Why do men go their own way? Why do men come to a realization in life (some later than others) that women are not to be taken seriously? Why and when do men choose to avoid marriage or even relations~~~s with women at all costs?

My theory is this……..and again it’s nothing groundbreaking. I believe that a lot of guys, starting in middle school and high school, extending throughout college, into their 20’s too, we believe that if we “say and do the right things” that some wonderful girl is going to fall in love with us and only want to be with us. That is because men are logical creatures.

So we do all the “right things” like shower the girl with compliments, buy her stuff, take her to dinners, take her to movies, talk to her on the phone for hours and hours. Many times it actually only leads to just a lot of phone talk, not even any in person stuff. No action! We figure though that we will just keep being White Knights and do all the “right things” and she will one day come to her senses and realize that we are the one and only soulmate for her.

Sometimes it takes a long time for us to realize that all the “right things” are not right at all. Why else do these women SAY that they want a nice, romantic, sweet guy………but they don’t practice what they preach. In other words, the so called nice guys end up with their dicks in their hand Saturday night after Saturday night, while the total douche’s end up taking her panties off.

It leaves us sexually frustrated but it also leaves us emotionally empty. We feel like we are missing out in life because we don’t have a girl who is in love with us and who treats us like we want to be treated.

We come to a realization that women are not logical creatures and that thinking logically (doing all the things you think you SHOULD be doing/saying) is NOT going to get you anywhere with the girl except friendzoned.

Eventually though, as they get into their 30’s and their worth goes down the drain, they realize that they need to latch on to a “nice guy”. A chump basically.

Guys who do get married……they probably feel like something ain’t right. But they stay married. They are never home, always working, never get to enjoy the fruits of their labor. While the woman is fat and happy staying at home watching Sesame Street with the kiddies. If she doesn’t get fat, then she will have options and that means meeting guys in chat rooms and doing them. She won’t feel too bad about it either because you “don’t get her”. You are too damn busy working 50 hours a week and battling 2 hours of traffic everyday to have any time for her. She grows to resent you and you probably don’t feel any love or romance for her either.

I never wanted that life for myself. I used to think I was missing out in life because I didn’t have a loving girlfriend. But now I see the fallacy of it all. What is a loving girlfriend or wife? I don’t even think such a thing truly exists, to be honest. What good could possibly come for a guy who decides to get married? I can’t think of one good thing, I truly can not.

So we go our own way. If we are lucky.

Why do men go their own way?

Because it’s only a matter of time before a man realizes the pursuit of women doesn’t PAY. It only COSTS.

Why do men come to a realization in life (some later than others) that women are not to be taken seriously?

We’ve all been socialized since the crib to pursue women, listen to them, care about them, but one experience after another – and female nature itself – reveals that women MUST not be taken seriously. They are a mass of inconsistency.

Just look at that picture. I worked very closely with – quite literally – hundreds of women over 15 years and grew up with them all around me. It was like growing up with 300 sisters. There was not one – not one female – who ever demonstrated consistency of values in her thoughts, actions or behavior. EVERYTHING is flipped on a dime to suit her. Take them seriously to your detriment.

The hypocrisy of that photo is something you can witness every day.

Where I would previously find this all very confusing and infuriating, I realized long ago they are not “difficult to figure out” as legend would have it… but there is nothing to figure out at all. They are no “deep mystery”. They are extremely shallow and empty… and their manipulations exist only to confuse you into thinking there must me more to them. But there isn’t. They will get you to chase your own tail – using any means necessary – to prevent you from discovering this about them.

For when you finally do… it’s GAME OVER for them.

This is why +30 / +40 / +50 YO women are extremely miserable, because they know they’ve been made. They can’t get away with it anymore. They are very quiet and not as bold with a 40+ man. They know men are onto them. By 40, a red pill man with much experience has completely de-programmed himself. What used to work to infuriate and confuse him in his 20s fails now, and he smiles and shrugs her off as a insignificant insect.

Why and when do men choose to avoid marriage or even relations~~~s with women at all costs?

Again…. Because it’s only a matter of time before a man realizes the pursuit of women doesn’t PAY. It only COSTS.

But here’s where it gets interesting. I am not totally opposed to a relationship with women – or even marriage. But the female idea of a relationship and marriage is only HER idea of it. HIS ideas are a non-consideration. Switch that around and watch happens. Let women know you are totally into it!… but the term’s and conditions will now be MINE. There will be no running from relationships or marriage, because we don’t have to.

We can draft up our own relationship and marriage terms and conditions ….and you’ll see women run for the hills screaming.

It is the perfect out.

“OH HELL YEAH I WOULD TOTALLY GET MARRIED!!!!” and then hand her my fully-drafted marriage contract with a pen. Right at the top, it says “you will shut the f~~~ and stop talking whenever I request it”. Of course women think I’m f~~~ing kidding. But I’m not kidding. It’s right at the top for a reason. Compared to all the s~~~ you demand and expect from me to keep you “happy”….. shutting the f~~~ up and not talking requires less effort and energy than even applying lipstick. It asks virtually NOTHING from you. Any woman who is not willing to DO NOTHING to please her man…. is simply not marriagble.

Whenever the topic of marriage comes up, I don’t run from it (or object loudly) anymore. I shove my terms and conditions into her face with all the enthusiasm I can muster and LAUGH as she scurries away like a terrified c~~~roach. For she has just been busted as totally incapable of forming a lasting bond with.

It serves no purpose.

After the “Three Sisters” incident I earnestly began to explore the nature of all this s~~~. One day I was watching the cat that my last wife left me with when she left to find greener pastures and more potent crack. I observed as he stood on his hind legs and reached up to turn a door handle, open the door, and go into the next room. I laughed as I recalled that allegedly cats and pigs have the logical reasoning ability of a two year old child.

As I realized the voluminous similarities between a cat and a female the lights came on and my life hasn’t been the same since. Females, regardless of age, are children. With the exception of a very few bona fide women that you guys call “NAWALT’s,”  females simply do not grow up mentally. Ever. To coexist with them you have to manage the relationship as if you were in a relationship with a two year old. The problem becomes not letting them know what you’re doing. If you told a woman that you consider her to be an emotional and intellectual pre-teen, do you think you’ll ever get another blow job?

So to answer your question, I do not want to marry or get into a relationship with a teenager. My goal in life is not to be a 24/7/365 babysitter! And guys, their chronological age doesn’t matter! A 50 year old female is going to pout the same as a 20-something that’s going to pout the same as a 5 year old female. The slight differences are moot and inconsequential. You name the situation-expression of anger, handling rejection, unfulfilled desires-all work the same way regardless of true age. Just watch them…you’ll see what I mean.

A 50 year old female is going to pout the same as a 20-something

Yup. And who the hell wants a 50 year old female anyway. 😉

Fang wrote:

A 50 year old female is going to pout the same as a 20-something

Yup. And who the hell wants a 50 year old female anyway.

With all due respect, I would totally go for that 50 year old BowFlex commercial Grandma.  I would need lots of lube as she prob doesnt get wet anymore lol.

But yea, Id tap that, no shame,

My father is 75, he’s tapping 45-55 year olds, he’s in Eastern Europe, so it’s a different game over there. I’ll do 50 year olds when I’m 75+, until then I’m happy with sub 30’s while I still can, although the attitude of westernized bitches, makes me long for Eastern Europe, and f~~~s with my head no end. I’m celibate here in Melbourne, because the attitudes of women that barely pass the f~~~able standard are intolerable. Basically I’ve decided it’s just simply not worth it. Besides after experiencing the best young hot women that are so friendly, and pleasant, I simply can’t fake interest in pretentious, over inflated, spoiled, average looking beach whales. The problem is men just don’t have self respect here in the west.

I’m 60 and only accept girls in their 20s and 30s.

Living in Asia is great.