow is a force to be reckoned with..

4) only talk about mgtow topics with people that won’t alienate you. This I learned the hard way. People going against the hypergamist tide will be enemies of the feminist state. Choose conversation topics with people carefully. most people are not listening they are just waiting for their turn to talk. Be a listener.

4) travel! Go out of your comfort zone. Explore faraway places. It may seem daunting at first but most adventures happen from choosing the path less traveled.

Those are some basics..

You can see just as much evidence of all that blue pill fairly tale bulls~~~, but it’s no closer to being real than Santa Claus. Watch jewelry commercial, sitcoms, disney movies and other chick flicks that all wrap up with ‘happily ever after’, and after a while, you might start wishing that s~~~ was real, but it isn’t. It’s all as fake as Santa Claus. It’s purpose is all economic. Kids who believe in Santa Claus have parents who spend money as a result. Recipients of that money (shopping malls etc) keep throwing Santa Claus out there to help stimulate spending…

Marriage is a similar industry, and you should not think of it any other way. Half of them get divorced in first 5 years. Think of the BILLIONS of dollars in cash and assets that change hands to wives and their lawyers with that many marriages ending. Getting married and living happily ever after is a fairly tale retold over and over because, like a new batch of babies every year that need to hear about Santa Claus to get that money coming in, there is a new batch of just-turned-18 men every year who need to hear that happily ever after bulls~~~ to keep their money coming in…

You think of marriage as the goal…the finish line. Like many others here, I’ve been married. We think of marriage as a formality that women have to go through in order to take our money without paying gift taxes or prize taxes on it.

When you have those blue pill moments, try to think of marriage the way you think of Santa Claus… because to women, that’s what it is: someone coming to magically give them things they don’t have to earn.

Mangineer: Great tips, I’ve recently picked up one of those old timey medicine b~~~~ and am looking to invest in some weights with which to work out, great stress relief as well. I’ve also been looking in to meditaton, so I’m looking forward to seeing where that goes. You’re right about the media as well, I always loved the show ‘Friends’ growing up but I’ve tried to watch a couple of re-runs as of late and it just makes me cringe. If you’re familiar with the show, I can see a lot of my self in Ross’ character which is just distrubing  haha. I definatally want to travel more, I’ve wanted to travel to Paris for a weekend for a while now so I might treat myself for my birthday in July 2016.

BrainPilot: Good comparison, though I was never really allowed to believe in Santa, i was raised by a single mother who refused to let anyone take the credit for her purchases so as long as I remember my gifts always came from “”mommy claus” lol. I’ve been reading in to the realities of marriage, which  is helping to dispel the romantised image that I held in my head. Just a it of a crushing realization y’know?

I think i’m still in the shock/angry phase of the MGTOW transistion, so me knee-jerk reaction is to call out female bulls~~~

Oh you can have quite a bit of fun with that too. I find it most entertaining as long as it don’t let it p~~~ you off, because then you come off “butt hurt”. But apply some amused mastery (i.e. don’t say anything just smile) and it will drive them insane.

I like to think of women as the offense who tries to shoot pucks at your net, a MGHOW is just the world’s best goalie.
He doesn’t actually need to take shots back. Just become proficient at deflecting the puck.

The other team will get p~~~ed because they can’t score on your net… but that’s not YOUR problem.

Cheers.

I’ve found this web site to be of massive aid as a recovering blue piller.  I also try to spend as much time as possible with my alpha male friends too.  These guys instinctively got it at an early age.  My closest alpha friend’s favorite quote is: “He who cares the least wins.”

I Have no television feed in my home, just Internet… When I see the programming  others expose themselves to, I shriek. I prefer to call it a (pardon the expression) “C~~~cesium 137 hot spot”. I avoid personal c~~~amination with my MGTOW lead shield. My mind has developed the ability to spot each and every feminist bullet headed towards my brain.

Eventually over time (depending on your efforts) You will see the streaming bullets~~~, and it won’t enter your mind, these feminist bullets will only add to your MGTOW lead shield…..

I developed these skills in isolation over many years…I had no idea there were others with the exact mindset and almost identical MENtal blueprints……

My closest alpha friend’s favorite quote is: “He who cares the least wins.”

I lived the life of not caring for more than a decade, and I’m sorry to report that your alpha friend is wrong. And the quote also falls prey to reductio ad absurdum, because if you follow it literally, the way to be the ultimate winner is to not care about anything ever, but if you did that, then you wouldn’t care about winning, and it wouldn’t matter whether you won or lost.

To answer the OP’s concern, the way to keep from lapsing from MGTOW is simply to embrace logic and reject emotional decision making. Doing that will greatly enhance your life, with benefits far beyond anything to do with MGTOW.