First they show you old pictures. These pictures were from a time in their life before all of the crisps and mac n’ cheese.

Next, they mirror you and your beliefs, talk you up real good. That way you match up with all of these “dimensions of compatibility” and s~~~.

Then, when you meet them you’re faced with a dilemma. For me this dilemma has vanished because I have broken through the moral nut of this. See they want you to think that having preferences is “shallow” I’m not f~~~ing fat. That avatar is a current picture of me. So how could it possibly be shallow to want a woman who is at least a size 12 or under? It’s not. Moving forward I demand this of any woman who wishes to partake in little Rob’s company.

After you confront this they go into all the mind games of how the number on the scale doesn’t equate to their value as a person. Then in the next breath she’s complaining that I don’t wanna have sex with her. It’s interesting how they can reconcile the two things. It comes down to abstracting the weight away from the obesity. The earth’s gravitational pull has nothing to do with having t~~~ on your back and a belly that hangs over your snatch, honey. I can’t say that else we go into the realm of name calling. That still doesn’t remove the truth from it. She could weigh 400 pounds but if she was built nicely I wouldn’t notice. The weight is irrelevant. That is the technique though. She told me I need to stop chasing an “ideal”. In reality, she’s the only woman anywhere near her size that I’ve attempted to f~~~. Moped. Sigh….

Then we have to add in “fat shaming”. Somehow in this politically correct bulls~~~ time we live, this has become bad. How the f~~~ is it bad to point out to someone that when their heart is coated in 5 pounds of fat that it taxes their circulatory system? The extra weight creates all sorts of health problems, it’s taxing on your back, the bad food choices that lead to the obesity also bring on adult onset diabetes. It all comes back to making good choices for yourself: self f~~~ing respect. If a woman doesn’t respect herself, how the f~~~ can she respect me or anyone, for that matter?

Then from there they transition into the anorexic chick looking in the mirror, see herself as being fat, when in reality she is dangerously underweight. Apples and oranges in my opinion. What about all the super heroes and comic book guys being all crazy buff? They all look like they’re on steroids. That’s not attainable either for most. You just have to have the sense to realize that and live your life for you.

What it boils down to is that she needs a guy who likes fat chicks, a chubby chaser if you will. As soon as she admits that happiness and a life full of crisps and sex will ensue. 😉

I’d never start a relationship with a woman who had only her vagina to offer me and I keep my distance when we’re not near a bed. It’s not shallow, it’s just that she’s never taken the time to develop herself as a person or even try to really understand what the world is about or step out of her messed up reality. I don’t feel like getting to know her world because I would probably be entering a world of insecurity, shame and despair and I am not a therapist. And if I was, I wouldn’t do that s~~~ for free..

I’ll never be a slave to attractive women again, there’s plenty more vagina without having to jump through hoops to get it and there are always prostitutes if fat chicks don’t do it for you. They are cheaper in the short run.

[EDIT] For me, fat chicks have to have a pretty face and filthy mind or the deal is off..

She moved in. I offered because she had a problem with the room she was renting. The landlord wasn’t paying the mortgage and about to be kicked out. We were getting along so well so it seemed ok at the time. I knew she came with a cat. Later on her ex kicked her daughter out. I let her daughter move in. Then, after a few months she let’s her daughter get a cat. I found out by seeing the cat in the upstairs window. She never even consulted me. I can go on. 😉

Once you give them a few bucks they expect it.They become entitled to your money after that. She was no different. Whenever I had something I need to talk to her about that i didn’t like, she’d storm off and instead of having a discussion. I don’t have time for this s~~~ was the line I think…..

So ex-wives are getting the kids and using the excuse that they can’t get a job to look after them, therefore relying on men to look after them. Not to mention child support, even when a man can’t get access to his children. So feminism places the power in the woman’s hands and the responsibility in the man’s hands and women believe this is their right.

I’m deviating here.. If a man calls another man fat, it’s called honesty or a joke. If a man calls a woman fat, he’s called a chauvinist.

This especially sucks at my age. Most women wear two tons of make-up and adamantium re-enforced undergarments to make themselves look presentable.

I’ve seen some train wrecks when the clothes come off.

I’ve seen this effect in full force on EH, when they are seriously trying to get a LTR or marriage. Aerial photos are very popular, along  with shots where they strike a pose facially at an angle with their cheeks sucked in.

I recently met one girl that pulled this, she was pretty much the opposite of everything she listed once we met. Even after several phone conversations up too the meet it was like night and day. She listed herself as non-smoker, never married, patient, caring, intellectual and into physical activities. Her pics showed the obvious trick shots but where so good they still hid the proverbial tip of the fat iceberg. Sucked in cheeks, face only shots, and one areal photo (wearing a black outfit) to obscure the weight.

When we met though, she was probably twice my weight, smoked like a chimney, admitted to being divorced, and did not have a patient temperament. Its as if these women list who they want to be as opposed to who they actually are….wait that’s exactly what there doing. She also ate like a pig.

And that’s what kills it for most women, they have almost lost all capacity to be honest and real about who they are and what there expectations should be. Its like they think once they get you into a date, then you will have to over look the weight for fear of being labeled  an asshole (they couldn’t possibly think they will loose all the weight the few days before they meet you….can they?).

Again, its not a question really of weight, its the blatant obvious lying. Like we should just deal with it because “women just lie I guess, derpy derp, thanks for choosing me honey!”.