I understand this is a men’s forum and I respect that,

No you don’t. If you had any concept of “respect”, you wouldn’t be here at all. You don’t barge into the men’s room unwelcome and uninvited and say “I know this is the men’s room and I respect that”. That’s perfect example of disrespecting boundaries. Unfathomable that you would need this explained to you. Don’t toss the word respect around like a frisbee when you don’t know what it means. Forget respect. You’re even short on basic decency.

Strict policy. No exceptions. It’s all over the place and you know it.

Leave.

Too bad women are never c~~~s to themselves.

Get out.

I’ll start off by saying that I am a woman. I wound up lurking a bit here by following a few links, and I’ve been reading some things I completely agree with, and some things that have me intruiged. Let me assure you, I’m not here to fight or attempt to prove anything or change anyone’s opinions. A lot of what is posted were at one time my exact perspective on men. I’d like to discuss this with you guys here, respectfully, if that is okay. I understand this is a men’s forum and I respect that, so I will keep my posts to this thread only and not intrude on others discussions, as my contributions would be biased and defensive. If the membership here is willing, I’ll tell you more about myself (with brutal honesty, it’s not all pretty…at all) and why I’m seeking a discussion here. I’m not a feminist, btw. I have no dog in gender war, anymore, at least. My thoughts are that crappy people are crappy people. I’ll apologize ahead of time for the lack of paragraph breaks in my posts, I post from my phone because I don’t have access to a computer. Again, I’m not here to fight, just talk.

Stopped reading there.

This is so typical and I have experienced this in real life. They come in all open, understanding and rationale but we all know it’s just a mask til the real manipulative s~~~ fight begins. I’ve been in these trenches too many times, I’m life/female and battle hardened now and can smell the bulls~~~ a mile away. You turned up to a battle of wits “love” unarmed.

Damn right.

Didn’t delete her at first on purpose. JUST TO SEE if she had the decency to leave on her own. This is the kind fist-in-a-velvet-glove c~~~ who starts out all “nice” and pretending to be “considerate”…. “I’m not interested in arguing or fighting”…. oh yes she is. Every word is bulls~~~ and I thank her for proving it.

I actually took $20 out of my pocket and bet myself she wouldn’t f~~~ off.

WINNING!

They want to discuss “relationship issues”? You discuss it with the person you’re in a relationship WITH – AND NOBODY ELSE. Especially a bunch of strangers online. This is 2 out of 2 bitches who showed up here to do that. That’s retarded and explains why it’s not working for bitches like this. Total failures in their personal lives. If my girlfriend didn’t discuss s~~~ with me and I found out she discussed it in an online “MEN ONLY” forum…. I would take her f~~~ing purse and throw it FAR into the street. “Better go get it!” When she runs out screaming after it (and they always do), I would bolt the door behind her and not even mail her her shoes.

This is like an epidemic, where women talk to EVERYBODY – the hairdresser, mother, “friends” – everybody except the guy they are actually in a relationship with. It’s remarkable.

I’m a women……..I want some perspectives on some pretty heavy relational issues (deeper than boyfriend advice), not to bash men or women.

Answer:

Take a good hard look in the mirror and fully appreciate and understand that your psychological projection(s) on other humans is the key issues to your problems.

Your posting here, showed it with absolute and utter clarity!