MGTOWCan MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/feed/ Mon, 08 Jun 2020 17:52:28 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/page/465/#post-14886 <![CDATA[Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/page/465/#post-14886 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 02:40:27 +0000 RayBandaku I am wondering if any one here has a close friend who is a women.  Is that a bad idea for a MGTOW man.  What are the danger’s of having a close women friend.

The reason I am asking is as man I do meet business women and they think like men and I don’t mind talking to them.  Some times I wonder Am I going too far by avoiding all women or is there exceptions.  Keep in mind I am not interested in having a girl friend or have sex with her, just as friend.  I am not sure which way to think about this.  Any MGTOW men hang out with women as friends.

Please share your views on this.  Can a MGTOW man be a close friend with a women?  Yes or No, why or why not.  Thanks for sharing.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14888 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14888 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 03:17:41 +0000 Yes you can be close friends, but I don’t recommend it. I have been in the “friend zone” with a few different women, be as nice as you want by all means, each and every female friendship I had failed dismally in spite my efforts, Man was I a f~~~ing tool….

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14892 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14892 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 04:15:11 +0000 TheBard I would say yes. I am close friends with 2 women I work with and I have known them for almost a year. We often hang out outside of work and have fun together. One thing that helps though is they are 40 years old and I am only 27. They are cute, but there is no desire to date them since they are 13 years older then me plus they already have boyfriends anyway. Another thing that helps is that are are MGTOW friendly women. When we go out we always pay our own way, when I have mentioned women like Anita Sarkeesian to them they laugh, and even though they have boyfriends they never bring them to our outings because it is our time. One time one of the women’s boyfriends just happen to be in the same shopping center as us and she saw him and brought him in to introduce us. When I joked about joining us she said “no go away work people only lol” and not that I would care if their boyfriend joining us they want to have just work friend time alone and they also understand their boyfriends need male time alone as well. So if you don’t have any sexual desires to be with these women and they aren’t a pain in the ass like many women are today then I say you can easily have female friends you are close with.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14902 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14902 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 06:21:52 +0000 Keymaster I’m not gonna sugarcoat this Ray, and I hope you’ve come to understand that means I like you….. but no, you f~~~ing can’t be friends with women. Women are WAY too sex-obsessed for that. And if she’s not f~~~ing you, you don’t mean anything to her.

Unless she picks up the phone to call you on your birthday or treats you as well as your male friends (no woman ever did that) then she’s not your friend. I have a friend who calls me every 2-3 weeks just to say hi and because we haven’t hung out for a while. So I grab my jacket and we go have fish and chips – or something. That’s a friend. He will ask about my car and want to see the engine, and then we stand there for a few minutes talking about the car, the horsepower, how fast it goes etc. When in the history of f~~~ did a female ever take interest in anything that wasn’t herself?

You can’t be friends with someone who’s obsessed with taking about themselves.
If the subject is not HER, women are “bored” – all the f~~~ing time.

When a woman “friend” goes out with you she’s so obsessed about the no sex going on that you just can’t have a conversation with this person. Don’t kid yourself. In her mind, you’re not a “friend”…. you’re a “guy she’s not f~~~ing”.

( See the difference? )

When someone asks her “so who was the guy I saw you at the movies with?”, she doesn’t say “His name is Ray and he’s a blast to hang out with”. No. She totally obsessed with letting everyone know that she’s NOT having sex with you. “Oh he’s just a friend” – emphasis on “JUST”. JUST a friend. She doesn’t even tell them your NAME!!

I don’t introduce my friend as “JUST” a friend. I say “This is Andy”. I don’t make a big deal out of telling other people that I am NOT sucking his dick. Only women do that.

• “Oh he’s JUST a friend”
• “Oh it’s not like that…”
• “He’s not my boyfriend”
• “Just a guy I know”
• “Don’t get any ideas”
• “He’s a great guy he just doesn’t do it for me”.

She’s totally obsessed with telling herself (and everyone) that she’s NOT f~~~ing you. I don’t want some chick talking about me like that. As far as women are concerned there are only 2 kinds of guys in the world. Guys she IS f~~~ing…. and guys she is NOT f~~~ing. And that’s why you can’t be “friends” with chicks.

In her mind, you’re not a friend.
You’re *just* a guy she’s not f~~~ing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14908 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14908 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 07:01:36 +0000 Stargazer Good words, KeyMaster. Now I going to have to pay attention to how the females I know introduce me!

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14911 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14911 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 07:23:49 +0000 Keymaster

You can’t be friends with someone who’s obsessed with taking about themselves.
If the subject is not HER, women are “bored” – all the f~~~ing time.

That’s it! My god that’s it. That is it right there. Jesus almighty more perfect words were never spoken.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14912 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14912 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 07:29:04 +0000 Keymaster MIKE!!! OMG Lollololololol “My Cocaine” = Michael Caine. lollolololzozlzolzozlzolz

F~~~ , I’m dying over here.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14914 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14914 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 07:40:49 +0000 Keymaster Young man, I saw it in your little movie “the Awakening”. “Mycocaine” was in the end credits and I about had a heart attack from laughing myself senseless. I had to join. Master Keymaster. Mycocaine at your service.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14918 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14918 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 08:13:05 +0000 Jim01 for me personally yes. I get on really well with a woman at work and we do the occasional game of football that involves lots of booze and we always have a great time plus we have each other’s backs at work

I am the same with Bard where there is an age gap so there isn’t any awkwardness or anything like that. For me being MGTOW is about relationships and pointing out to dumb feminist women their hypocrisy but that doesn’t mean I can’t get on with them

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14923 <![CDATA[Reply To: Can MGTOW man ever be close friends with a women? Is that even Possible]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/can-mgtow-man-ever-be-close-friends-with-a-women-is-that-even-possible/#post-14923 Wed, 14 Jan 2015 08:35:58 +0000 Keymaster That’s amazing I really ALWAYS feel there is some sexual tension there. Only twice that I can recall being “friends” with none of that awkwardness. BUT after a while the one grew to be “into me” .. even though I wasn’t. (So she didn’t count she was also +10 years older) And the other wasn’t really a “friend” for all the reasons I mentioned above. We just hung out as a convenience thing “wanna get a coffee?” yeah ok.. that kind of thing. Never exchanged Christmas gifts or anything.

Otherwise I get along with them just fine., but it’s always an unspoken understanding she’s a she, and Im a he and we always end up talking about her. Now if a conversation comes up, I just ask her something about herself and just shut up and let her blab.

The first question out of a female’s mouth is ALWAYS about “are you seeing anyone?”, “who are you dating?”, “when are you getting married?”. If it were possible to be friends with women they would first have to show an interest in something neutral. But it’s ALWAYS relationship / sex s~~~ – and about HER.

When I hear guys say “oh yeah man totally friends with like 10 chicks” , no offense meant here, but it reads like complete bulls~~~. Leykis has a theory the guys are just friends with her because they want to nail her. That seems more realistic to me.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
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