I digress though – enough about me.  Let’s talk about the anger you feel.   Don’t give her the satisfaction of letting the hate / rage / (fill in the blank here) eat you alive.   A forum like this is very cathartic indeed.  In my experience – I have found that having hobbies, friends, family and other means of outlets to let off steam is great.  You have been hurt – it is time to heal.   The best thing you can do for yourself is move on, heal and count your blessings (sorry – I don’t mean to get ‘churchy’ but I find comfort / strength in that area).  The worst thing you can do to her is move on and heal.  She will hate the fact that – yes – you CAN survive without her.

Take care of YOU FIRST others in your life can damn-well wait (yeah- I swear too – not real ‘churchy’ eh??).

In my experience, it usually takes about twice as long to get over a bitch as the time spent…so what if it lingers on? let that be your motivation to never f~~~ up again. never be broke again. never be WEAK again. Violence is never an answer. financial and mental freedom ARE. clean up the room, the car, get a better job, feed solid information into your head and build your confidence. it works, trust me.

YMMV…

Typical 9-5 job: Me: “Sorry miss, we don’t have any _____ in stock”
Her: “WHAT THE F~~~? I came here to this f~~~ing store for ____ and you assholes don’t have it! I want to speak to a manager. You are a piece of s~~~.
Me: Sorry, I can get you my manager…

Example 2:

Her: Where is all the shopping carts?
Me: Sorry, We are very busy right now, they are all in use or in the parking lot.
Her: Then why the f~~~ aren’t they in the store?
Me: Our employees are getting them right now maam.
Her: NO THEY ARENT! I WAS JUST OUT THERE!!!
*Literally 5 seconds after she says that an employee walks in with 50 shopping carts*
Her: About DAMN TIME!
Me: F~~~ my life.

Point is. Women will bitch about everything….and I can’t handle it in a relationship or at the work place. They are so f~~~ing stupid and illogical. Instead of going outside and getting their own f~~~ing cart, they will stand there for 20 minutes bitching me out why there is none. I wish I could have just told her to go grab her own f~~~ing cart. Nope. She would rather waste time and blame the man. LOL

The trick, of course, is how to deal with them. Much ink has been spilled over that one, but no one has bettered the ancient philosophers, not Dr. Phil even.

Speaking for myself, whatever emotion I’m having now, if I wait a while, it will be replaced with another probably its opposite.

I must admit – I am one of those males that acts ‘tough’ even when I feel like crying.  I guess the programming during my childhood was successful.

A major reason men get angry more than women is that anger is really the only emotion that is recognized as valid in men. When a man is angry, people are likely to at least try to figure out what the f~~~ is wrong

That’s completely untrue. “Anger” is the number one way to be on the receiving end of an endless barrage of “shaming tactics“. It is actually dismissed as unimportant and crossed off as “whining” especially when it is totally justifiable. When men are treated unfairly or in an unjust manner, and he expresses his displeasure…. you know what they say?

• “you’re just bitter”
• Man up and take it like a man
• don’t be a such wimp
• Poor cry baby probably has a tiny little penis.
• You probably can’t get laid.
• What are you a F~~???

…you know exactly what the f~~~ I’m talking about.

If anger in men were taken seriously there would be none of that endless stream of horses~~~. Do this often enough and a man will snap. We see this on the news every once in a while too. When a man is so wronged and angry he will lose his s~~~ because nobody gives a s~~~ about his unjust treatment.

Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice.
The population who don’t agree (when a man is angry) is staggering.

Even when he lashes out because he’s THAT f~~~ing angry… he gets totally dismissed as “crazy”.

When a group of women get together in a MADD meeting (mothers against drunk drivers) and one of them is furious and crying, do people walk into that meeting and say “you’re just bitter”??? Do we tell her to “woman up and take it like a woman?”. Do we tell her she must be a lesbian with a large vagina who lives in her mothers basement?

I believe that makes the point.

Not paying attention when men are angry is very serious f~~~ing problem. It’s a goddam cultural epidemic.