MGTOWAn Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation – MGTOW https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/feed/ Tue, 09 Jun 2020 12:31:25 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=2.5.14-6684 en-US https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/page/370/#post-43659 <![CDATA[An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/page/370/#post-43659 Fri, 24 Apr 2015 13:21:20 +0000 SMAD Hey All,

A massive moment of epiphany has swept over me.  A bit of waffle but here goes:

At the moment, I am trying to fix my printer as its being a s~~~.  Now, as a man, I want to work at fixing it and keep trying and making my own mistakes etc.  Eventually, I know I will succeed in some form.  When men DO succeed at tasks, that soothes and satisfies a massive part of our MASCULINE drive.  That feeling of “f~~~ yes, I got it working – I am useful.  I have purpose”

So, when a female comes along and calls out something like “I know how to fix this…have you tried this….etc”  – This is unsolicited advice.

The woman has basically come along and taken a massive s~~~ on our masculinity and she has shown no appreciation for what we are trying to do.  So f~~~ing what if I am doing something wrong, backwards, or in an unorthodox way.  This is my process as a man.  As long as the end result is the same, that’s what I am interested in!

Now, if I (and I imagine basically most men out there) genuinely get stuck at something, THEN we will ask for help / partners etc.  When we do it like that, we are genuinely seeking help and in return, we show RESPECT and LOVE to our partner – which is what they f~~~ing harp on about.  As long as they don’t make comments like “I could have told you that from the start” – then a woman would get my respect and in return, I would appreciate them for letting me work through my masculine process.

So, combined with The Holy Hand Grenade by Thorium on Youtube —> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vtGnEOUQtRY&feature=youtu.be (Main points from 7:00 onwards IMO)

When women interfere with our masculine process, we just think “f~~~s sake, what use was I then?” – This builds resentment.  We do not feel appreciated.  When a woman does this, she is basically saying “I clearly don’t need you.”

And, as the Holy Hand Grenade says….”Women say they don’t need a man, so men start to believe it and they respond with I don’t need you either.

How can we be the men you want us to be when we aren’t even appreciated for our efforts-right OR wrong?

Now, for women at work doing more masculine jobs, my only problem there is that basically, women are coming in and not letting Men work out their processes and not appreciating what men have done for hundreds and thousands of years.  If we, as men, make crap mistakes and cost a company millions, well, that’s on our heads.  We will take responsibility for our actions, good or bad.  Then we move and try something else, etc.

So, now women ask me “where have all the good men gone?”  My answer is:

“We aren’t f~~~ing interested – you can pick and choose between the competing alphas trying to f~~~ everyone and the supplicant beta’s who will crawl over broken glass to lick your axe wound.”

I am SO glad I found this MGTOW forum.  The internet is wonderful – it has allowed so much, especially modern men to communicate together from around the world.  I finally feel like it is no longer “me being difficult and weird.”

As always, I look forward to comments and discussion.

 

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-43665 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-43665 Fri, 24 Apr 2015 13:36:46 +0000 Sam Raven Very insightful post that told me the real reasons why this happened to me also. It is in a way a theft of one’s own ability as a man to do his part to built society when women come along and talk to you that way like they know what to do. Its like being treated as a child by an authoritative and condescending mother who controlled your sexuality and made you feel guilty about being male.

Having a nasty temper with a non-existent protective fuse that puts the fear in them helps a lot. Plus not giving a f~~~ if they try their ‘not getting laid tonight’ bulls~~~. Don’t let oneself be emotionally held hostage by a woman’s STD infested ‘Borehole to Hell’ between her legs.

‘Heart’ or ’emotional’ control is what runs feminism and by extension, the male lackeys a.k.a. manginas/ stilleto-lickers/white knights, and its worse than ‘mind’ control because emotions are a step up above thoughts of the mind. Women are easier to manipulate by emotional control. This is the fundamental mechanism behind women taking feminism hook, line and sinker.

As for women’s pathetic male lackeys, consider them expendable.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-43734 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-43734 Fri, 24 Apr 2015 17:22:48 +0000 dav Yup. I’ve never seen a woman actually fix a printer. Restock the paper and power it off and on – yes seen that.

Anything above and beyond that they will have to find a man to whinge to about it.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44230 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44230 Sun, 26 Apr 2015 02:11:39 +0000 Rennie

Hey All, A massive moment of epiphany has swept over me. A bit of waffle but here goes: At the moment, I am trying to fix my printer as its being a s~~~. Now, as a man, I want to work at fixing it and keep trying and making my own mistakes etc. Eventually, I know I will succeed in some form. When men DO succeed at tasks, that soothes and satisfies a massive part of our MASCULINE drive. That feeling of “f~~~ yes, I got it working – I am useful. I have purpose”.

Can certainly relate to that. Fixed a timekeeper battery, I had actually had it working after years of having a dead battery. Unfortunately I decided to perfect it and I did, but it became too fragile and broke irreparably. It worked but erratically. However I did get the satisfaction of seeing it work and it’s always immensely satisfying when you do something you didn’t think you could do.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44302 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44302 Sun, 26 Apr 2015 05:44:39 +0000 Sam Raven

Can certainly relate to that. Fixed a timekeeper battery, I had actually had it working after years of having a dead battery. Unfortunately I decided to perfect it and I did, but it became too fragile and broke irreparably. It worked but erratically. However I did get the satisfaction of seeing it work and it’s always immensely satisfying when you do something you didn’t think you could do.

Recently I made a makeshift parabolic dish with aluminium foil wrapped around a kitchen dome-shaped sieve and used it to boost reception for radio, part of experimenting with radio.

During this time I observed myself being very focused on my work and was able to do it without being distracted. I thought it was awesome that it did work, if only partially.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44392 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44392 Sun, 26 Apr 2015 13:03:37 +0000 SMAD

However I did get the satisfaction of seeing it work and it’s always immensely satisfying when you do something you didn’t think you could do.

During this time I observed myself being very focused on my work and was able to do it without being distracted. I thought it was awesome that it did work, if only partially.

Exactly.  And women make us feel s~~~ or try to take this feeling away from us?

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44422 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44422 Sun, 26 Apr 2015 14:59:45 +0000 - Deleted on Request - SMAD:

 

Don’t you know?  Real men don’t have to do that sort of thing.  They have enough $$$ that they either throw those machines out and buy new ones or they pay someone else do fix them.

 

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https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44627 <![CDATA[Reply To: An Epiphany On Masculine Appreciation]]> https://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/an-epiphany-on-masculine-appreciation/#post-44627 Mon, 27 Apr 2015 00:43:47 +0000 Mendokusai Had an episode at work with my fetard manager,told her that it makes more sense to come in on afternoons and go out on days (we are on a three week on/one week off rotation). Well ,she didn’t take that sitting down let’s say with accusations of undermining her authority to yelling “I’m the f~~~ing boss here” but you know what? In the end she saw the logic of it and quietly let us do our thing-with out a sorry or even I see your point.

F~~~ I hate working for womin!

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