MGTOWDating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up. – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 11:18:58 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/page/296/#post-67664 <![CDATA[Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/page/296/#post-67664 Mon, 15 Jun 2015 10:39:09 +0000 Batouttahell I dated the same complaining, manipulative, cry-baby, spoiled, delusional girl for the past seven years. She is still hot as f~~~, I’ll give her that.We used to be happy. I am 30, she is 32. After her 30th birthday the topic of marriage and kids started to boil to the surface on a WEEKLY basis. I managed to convince her to lay off the subject for a year. But then came her 31st birthday and all the crazy-talk about having kids came back with a vengeance. I have been living in anxiety because I always thought marriage was bulls~~~ and the thought of kids is meh. I was blue pill up until about 6 months ago.

She just turned 32 and has been pressing the marriage and kids button all the time. I finally found the courage, in a big way thanks to MGTOW, to tell her <b>NO</b>. There will be no marriage and there will be no kids. We are now breaking up. I didn’t want to break up, she could not deal with my decision. I am now free. Thanks guys, I will be single from here on out. I feel emotionally drained but also liberated. Its like the chick is hardwired to get married and have kids and no logical arguement will suffice to show her otherwise. She had it good, I did everything I could to make her happy. I won’t look back. Thanks MGTOW, you saved me from a slow death of sexless agony. I will now be rock climbing way more often and working on my business to take off.

Best wishes.

Batouttahell.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-67671 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-67671 Mon, 15 Jun 2015 10:51:26 +0000 ILiveAgain Take some ‘you’ time now brother. Just let everything settle.

Maybe take a vacation.

I know it was hard and you probably feel raw …. but wounds heal and life will now be worth living.

Strength ☺

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-67749 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-67749 Mon, 15 Jun 2015 12:59:27 +0000 RoyDal Congratulations! You have cast off your shackles and chains.

You will discover you have time money to yourself that you never knew was there. Spend them wisely, and on you for a change.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69047 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69047 Wed, 17 Jun 2015 19:06:31 +0000 kbbroiler Good for you Bat. However, be aware she might start using feelers to make you jealous and whatever you do don’t give in to her demands. You’ve been on this site and you know the deal with female nature. She will use her sexuality to other guys to try to make you jealous and trap you. You know the end result giving in to her demands. It’s a life of imprisonment and slavery. Be strong.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69383 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69383 Thu, 18 Jun 2015 04:52:12 +0000 ThomasQuinn Their is no logical sense in the current marriage contract other then to please the woman. For whatever reason she needs this contract in order to be “happy” which is sad but typical of woman. You are extremely lucky she didn’t trap you with a kid after 7 years. And congrats on not being trapped into the worst contract known to man.

Imagine if she had set higher goals for herself in life instead of just getting married and having kid(s) which is all supportted by the man .

 

 

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69460 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69460 Thu, 18 Jun 2015 08:37:10 +0000 experienced Only one person in the “marriage xtract” agrees to do anything: the male and the male only. IOW you chose wisely.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69465 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69465 Thu, 18 Jun 2015 08:59:52 +0000 BrainPilot congrat’s bat,

It sounds as if you’ve achieved (at least for a while) a fair and equitable relationship with a woman… where both of you brought something of equal value to the table, and both of you left with with what you brought.  Two equal parties in a relationship of equal mutual benefit of each other’s company where neither had to pay the other for participating.

In retrospect, you broke even.  You were in a relationship with a woman and you neither profited or lost anything from it.  Financially, you are exactly where you would have been had the relationship never occurred.  Yet, we celebrate this as a victory for you, and her and her friends will lament this as a disappointing loss for her.  She ‘only’ broke even.

Think on that for a while…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69488 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69488 Thu, 18 Jun 2015 10:18:48 +0000 FullMetalExo A great example for me, If I ever consider dating. Great job man ! Enjoy your life !

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]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69688 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69688 Thu, 18 Jun 2015 17:18:41 +0000 Batouttahell Thanks for all the support guys. I have been checking back here on a regular basis. It really helps to know there is a whole network of MGTOWs that think alike. Thinking back now, I dated for way too long. A lot of it was fun, great sex, traveling to diferent countries. But f~~~, I forgave her for too much s~~~.

For example:

This year in december one of my best friends suddenly passed away from a heart anomaly. I met him only six months prior. Just a fantastic friendship that no woman will ever understand. We just hit it off and always had a great time together talking s~~~ and walking around. After he passed I was in grief for a couple of weeks, her reaction was “you only met him six months ago”. I mean f~~~, f~~~ her, insensitive bitch, f~~~ that s~~~. I always supported her, and when I needed her only onBce, after seven years of being there for her, throughout all her moods, she was a bitch.(runnon sentence)

I thought about dumping her on the spot, but as I was an emotional wreck for those few days, I forgave her. F~~~ that.

Never let a BITCH walk all over your feelings. Be a man. Be MGTOW. I will never let something like that happen again.

God speed

Bat.

]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69702 <![CDATA[Reply To: Dating for 7 years, ultimatum was kids and marriage or a break-up.]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/dating-for-7-years-ultimatum-was-kids-and-marriage-or-a-break-up/#post-69702 Thu, 18 Jun 2015 18:04:38 +0000 Knights Templar Rising Don’t you know, once you get fully seduced, that your friends become disposable?  But her friends are “BFFs for life”!

Sovereignty above all else.

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