MGTOWDont Poke the Bear! – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 01:53:14 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/page/524/#post-2423 <![CDATA[Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/page/524/#post-2423 Thu, 21 Aug 2014 20:24:28 +0000 IggyThunders One thing that drives me absolutely insane about some women (especially younger ones) is when they flirt with you but have absolutely no intention of following through. Its what I call “Poking the Bear”. I remember a couple of years ago I was a regular at this one particular cafe. The girl who worked behind the counter was very cute, (younger than me) and would flirt with me not in a light hearted manner, but a manner that said she was available. Now many women will try and tell you (especially older guys) that you are “misinterpreting” flirting for them just “Being nice” as part of their job. This p~~~es me off beyond belief because it comes from the arrogant assumption that you are just too dumb or egotistical to tell the difference between the two! I think by this stage in my life I can tell the bloody difference between being flirted with, and some young female employee just being professional! Anyway, this girl was flirting with me (Yes. Flirting!) and then one day I called her on it. I asked her if she would like to go out and do something sometime? She smiled and said yeah, that would be great. Flash forward about a week later. After I called her twice and got no reply. What kind of f~~~ing games was she playing at? So I went to the cafe on a day I knew she would be working and she wouldnt even look at me. I may as well have been a ghost! Finally when there was a lull I asked her what was going on? Why didnt she return any of my calls and why was she acting so weird? Then the truth came out. She had a boyfriend. I asked her why she was always flirting with me? She apologized and admitted she was wrong and said she’s just a born flirt! She asked, “Dont you just flirt with girls sometimes? Its just fun. It doesnt mean it will actually come to anything. I was f~~~ing floored! I couldnt believe what I was hearing! I said yes I have done that. But only with girls who I knew I would never see again. Not someone I knew I was going to see again and again. And there is a difference between lighthearted flirting and flirting that says I am available and want you to ask me out. I told her to do herself a favor and dont poke the bears unless you mean it. Especially an older guy who doesnt get much attention from young girls anymore. What she saw as “fun” I see as sadistic and egotistical to the point of Sociopathy.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2424 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2424 Fri, 22 Aug 2014 04:29:37 +0000 Crazy Canuck I had that happen to me several times. I had one young lady always flirt with me but I didn’t take her seriously. Then one day she asked me why I didn’t ask her out and I told her I didn’t know she was interested in me. She gave me her number and I called a few days later. The funny thing was she avoided me. She gave some excuse on the phone. She would run away if she saw me. Then about a year later she shows up that she’s pregnant and wanted to hook up. Of course I declined since she treated me so rudely.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2426 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2426 Fri, 22 Aug 2014 05:51:42 +0000 Keymaster Great topic. Today’s bitches have no concept of chemistry or flirting. NONE. Flirting is an artform. It’s a goddam artform, and they are COMPLETE S~~~ AT IT. She pretends like she likes a guy when she doesn’t… and she acts like she doesn’t when she does. They all operate completely ass backwards from the way nature intended.

She’s “poking the bear” to see if the guy is interested – and no other reason. Like messaging a male “friend” on Facebook…. she just wants to put him in her “friends” bucket, and when he accepts, she complete ignores him. Just fishing to test her SMV (sexual market value) and get a creamy satisfaction out of validating herself (i.e “Yeah I can make any man to want me and respond with interest”). When you show interest, that’s all she needed to get her fix, and she moves on to the next one.

Like Mina Suvari’s character in “American Beauty”, she dials it up way too far and completely caves when it’s time to show her hand. Like bad poker players, today’s women over-ante like they were dealt a full-house, and are always holding s~~~ty cards when you call them out.

I knew a receptionist like this. Not really “attractive” but hyper-sexual body language – like adjusting her boobs while talking, and looking through her eyebrows like she is ready to be penetrated. Every guy commented on her behavior, yet when any of them asked her out, she always said “I have a boyfriend”.

How f~~~ing childish can you get?

There are 1000X better ways to say “it was just harmless flirting” than to behave like a toddler and kill the mood with “i have a boyfriend”. When any woman says that now, I just say: “That’s adorable. Let me know when you grow up and are ready for a MAN.” Then exit smiling, because you just f~~~ed her s~~~ up for the rest of the year.

The asian waitress at my local breakfast spot , the cashier at the market I go to, and the cute girl who works at the corner store ALL fit exactly the same mold. SUPER friendly, playing with her hair, flirting, testing for interest, all smiles…. and when you respond favorably to her body language, the next time you see her, she’s a block of ice.

The trick to dealing with them (and beating them at their own game) is to look put-off by it. When they are flirtatious before I have initiated, I look at them now with disgust and furrowed eyebrows, like she’s got some wires crossed, is getting the wrong message, and she should knock it off because it’s not working.

SHE: “Hey how are you? I haven’t seen you in a while!” (or whatever…)

ME: “Yeah I’ll have the ham and cheese croissant. And please make sure it’s not stale like last time.”

Just shoot her right down and don’t give her what she craves. I don’t know if you ever saw “Twilight”, but I actually watched 30 minutes of that piece of s~~~ against my own will and better judgement to see what all the hype was about. Yeah I know, I probably lost 1000 man points for that, but work me with here…..

When Bella first sees Edward, he looks at her like he’s going to puke – like she smells bad. This confuses the living s~~~ out of her and it immediately piques her interest and she goes running around looking for him to try and find out why he’s so grossed out by her.

Would she have done that had he been all smiles and playful with her? No way. Take a cue from that. The modern female is Bella. A confused and awkward f~~~wit that seeks out men who show no interest, and ignores men who do.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2431 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2431 Fri, 22 Aug 2014 07:36:48 +0000 Jim01 Yep this has happened to me before and I have learnt my lesson the hard way and now I just use basic politeness when dealing with all of these types of girls(deliberate use as women means they might be grown up)

Just an ego stroke and they want to know they still have blokes interested in them as KeyMaster says and I don’t play along anymore and there is one particular girl at my local football team behind the bar who was massively flirty with me and coming over to chat and playing with her hair and all sorts and when I started trying to initiate a bit more I got basically blanked and then I saw her flirting with other blokes the same day! Now when I see her I am just basic “two beers please” or whatever and give her the cash and when she comes over to try to get me interested again she gets basic responses to her lame questions….is like a merry go round with her and she has the mental age of a 11 year old even though she must be mid twenties

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2447 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2447 Fri, 22 Aug 2014 16:35:26 +0000 Keymaster And those games don’t let up when they get older either. You think they learn, but even in their 40s they still play the “come here go away” game. One of them tried it after she lathered on the charm, and pulled back (with her attitude) almost immediately. Complete about-face. I don’t even how that’s possible…. and I just called her out “are you still playing that game? Doesn’t that get tiring after a while? Stop it. You’re too old for that. You were too old for that when you were in your 20s.”.

She got SO p~~~ed.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2450 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2450 Fri, 22 Aug 2014 17:22:39 +0000 IggyThunders

<cite>@mgtow.com said:</cite>
And those games don’t let up when they get older either. You think they learn, but even in their 40s they still play the “come here go away” game. One of them tried it after she lathered on the charm, and pulled back (with her attitude) almost immediately. Complete about-face. I don’t even how that’s possible…. and I just called her out “are you still playing that game? Doesn’t that get tiring after a while? Stop it. You’re too old for that. You were too old for that when you were in your 20s.”.

She got SO p~~~ed.

HAHA. Thats awesome.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2484 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2484 Sat, 23 Aug 2014 19:00:12 +0000 Dkaikster There was this bitch who used to send me texts after texts and I would not reply to any of them. She would call and stay silent. Eventually it turned out that she was my cousin’s sister in law. She had told me her identity only when I promised her that I won’t place a complaint against her to anyone. I never break my promises. So, I did not. Then she called and called, texted and texted, I never replied. One day, she threatened me with a text, “I knew you won’t receive my calls. I will make you pay.”

Well, then do you know what she did? She proved how stupid women can be. She filed a complaint against me for harassment and phone sex and etc. Well, I went to the cops, and I showed them the texts she sent me (including the threat) and said only one thing, “Let’s see that bitch show you a single text that I have sent her.”

PWNAGE LEVEL EXTREME!!! Unfortunately the police asked us whether I would want to take it to the court or solve the problem ourselves. Due to my cousin nagging and my father explaining that I have pwned her well enough, I let it go. She was, after all an under 18.

Gist, bitches will try to play you and when they wont get what they want they will try to f~~~ you up.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2496 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2496 Sat, 23 Aug 2014 22:30:58 +0000 Total Lee @dkaikster Well played! No doubt about it, women are terrible losers. The same girl who plays nice will have no qualms about f~~~ing your s~~~ up as soon as she’s cornered and can’t win. Even when they are our lovers and girlfriends it’s like they are our competitors with this sick “I’ll show him!” attitude. Kick my leg and I will break yours is the way you gotta play. Like a 4 year old, they will kick your leg anyway.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2510 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dont Poke the Bear!]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dont-poke-the-bear/#post-2510 Sun, 24 Aug 2014 06:09:34 +0000 Dkaikster Well in my case, she just poked the wrong bear 🙂

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