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Hi. There are 3 kinds of women here:

1. Whores looking for a wallet.
2. Attention whores, fake accounts and posers
3. …and women who are fun and like to have a good time.

Which one are you?

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That’s it. (not exact wording I didn’t write it down as he told me)

Now you force her to classify herself. When you don’t hear back from her, it’s like she’s telling you she’s a whore. It’s not even a silly PUA angle. You don’t have to type out all kinds of other s~~~. It doesn’t matter what she typed on her profile, every one of them gets the same message. PASTE. SEND. PASTE. SEND. PASTE. SEND 100 times…. and go about your day. If other guys send the same message, even better!. It tell them women seeking validation, or dinners, or concert tickets, and s~~~ paid-for can go f~~~ themselves.

• All of her “likes” and “I wants” are meaningless.
(You don’t care, and mention none of them.)
• It literally “starves” the system.
• You don’t give her validation, she has to come and get it
• You force her to qualify herself
• Saves a boatload of time.
• You establish ground rules, and she better be fun or she is out

Now you never have to message her again, you can go about ignoring her from this point on. and she has done all of the work for you. She knows by not responding that’s the end of the interaction, and she no longer exists. A lot of MGTOW don’t care enough to bother, but if you’re online scoping, drop this little bomb and let me know what happens.

I’m starting to notice a different perspective when I view women’s profiles. I can see more between the lines now and when I browse through the choice of women, I’ve noticed the possible viable choices for myself becoming even more meager than I originally thought when I signed up. Taking the “red pill” is giving men values and principles and this is causing, at least for myself, my choice of women to be much more refined.

I just look through profiles of women now and think, “what can you offer me other than your priceless vagina that my male friends don’t already provide?”. Women friends are next to useless for a man unless they provide “benefits” in most cases. But male friends for women provide them with a safety net of security to protect them from unwanted male attention, an emotional hub of strength for her or to provide them with family or financial support. Which guy with his eyes wide open wants to be THAT sucker with only empty promises of sex or even a sniff at her vagina?

I’m reminded of a recent night out when I approached a young woman. We were getting along great until her female friend came up and said, “You know this guy is her boyfriend, right?”. I looked to my left and saw this poor dude stood there looking a bit like the spotlight had just landed on him. It took him a couple of seconds to compose himself as he quickly realised what was going on. He puffs his chest out and tries to look a little bit protective. I knew he wasn’t her boyfriend, poor fella, but I just laughed and said, “Well, nevermind then, have a good night you guys!” and walked off. How the hell was I supposed to counter that c~~~ block? 5 minutes later the guy had also been rejected and he’d left the club, obviously thinking he’d been in with a chance, I just thought the whole thing was bulls~~~..

If you’re looking for that immediate charge of physical attraction and chemistry, then an early meeting is a must in order to avoid wasting your time. But if you’re looking for a chick with particular emotional or intellectual qualities, it actually helps to correspond. The correspondence is a crucial vetting step, just like meeting in person is a crucial vetting step for physical chemistry. If you send a thoughtful and intelligent message to a chick, and she is incapable of responding in kind (or unwilling to do so), then you know to close off that prospect and move on to the next one.

The intellectual vetting process is another way of putting a sharp challenge to a woman out front, but if you are pursuing chicks like this, the above example given by KeyMaster is not going to work. However, it could be reformulated:

Hi. There are 3 kinds of chicks here:

1. Chicks looking for freebies;
2. Chicks looking for attention, fake accounts and posers;
3. …and chicks who have something of their own to offer and are capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation.

Which one are you?

I tried a similar approach with a 20 year old yesterday. She had no profile picture or description so I told her to get them filled in and come back and talk to me. She said she was only on the site to chat, so i asked her if she’d ever met anyone from the site and if she’d be willing to meet anyone. She told me to “shut my trap”, so I took that as a “yes” and wished her good luck in her search. I don’t put smiles and kisses on the end of my chat messages anymore, just a full-stop. It sends the right message.

3 days later she messaged me again and we got talking and she told me she’d like to meet in a public place.. Seems to work.. She lacks intelligence I think though, her typing is awful and I have to give her a chance to keep the conversation alive. I’ll be damned if I’m going to be the one doing all the work in conversing with women anymore. It’s almost like a silent challenge which says, “Well? I’ve done my part.. what have YOU got?”

<cite>@crazycanuck said:</cite>
If you pay for a dating site you are a big loser, because you will need to put a lot of effort to go on a date. Too many people behind the screens. You have to realize the attractive women put little to no effort in their profile. A few hots pics and a few lines. You have to be extremely desperate to go a dating to get dates.

I don’t really trust dating sites in general because they need you single to make money. Once you find someone you no longer need their site so that is one reason I will not pay, plus my luck with women is too bad to justify paying so I just use ok cupid. I only re activated mine to in a few months from now when I have no girlfriend and have gotten no dates and can help prove to everyone I have bad luck with women so they will shut up lol. I don’t even message women. I just look at profiles and when I see something I like I add the profile to my favorites and wait. They know I looked at their profile lol. I am not going to give them the satisfaction of being one of the many guys messaging them so they can take their sweet time playing around with.

Don’t bother with paid dating sites, pretty much I have heard that people on paid sites are also on POF. POF is trash though, look at women’s profiles, it’s either average or below with crazy lists or hot women with little in their profile.

I want every guy to be a winner on here. The time you spend online looking for a woman could have been better spent in real life. A lot of people on OLD don’t even want to meet you, don’t waste your time with these people. You don’t need to spend money to meet women. Ride a bicycle, go for walks, shopping malls, library, etc.

I’m reminded of a recent night out when I approached a young woman. We were getting along great until her female friend came up and said, “You know this guy is her boyfriend, right?”. I looked to my left and saw this poor dude stood there looking a bit like the spotlight had just landed on him. It took him a couple of seconds to compose himself as he quickly realised what was going on. He puffs his chest out and tries to look a little bit protective. I knew he wasn’t her boyfriend, poor fella, but I just laughed and said, “Well, nevermind then, have a good night you guys!” and walked off. How the hell was I supposed to counter that c~~~ block? 5 minutes later the guy had also been rejected and he’d left the club, obviously thinking he’d been in with a chance, I just thought the whole thing was bulls~~~..

Sounds like you were at a bar. Bars are pretty bad choice to pick women, quality ones anyways. Bars are only good for hookups or dancing, I never even come close to having friendships let alone relationship with women at bars.

<cite>@murve said:</cite>
To be honest I’m thinking of starting again on another site. I think I’ve exhausted my list of decent women I’ve found on Benaughty.com. I’m still talking to one girl on there who seems open-minded and unspoiled but the single mothers I was talking to and the fat girls that showed more willing, I’ve not responded to and the conversation has fizzled out. I will be trying a more direct approach on a new dating site to see if any woman is willing to be challenged and have her views put under the spotlight.

I tried a similar approach with a 20 year old yesterday. She had no profile picture or description so I told her to get them filled in and come back and talk to me. She said she was only on the site to chat, so i asked her if she’d ever met anyone from the site and if she’d be willing to meet anyone. She told me to “shut my trap”, so I took that as a “yes” and wished her good luck in her search. I don’t put smiles and kisses on the end of my chat messages anymore, just a full-stop. It sends the right message.

3 days later she messaged me again and we got talking and she told me she’d like to meet in a public place.. Seems to work.. She lacks intelligence I think though, her typing is awful and I have to give her a chance to keep the conversation alive. I’ll be damned if I’m going to be the one doing all the work in conversing with women anymore. It’s almost like a silent challenge which says, “Well? I’ve done my part.. what have YOU got?”

I always get a kick out of all the chicks on these sites who claim to be “highly intelligent” and love to have “deep intellectual and philosophical conversations”. With the exception of a very select few they are almost all blithering idiots. They seem to think that if they read a Dostoyevsky novel in college or flipped through a book on psychology they are somehow now “intellectuals”. Its really a laugh riot. Especially when you meet them in the flesh. Bring up a few different or topics and they look at you like the proverbial deer in the headlights. Another thing they all claim to have is almost superhuman levels of confidence and self-esteem. Again, its all bulls~~~. One wrong word or if things dont go as they expected and they are reduced to a puddle of tears as soon as they reach home. Its all smoke and mirrors with these broads.