I have a couple of kids, they were quite young at the time. However, the thought of staying with this pathetic creature for the rest of my life was a thought that just made me want to shoot myself, or worse. Special thanks goes to my father, who stayed with his wife (my mother) right up to the day he died, because he couldn’t “afford” to leave her. This women suffered from bipolar and a few other mental health issues that were off the chart – in short, she was a complete and utter useless individual – a parasite. This women made my father’s life a living Hell. Generally, a good lesson of what not to do….

I accepted the fact, that I was going to lose significant money and assets, only see my kids part time and pay ongoing child support. To cut a long story short, the financial raping from the courts and child support agency was/is hard, nasty  and heavy. I ultimately paid  the price, for staying in a relationship too long (courts will punish men for not getting out earlier…this is a fact ). As a matter of fact, I paid the price for making an extremely poor life choice.

On the positive side of all this:

• I’ve managed to purchase a few investment properties
• I’m traveling to foreign countries on holidays each year
• I’ve got more cash, even though I’m paying child support and debt off from my “settlement”
• I do whatever and whenever I please
• I surf as many times a week and for hours on end, without a bitch constantly nagging me
• I’m completely free
• Living by myself, in my bachelor’s pad 🙂
• I’m in financial rebuilt mode, which is totally awesome and cool
• Did I mention, I’m complete and utterly free ? LOL

I did meet a hot female that I thought was not like all woman aka “special” (NAWALT). Unfortunately, after living with her for 12 months, she revealed her true self and it basically felt like I was just in the same old marriage but with a different person. I could see myself enslaving me….and repeating history! LESSON LEARNT 🙂

For you men out there contemplating divorcing your parasite of a partner/wife. I’d recommend doing it and not use the excuse of “not being able to afford it”. Chances are she will out live you and when you get older (retirement) you’ll have to support her financially, this is not to mention her ongoing expense medical problems. Either way, you’re going to pay.

The biggest lesson I’ve learnt so far. Many, if not most women will want commitment, they will try and control you, change you, trap you and take your freedom and manhood away from you. They do this in a very slow and passive aggressive manner…sex or lack of it, is a control mechanism, along with shaming language and making you jealous (flirting or mentioning other men). Manipulation is a womens strength and a man weakness – avoid it (manipulation) at all costs…do not engage the enemy!

Couple of books and information that have helped me

• Get the edge – Tony Robbins
• The manipulated man
• Dr Love – the system (dating dictionary)
• No more Mr nice guy
• The Predatory female – Lawrence Shannon

A guy in prison and a guy in a bad marriage have so much in common: all they do is think about freedom, and wonder how they got themselves into this predicament

Since then, he put in another 13 years of working and saving…which has been 13 of the highest paying years of his career, plus minus the two dependents living at home with him, setting him up for a period of his life where he could save the most.  If he splits now he’s got a lot more to split, and if he wants to retire by 65 a couple years at best to rebuild…meaning, not enough time.

Freedom of mind, body, soul and spirit.

Freedom to think, feel, love and laugh.

Freedom to dream, create, advance and experience.

What price freedom?

Freedom……any price is worth paying. Soldiers have died and countries have fought for it and for others.

I’ve known men who have freed themselves from the slavery of marriage or worse – their ex-wife did it for them. They have had the financial raping happen to them, ONLY to go back for a second bite with their new little Miss NAWALT ….”surprisingly” they end up divorced for the 2nd time and their assets are halved again. Some real hardcore dudes actually go back for a 3rd spanking from a NAWALT 🙁

Insanity is an intelligent person doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting a different result

Some men or possibly most men just can’t  alone. Obviously the idea of being lonely, scares them more than giving their hard earn assets and money away to a person they end up hating….

Rant over! LOL

I’m hoping some guys will see this post and it helps them realise that there is light at the end of the the dark tunnel. That they have to do all the hard work, make tough decisions and face the realities of the cause and effect of their actions.

The single best thing a man can do, is when your “enemy” tries to smash you to little bits and is Hell bent on destroying you……is to rise from the ashes and make a complete and utter success out of yourself, while totally ignoring the evil troll that attempted to caused all the pain and chaos. Men need to focus on themselves and not external influences that side track them from their mission.

Its just straight up dumb that you could go into a marriage and bring assets while the woman brings debt, and you can be the higher earner every year of the marriage even if missed work due to children isn’t a factor, and you literally end up with 50% or less if things go sour.  Its ridiculous to put yourself in that situation when you could just stay unwed, and if you have a relationship that goes sour you walk away financially in tact.  The worst thing that can happen is child support, but even that is a lot less painful than your house and half your savings to go with it.

Would be cheaper to run a prostitute at the end of the day….and you can always upgrade to a younger model 😀

Once you commit to a woman, on average, sexual relations drop off in a linear manner. The sex starts off flat out, the man commits and as the years draw on – it ends up a sexless relationship. The man’s logic; if we live together, I’ll have sex on tap.  Well, the logical man just fell into the commitment trap and now the sex will die, eventually, and the female will try and emasculate her man. The so called couple, end up as room mates 🙁

Generally, cohabitation is high risk and a bad investment choice – for a male.

Such a shame women are the way they are but hey that’s life!

MGTOW Baby!!

I would venture a guess that women don’t really want “commitment”, however.  Ultimately, they want your finances, whether in marriage or divorce.   Hence their desire for “commitment”.

Just heard about a guy this weekend whose wife was a waitress at their restaurant.  She was likely hot in the day, and is still good looking, but soon to hit the wall.  She’s definitely got the crazies, and seems to drink vodka endlessly.  Well, he finally got sick of her cheating for the 4th time, and is divorcing her.  Of course, again she’s a waitress, living in their 750K home with an nice in ground pool, while he is living in a one bedroom apartment.  She brought nothing to the marriage, but she’ll leave with cash and prizes.  I hope he sees the freedom it will bring him, but wow all that money could have been better spent on him.

MGTOW!!